Why is it not advisable to get back together after a breakup

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-01-29

It is often said that the three best words in life are "reunion after a long absence", "lost and regained" and "false alarm". Each of these three words contains deep emotions and stories that make people ripple in their hearts. However, there is no single word called "reconciled as before".

It is not difficult to reconcile, two people are separated because of misunderstandings, contradictions or quarrels, as long as one of them is willing to bow his head and the other party is willing to forgive, then they can come back together. However, "as before" is an extremely difficult thing.

"As before" means that the relationship between each other can go back in time, as close as when they first met, without any barriers. But after experiencing quarrels, contradictions, and hurts, how is it possible to go back to the beginning?The human heart is fragile and once injured, it leaves a scar. These scars don't go away, they only serve as a permanent reminder of the pain that once happened.

The word "reconciled as ever", although it sounds beautiful, is difficult to achieve. Even if two people get back together, it's hard to talk about it as closely as it used to be. After all, the scars of the past are still there and cannot be erased.

Nor can we give up because of that. Even if we can't go back in time, we can work towards a better future. As long as we are willing to put in the effort, manage the relationship with our hearts, respect each other, understand each other, and care for each other, then we can make the relationship better.

"Reconciliation as before" is difficult, but we also have to work hard to pursue it. Because only in this way can we make our relationship better and stronger.

It's already broken up, don't think about getting back together, it's easy to reconcile, it's a thing of the past, the twisted melon is not sweet, although it can be eaten, but it's bad to eat, after breaking up, find a new one as before, isn't it fragrant?

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