In a relationship, once the relationship is confirmed, the girl will give her all her heart, and even want to give everything she has to the other party, and at the same time hope that the other party can treat her like this.
But some naïve girls don't ask for anything, only ask boys to be good to her, and in the end, in this relationship, the bamboo basket is empty.
So even if you love him again, you must not give up your bottom line, and never do these few things.
Don't be swayed by his emotions.
Boys have a kind of machismo in their bones, maybe he will be very active with you when he pursues you, but once the relationship is confirmed with you, individual boys will slowly become less attentive to you, however, girls who have paid their hearts often can't stand it, so they can't help but take the initiative to contact him and find him.
This kind of behavior will make the guy have a sense of superiority, he feels that you can't live without him, and you love him more.
So no matter how much you love her, you must stick to your principles and pride, don't bow your head in a relationship, and stick to your bottom line.
2.Don't change your Xi and circles too much for him.
Before falling in love with someone, we all have our own circle, our own girlfriends. Even if you live with him, you have to insist on being yourself, don't always give up yourself and your friends in order to think about his life and yours, after a long time, you will find that you have nothing but him, and in the end you can only rely on him.
The consequence of this is that you will become more and more unequal between the two of you, and you will become more and more humble, more and more passive. In the end, it became a husband and a wife.
Keep in mind that a strong and independent girl tends to be more attractive to a guy.
3.At any time, don't tell a secret that shouldn't be told.
In a relationship, everyone wants the other person to be willing to hold no reservations about themselves.
But everyone has secrets that they don't want the other person to know, especially about the last relationship, maybe the other party wants to know about your last relationship, but once you tell him, he will inevitably be jealous, jealous, and even angry.
This kind of thing has been accumulated in my heart for a long time, and there will always be a day when he will attack you with your secrets and rub salt in your wounds.
Everyone is changeable and complex, so secrets that should not be told must not be spoken.
Finally, no matter who we are with or how deep our feelings are with him, we must always be sober and not blindly be ourselves.