Now some channels often ** some programs that mediate family conflicts and disputes, to be honest, I really don't want to watch it. Because most mediations are mediations with mud, as long as whoever comes to them to mediate first, no matter what the antecedents are, anyway, they will mediate according to the results they want, which is really disgusting.
I still remember that I didn't know which TV station it was before, a man found a program group of the TV station and said that he was sick, but his children didn't care about him, and his wife didn't let him enter the house, so he came to ask for help. At first, I heard the man cry, and I really thought it was his children who were wrong, but with in-depth investigation, I learned that the man was a factory when he was young, and he had a little power and money. My wife is a housewife who has been at home taking care of the elderly and raising children. Later, the man stirred up a woman outside, and was fired because there was something wrong with his work, and finally ran away with the woman, and he ran for more than ten or twenty years, the old man and children didn't care, and he took all the money from the family and ran away, and he didn't care about how his parents, wife, and children lived in the future. My wife, a housewife, has suffered enough and sent the old man away and raised the child. The man ran out of money outside, and he couldn't earn any money, and he was sick, and the woman with him didn't want him anymore, so he ran back to his wife and son to treat him, and gave him living expenses, and he had to pay a lot of living expenses, and he had to give him 3,000 yuan a month.
After years of hard work, the wife and son opened a small restaurant that they relied on for survival, and the man did not leave in the restaurant, and he could not do anything to affect the business of the restaurant. The wife and son strongly disagreed, and in the end the son simply closed the restaurant. The man stayed in the restaurant and didn't leave, and finally said, "It's okay to let me go, this restaurant also has a share of me, give me half of the money, and I'll leave, otherwise, you will have to give me living expenses." Then the people in the program team persuaded his wife, which meant that the man had a heart of repentance and should give him a chance to correct his mistakes, let him go home and live first, and then persuaded his son, saying that if the man did anything wrong, he was also his father, the person who gave him life, and he should talk about filial piety. I just told the man that he thought he was going to live a good life and never go out and again.
At that time, they were angry when they saw this, obviously the man just wanted money, and he would continue to spend time outside after getting the money, but these other people didn't care, they just wanted the wife and son to compromise, meet the man's requirements, and let him go home first, thinking that as long as the man went home, then their task would be completed, as for whether it hurt the mother and son, it was not within their consideration.
Later, I also watched some mediation-type programs, most of them are mediation with mud, no matter the antecedents, just now, who is weak and who is reasonable, and who is old and who is reasonable, the more I watch it, the more disgusting it becomes. Always ask others to repay their grievances with virtue, but I forgot that there is another sentence at the back, how to repay virtue!