In our real life, there are many cases of such extramarital affairs. When a man has money, he will bread his lover outside and look for a mistress. even abandoned the family and reorganized the family with the mistress. As a result, many women think that men will become bad if they are rich. Is that the truth?That's not the case.
Of course, the fact that a rich man is looking for a mistress is true, but it is not entirely for the sake of the mistress that he abandons his family.
The reasons for this can be analyzed from the following reasons:
01. Men are not looking for mistresses because they meet their physiological needs
Generally speaking, the more successful people are generally over the age of thirty-five, and men at this age have weakened basic physiological needs and do not have the strong desires of youth. In other words, rich men looking for mistresses and engaging in extramarital affairs are not completely seeking excitement and novelty. After all, in this regard, a man's desire is greatly reduced, and it is not because of Xiao San's appearance that attracts him.
I often hear the original partner of extramarital affairs say: "I don't know what's good about that junior?."People are not beautiful, older than me, no matter in terms of appearance and age, they can't compare to me, I don't know if I lost in **?”
Yes, it's clear that the junior is not as good-looking as himself, why does his husband just like this junior?It's really worth pondering for us women.
02. Men are emotionally internal friction at home
I have heard many men say that in fact, their marriage is not happy at all, they are very depressed, and their emotions have been consumed. Because of the wife's sensitivity and many requirements, the husband feels really disgusted. But because I don't have money, many times I endure the helplessness in my heart, but I can't vent it. At home, there is no status, no dignity. I can't get the understanding and care of my wife, and I don't feel the warmth of family.
I've read a very heart-wrenching sentence: How many men?After work, when I get to the door, I'd rather smoke a cigarette in the car or play a few games than go inside. Or, this can explain how much this man wants to escape from this home.
03. The women outside are considerate in every way to make men feel warm
Because the man lacks love at home, the woman he meets outside is gentle and considerate to him, and he cares for him, so that he feels the love he has never had, and instantly thinks that he has found true love, so he will be with this woman with all his heart. Even if he abandons his wife and children, or leaves the house, he will do his best for this woman. Because he feels that in this world, only this woman can give him the most real home, and only she can understand himself best.
Judging from the above points, after a man has money, leaving his wife is actually not the intervention of the mistress, but an idea that the man has been planning for a long time. As long as you have money, you will definitely run away from this home. SoIn order to advise women, care more about their men, whether he has money or not, as long as he truly loves you, cherish it, a little more care, a little more respect. In this way, the marriage will go longer and further. Otherwise, in the end, fighting for a man with the junior will lose all his dignity.