If you want to be promoted in the system, you must understand 15 people's feelings
1. The leader invited guests to dinner, and there were 10 packs of cigarettes on the table, and after eating and drinking, some people took it away, and some people didn't take it. Whoever takes the cigarette can't enter the core layer. The first filtration system in the team: everyone eats together, the cigarettes are Chinese, see who takes the cigarettes, and the cigarettes are not allowed to touch the money, the unspoken rules, this is called the "wine bureau test".
2. Stay and eat, which means "You should go and invite you to dinner next time, which means," "I'm just saying, there may not be a next time we meet, in principle, no, that is, yes." It stands to reason that it can, but it doesn't.
3. In the case that some chores are not clearly assigned, whoever is the most honest and serious will basically fall to him alone.
4. A lot of words can't be listened to on the surface, but depends on his interests, and it is already a common phenomenon for the ass to decide the head A person with a lot of houses will definitely advocate that the value of the house is great. Don't look at what a person says, the key is what he does in private, people are not stupid.
5. No matter what he says, I listen quietly and never ask questions. His cigarette is gone, and I light it; When the tea is gone, I'll pour it; It's gone, I'll fill it up. He said: I, ah, I changed more than 10 assistants in the past few years, but in the past few years, I have been using you. You know why? Because you don't have a "tongue", you should go up a bit. I listened quietly and nodded: Listen to your arrangement.
6. Gift-giving is to give it to one person all the time, and don't give it too often, it's good to stick to it for three festivals and two birthdays. Three plus two equals five, five times a year, this is a very powerful person. Most people are improvised, desperate and then give gifts to others. In fact, the real high-quality resources are circulated in the process of three festivals and two longevitys.
7. Why are gifts given in advance? Because some leaders are smarter, they go out to travel during the New Year's holidays, and they can't find him at all. It's a pity that there are too few people who have the consciousness of giving gifts in advance. A person has been a leader for a long time, he will be groggy, is it full of big cars and small cars parked in front of every leader's house during the New Year's holidays? Is this a good thing? No, it's a shout to the world: come and give a gift, come and give a gift!
8, Xiao Zhao is not good at talking, every time he goes to the old family, he takes two bottles of wine. The boss said: There is a project you can try. Xiao Zhao said: Okay, okay. Xiao Zhao earned 300,000 yuan for this project, and Xiao Zhao gave 200,000 yuan to the eldest parents. Since then, Xiao Zhao has become the boss's only partner.
9. Develop the Xi of gift-giving, and fewer people embarrass themselves; Develop the Xi of praising others, and there will be fewer people who will make things difficult for themselves. Whatever people need, I'll give you. Instead of giving what I have.
10. The eldest brother is sick, the second brother gives 1,000 yuan, the third brother gives 900 yuan, the fourth brother gives 800 yuan, and the fifth brother gritted his teeth and paid 5,000 yuan. More than ten years have passed, and the other brothers have been promoted and made riches, but only the fifth brother has not changed.
11. Every time Xiao Li goes to the leader's house, he carries a gift. He said to the leader: Mr. Zhang, these cigarettes and alcohol are for the old man, not for you, don't get me wrong, I just came to see the old man. The leader's father happily invited him in every time. As for him, every time he sits for a few minutes and leaves, the leader's father often praises Xiao Li in front of the leader, saying: There are not many children who know how to respect the old now! Take care of him within your principles.
12. The boss held a meeting, and the most talked about was that his wife was born, and he couldn't rest well recently, he was old and had no energy, 100 people comforted the leader, and only one person said to the boss that his sister had been a nanny and had been a nanny for 20 years.
13, Xiao Wang had something to ask Lao Li for help, and asked Lao Li to eat for the first time, and Lao Li brought his own wine. After eating, he had to stuff two empty bottles to Xiao Wang. The second time they met, Xiao Wang brought him two boxes of the same, and he patted Xiao Wang on the shoulder.
14. Ask the boss questions, send a transfer red envelope directly, and then ask your own questions, if the other party feels that they can accept it, they will naturally answer, and if they can't answer, they will not receive the red envelope. If you just ask a question, you will probably be automatically dismissed.
15. When a person reaches the hall level, he has to think about how to retire every day. If you want to go up, you're not far from the end. When a person reaches the age of 40 or 50, no matter how mixed he is, he has to help himself create an exit mechanism.