Recently, a ** paragraph has attracted widespread attention about a woman in Wuxi, Jiangsu Province, who claimed to have been beaten by her husband. In the middle of an argument between the woman and her husband, the husband suddenly slapped her hard.
In the comment section, the woman explained the reason for the beating. According to her, the mother-in-law, who was dissatisfied with the woman because she gave birth to two daughters, once said:"The second child gave birth to another daughter, and the house will have someone else's surname in the future. "The woman said that her mother-in-law now denied saying this, and she angrily called it a brute, and was slapped by her husband. The woman did not fight back for fear of scaring her daughter.
The woman said that she had married far away, and she didn't even ask for a bride price, thinking that she had found a responsible man, but she didn't expect such a thing to happen. At present, the man has been taken away, and the local women's federation has also intervened in the investigation.
In the comments, the woman described in detail the reason for the beating. According to her, her mother-in-law was dissatisfied with her giving birth to two daughters, and even said that "the second child is another daughter, and this house will have someone else's surname in the future". The woman said that her mother-in-law now denied saying such things, and she was angry that her mother-in-law's remarks were like animals. As a result, her husband slapped her for this. Fearing that she would scare her daughter, the woman chose not to fight back.
The woman mentioned that she had married far away and did not even ask for a bride price, and she thought she had found a responsible man, but she was very disappointed. At present, the husband has been taken away by **, and the local women's federation has also intervened in the matter.
This ** aroused the anger of netizens, and many people expressed dissatisfaction with the man's behavior. Some people pointed out that the birth of a boy and a girl is determined by the male chromosome, and called on the woman to leave this unreliable man.
This patriarchal perception still exists, and many women face a fate of not being expected from birth. In some families, women have a very difficult position and are even discriminated against and pressured because they give birth to daughters.
Someone shared a similar story, including a woman who gave birth to three daughters in a row, only to be met with indifference by her husband and mother-in-lawThere is also a man who made negative remarks in his circle of friends because his wife gave birth to a daughter;As well as some women who put in the effort to adapt to the expectations of their families, life becomes very difficult.
This ** caused strong anger among netizens, and they commented to express their support for the woman. There are accusations that patriarchal attitudes still exist, arguing that such ideas should no longer exist in modern society.
In fact, the idea of preference for sons over daughters still exists in some families, causing great distress to women. There are women who are discriminated against because they give birth to daughters, and even receive cold reception in their families. This perception not only hurts women, but also causes irreparable damage to family relationships.
We should abandon the idea of preference for sons over daughters and respect the birth of every child, whether it is a boy or a girl, as the pride of parents. Fertility issues should be shared by the husband and wife, rather than unilaterally blaming one of the spouses. I hope that every child can grow up in a family that is expected and cherished.
We need to realize that the decision to have a boy or a girl depends primarily on the chromosomes of the male. It's unfair to blame women for not being able to have boys. At the same time, it is unacceptable to belittle the pain and hurt that comes with a girl.
Patriarchal attitudes not only hurt women, but also destroy many families. We need to abandon this ignorant thinking and cherish every child, whether boy or girl, to be expected and cherished.