Picture: Internet Text: Hello Junjun!I'm Junjun. I often see some sisters saying that they are very ordinary, have no specialties, are very confused about the future, and want to change but don't know how to start. I am also an ordinary girl, I have a lot of shortcomings, I am not focused, I lack patience, I am hot in doing things for three minutes, I often have a lot of ideas, but I don't implement them, or I have executed, I don't see the benefits in the short term, I give up, and I have been confused and anxious about the future. It wasn't until after this naked resignation that I was married and had no children, it was really difficult to find a suitable job, the pressure increased day by day, and after I woke up completely, I calmed down and faced it well, gave myself two years, focused on a skill to improve, and started anew. From July to now, I have been trying to do *** Little Red Book step by step, and cultivate the Xi of reading and writing. In the early stage, I was anxious because of the problem of data, but I found that it was useless, which increased internal friction and wasted time. 
The process of growing up is not very easy, and the following 4 methods are what I used when I was anxious and confused, guiding me forward, hoping to help everyone. 1. Have a clear goal and missionThe writer Zweig once said that the greatest luck in a person's life is that when he is in the prime of life, he discovers his calling and is willing to fight for it all his life. People with clear goals do things, wake up every morning and can't wait to start right away, full of motivation, perseverance and focus. You can establish a long-term and short-term goal and break it down into things to do on a daily, weekly, or monthly basis. Each day's tasks are prioritized and time is planned. Share 3 ways to find purpose in life::Write a letter to yourself five years from now, life vision board, character role model, law2. Find the track you are good atHard work is a necessity for success, but the choice is more important than the effort, and the choice is not in vain. There is a passage in the Book of Nawal: "Choosing the right direction at every fork in the road is far more important than the effort to move forward, and life is about choosing the right direction and then striving to move in that direction." If the path you choose doesn't lead you to where you go, no matter how hard you try, the result will only be the opposite. You can list some successful things you have done, or you are willing to spend a lot of time pondering one thing, which is probably what you like to be good at. When we don't know how to make a choice, we can go to some experienced or successful people, and then use their judgment to help us make a choice, so that we can think more comprehensively. 3. Adhere to long-termismNever underestimate the power of long-termism. I used to be in a hurry, taking shortcuts, and when I first started to act, I wanted to see the results directly, and I gave up when I couldn't see the results. In the past few years, I have seen many stories of ordinary people who have achieved success by being friends with time and adhering to long-termism, and I really understand that the fastest shortcut in the world is not to take shortcuts. Now I am a long-termist, choose a good direction, insist on deep cultivation, believe that hard work will eventually accumulate into miracles, and I will also enjoy the compound interest of time. 
4. Don't set limits on yourselfMany people want to be short**, but they are afraid of being brushed by acquaintances;I want to do a live broadcast, but I am afraid that my eloquence is not good and I am cold, so I give a speech on stage, and I am afraid that I will make a mistake and be focused by everyone. These are the shackles we give ourselves, if we are not strong in any area, then go and learn Xi. Do the things that are terrifying to yourself, and when you really face them, you will find that they are not so scary. Don't care about other people's evaluations and ideas, if you deny you, you won't be confident, you can't feel that you can't, you have to be firm in yourself, I can, only fully affirm yourself in your heart, believe in your own ability more, become confident enough, you can do it. Therefore, if you want to grow, you must break your own limitations to become stronger. The above are the 4 methods I used when I was confused, first recognize my ordinary, have a clear positioning of myself, and then work hard to learn Xi, to implement review and iteration, and leave the rest to time, and slowly find that I am improving day by day, and finally the life you want is not far from you. You will eventually become a better version of yourself. -end-