A few days ago, I chatted with a few boss friends, and everyone was discussing how old should I be when I really started making money
They were generally older than me, and in the end, everyone came to the conclusion that the age when they really started making a lot of money should be after the age of 35, especially for men.
Because at that time, men had just entered the maturity period (women were mature at 25), they had started a family, they had become calm, they had seen the world, they had suffered great losses, and they knew how to precipitate.
The circle is also clean, and I know what kind of people I can't get too close to. has experienced the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and has also seen through the hot and cold world.
At this time, I already know the importance of accumulation, not spending any money that should not be spent, and the important thing is to seek wealth without violating the law.
I think that I have been like this since I was 30 years old, is it precocious?
Of course, there are many people in their 20s who make a lot of money, but it is many times more difficult to "keep wealth" than to "create wealth".
Because of the ruthless people in this society, the main harvest is the middle class and the small bosses who have just broken out.
Shouldn't the poor be the most gullible to be deceived, one might ask?
Not really.
Poor people's money is the hardest to earn and the hardest to cheat. Because the poor are the most suspicious, they must first receive before they are willing to give. You need to consistently deliver eggs to them every day, and then harvest them at the end, but it doesn't cost much to add to one piece.
The truly rich are the least suspicious, but they have the highest knowledge and the most knowledge. It is also the most difficult group to be benefited.
Only the middle class and nouveau riche, they have cars, houses and savings, and they are living a good life, saying that they have money and not too much, saying that they have no money, they can really take out 1.8 million yuan.
This money is earned either by hard work (middle class) or by guts and luck (nouveau riche). Both types of people have illusions about high profits, eager to make money in an easier way, and end up being reduced to leeks to be harvested.
But then again, for most people, if you want to become a middle class, hard work can still achieve it. But if you want to become a boss, even if it is a small boss with only a few people in your hands, it is even more difficult than ascending to the sky.
The reason why it is difficult for many people to cross the class is because they are stupid when they read, and the information that their brains receive every day is also problematic. Xi wrong thinking and values, and live in other people's standards.
For example, I have seen many small bosses who have just established a company, and his signature is still "be a person first and then do things", and the company's culture is always full of words such as "inclusive".
I knew this company wasn't going to grow.
In the same way, the reason why a person can be a boss for a long time and lead a team must be because he has the most powerful means to make money, the most powerful way to collect money, and even the most powerful (legal) fraud money.
In short, the reason why everyone is willing to follow you is because everyone knows that following you will have meat to eat, whether you usually like to talk about life, talk about moral cultivation, or like to swear or stab in the back, as long as you can make us all money, we will support you.
Just this simple truth, many high-achieving students can't figure it out after reading the sage books for more than ten years, or don't want to believe it, so they can only be an arrogant middle class, and their calculating face and Qinggao, which is not centered on the market economy, will not attract anyone to follow them.
On the one hand, it is because they have embraced the wrong information. After more than ten years of scientific and technological knowledge, these can only help you become a good part-time worker. And what about the "moral education" they receive?It is also beneficial for you to become a qualified part-time worker.
On the other hand, they still live by other people's standards. The TV series and movies they watch, the short **, the *** articles and Zhihu Q&A they watch, are all teaching people how to improve their moral cultivation, how to be content, how to be a good person, how to be a good person with good rewards, and they will also give you subtly **: Only by doing so can you be the most noble, and you will lose yourself if you blindly pursue money!
Of course, those who teach people to be good have only one purpose in the end, and that is to make your money.
I'm not against this, and I support everyone doing good deeds, but you can't fall into these cheap touches created by yourself all day long.
In fact, in today's society, everyone is looking at you with strange eyes, and using their evaluation standards to tell you what is good and what is bad. No one is ashamed when you point out that their evaluation criteria are biased.
But once you live by their standards, you don't have the ability to think.
If a person has no assertive opinions and can't think independently, then he can't tell the difference between good and bad, and he won't have his own opinions and attitudes.