Many people live in the world, and in order to get benefits, they do not hesitate to sacrifice themselves to please others.
But the results of this are often unsatisfactory.
So you remember, you don't need to please anyone, as long as you do your best and do the following eight things, with a clear conscience!
First,
Take care of yourself
Your own emotions, your own feelings, are the most important thing, and what others think has nothing to do with youSecond,
Ability is capital
The better you are, the less you need to flatter anyone, and the stronger you are, the less you need to please anyone.
Third,
The premise of getting along is equalityBlindly pleasing others will only enhance the attitude of others and domineering.
Fourth,
Not everyone is on the same path
If you try to please someone with the same goal, you won't get anything.
Fifth,
Pleasing may not be happy
If you take into account other people's thoughts, others may not be able to compare their hearts, and there will always be some people who will not appreciate it.
Sixth,
It is fate that people meet each other
Some relationships can't be forced, and some people are destined to let go.
Seventh,
Look at the people around you,
Instead of trying to please those who ignore you, it is better to cherish the people who are good to you.
Eighth,
People who have the ability will not be quiet
Pleasing others is the work of the weak, insist on yourself, and someone will be close to you.