I always thought that falling in love was to find someone similar to myself, so that it would be more interesting to get along and there would be more common topics. However, this idea changed completely after I met my boyfriend.
When I first started dating, I felt that I and E people would be very uncomfortable together, one was as quiet as a virgin, and the other was as moving as a rabbit. Person E may not feel anything, but Person I feels awkward when I think about it. As a result, after dating for a while, I really have to admit now that I and E people are really a perfect match together!
I'm an I-person, I don't like to talk much, I like to live in my own world, as if I have a label of "don't get close to the living", giving people a feeling that I am very withdrawn. When you meet someone you know on the road, you will immediately squat down to tie your shoelaces and pretend not to see it.
But my boyfriend is a real E person, and he can easily mingle with the people around him, so he has become my microphone, but whenever there is a need to communicate with other people, he will take the initiative to take over.
Especially when a bunch of people are together, having an e-person boyfriend is really very secure, and he will neither feel restrained nor embarrassed.
The combination of I and E can complement and promote each other to form a more complete and stable emotional relationship. I people can provide more thinking and innovation inspiration for E people, and help E people better realize their self-worth and development. And the e-person can provide more emotional support and care for the i-person, and help the i-person better face the challenges and difficulties in life.
Two people take their feelings seriously, have the same three views, have the same goals, and even if their personalities are very different, they can face up to and accept each other's differences and imperfections, support each other, and nourish each other.
The I person becomes more relaxed, and the E person becomes more stable, like two completely different pieces, but they grind into each other and form a complete circle.