In homeschooling, boys' disobedience often causes headaches for parents. How to correctly guide and educate disobedient boys has become a difficult problem for many parents.
Below, we will look at the five aspects of emotion, communication, rules, guidance and care, ** how to educate a better education for boys who are disobedient.
1. Emotion: understanding and respect
When faced with disobedient boys, parents must first understand their emotional needs. As boys grow up, they will experience many psychological changes, including a period of resistance and a period of budding self-awareness. Before, too, I was very impatient with the child, as long as the child did not do what the adult said, he felt that he was disobedient and beat and scolded him, so it was basically futile to discipline the childAfter learning a lot of family education skills in Gaotu Meimei's family, I finally know how to get along with my children correctlyThe child is no longer as antagonistic and disobedient as before, and now I am more like a friend with the child!
Children in these periods often exhibit disobedient behavior, but they are actually exploring their own identity and independence. Parents should respect their children's individuality and wishes, give them appropriate freedom and space, and make them feel trusted and respected.
2. Communication: Listening and expressing
Communication is the key to problem solving. Parents should listen patiently to their children's thoughts and feelings to understand why they behave disobediently. In communication, parents should try to avoid accusations and criticism, and instead understand their children's needs and troubles in an empathetic way. At the same time, parents should also express their own views and expectations, so that children can understand their concerns and concerns. Through good communication, trust and understanding between parents and children can be established.
3. Rules: Clarity and Implementation
It is better to educate boys if they are disobedient, and it is very important to set clear rules and boundaries. Parents can work with their children to agree on rules that make them understand what can and cannot be done. After making the rules, parents should strictly implement them so that their children understand the importance of the rules. At the same time, parents should also supervise and give feedback on their children's behavior, and find and correct bad behaviors in time.
4. Guidance: Inspiration and encouragement
For disobedient boys, parents should be good at guiding them in the right direction. Parents can use heuristic questions to guide their children to think about their own behavior and help them realize their mistakes. At the same time, parents should also give their children encouragement and affirmation in time to stimulate their enthusiasm and self-confidence. Through guidance, children can be helped to establish correct values and behavioral Xi.
5. Care: Companionship and support
Parents should give enough love and support to disobedient boys. In daily life, parents can spend more time with their children, play games, read books, participate in outdoor activities, etc., so that they can feel the warmth and love of the family. At the same time, parents should also pay attention to their children's emotional needs, give them appropriate support and encouragement, and help them build self-confidence and positive attitudes.
Parents need to start from five aspects: emotion, communication, rules, guidance and care to help them establish correct behavior Xi and values. In the process of education, parents should respect their children's individuality and wishes, listen patiently to their thoughts and feelings, set clear rules and boundaries, be good at guiding them in the right direction, and give them enough love and support. Only in this way can disobedient boys become more sensible, mature and confident.