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The best release in the world is to let go of yourself, perfect yourself, and be kind to yourself.
Life is very short, life is short, a person can only learn to be kind to himself, perfect himself, and let go of himself.
In order to ensure that you are treating the present according to your own thoughts and thoughts, and you can also have a greater probability of ensuring that your every day is happy and happy.
You have to know that the real ** is not a dead grasp;True healing lies in letting go;True self-healing lies in living out the pattern.
Learn to let yourself go, no longer panic in your heart, no longer hesitant in your personality, then the whole world can't help you.
Bingxin said:"I myself am mortal, and I only seek the happiness of mortals. ”
In this life, no matter how you live, you are just a mortal, and no matter how you fight, you can't jump out of the Six Realms.
Many times, to let go of oneself is to release oneself.
Then, we can live freely, live with a clear conscience, and go to a frank and unrestrained state, so that happiness ripples and the heart is light and fragrant.
To let go of oneself is to let go of oneself
If a person is always so selfish, so calculating, so fond of taking advantage, he will become more greedy.
Once a person has the idea of greed, after being satisfied for a while, it will become an obsession.
Then, I will become more and more unscrupulous to want everything, with a sense of comparison, with a competitive spirit, I feel that I can have everything, and what others have, I can also have.
However, sometimes life is very contradictory, when there is no time, try to have it, and when you have more and more, you feel unhappy and tired.
In fact, once a person falls into a predicament where his desires are difficult to fill, people's hearts will not be pure, and their thoughts will be confused.
Then, he found that he couldn't control it, but he couldn't give it up generously, so he broke it off, but it was constantly consumed.
Some people say: Half of the tiredness of life comes from survival, and half comes from comparison. ”
Most of life's exhaustion and pain are either due to unfulfilled desires or because desires are satisfied.
Poor and pathetic people use themselves as a tool to make money, but they do not use themselves as a tool for happiness.
It is also a tool, standing higher and seeing farther can have a happier future.
There is a saying in the Analects:
"He didn't know it, but he got it;What is gained, what is lost. Misfortune is lost, and it knows everything. ”
The state of life that people are most afraid of is that they are suffering from gains and losses while worrying about them.
Afraid of losing and not being able to get it, on the verge of such contradictions, constantly suffering from internal friction and self-suffering.
Gradually, life has lost its due tranquility, and it has become a place of chicken feathers, chickens and dogs.
Learn to let go of yourself, let go of yourself in time, let go of the past as soon as possible, don't think too much about the future, don't be anxious, don't be greedy, and cherish the present.
Live the present well, and you will find that even if life is simple and plain, it is also real and happy.
To release oneself is to fulfill oneself
There is a line in the movie "Farewell My Concubine" that says this:
"People have to be perfect from themselves. ”
So, what should a person do?Can it be regarded as self-fulfillment?
First of all, you have to learn the meaning and wisdom of letting go.
Life is a cultivation, not to let yourself keep taking, but to know how to cultivate while harvesting, while giving, while absorbing.
Of course, there is a kind of balanced wisdom involved, but in real life, most people just want to get more and more for themselves, and they are willing to lose a little.
Have you noticed that those who always guard their own one-third of an acre of land are not far-sighted, nor are they really smart, but they limit their own development with their own hands.
These people always think that if they keep their own country, the country will not fall, but in fact, people who stick to their own opinions, don't know how to be flexible, and don't even dare to let go at all, will only let themselves move forward with a heavy load.
In this way, once the creation makes people, the so-called rivers and mountains that you own may be put into flowing water and never go back.
A truly smart person, a truly powerful person, must dare to pay and sacrifice.
It's like if a person wants to succeed effortlessly without putting in the slightest effort, then there is no poverty in this world, let alone a person who fails.
Of course, everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, whether it is ordinary or ordinary, simple and peaceful, you can make a choice.
However, there must be something hateful about poor people, and there are always some people who want to empty their gloves and white wolves, and want to get the curtain of heaven in the process of not wanting to forge ahead.
If people want to perfect themselves, they need to think clearly about what they need to do behind the perfection.
If you think that releasing yourself is indulging yourself, that is, letting yourself do nothing and not making any updates and iterations, then it is a pipe dream to fulfill yourself.
Relaxing oneself is to become a better version of oneself, and if you don't know your goals and destinations, you're ruining yourself.
To release oneself is to be kind to oneself
A person, only by learning to be kind to himself and releasing himself, can he make his life better and better.
In fact, in many cases, the reason why we live a miserable and tormented life, more confused and anxious, is that we always think too much and do too little.
For the rest of my life, I can't do it high, although I seem to be working hard to change, struggle, and strive every day, but the efficiency is always very poor.
Eventually, the whole person will become more tired, working for the sake of work, living for the sake of living, becoming insensitive, and becoming decadent and indulgent.
When a person learns to release himself, he can not only have gains and losses, but only success or failure in his heart, but can be kind to himself and the present with a relaxed state.
Then, we can really figure out the current goal and the direction that suits us, and finally know how to grasp our own mentality, stabilize our emotions, and live a good life.
When the heart is rich enough, the spirit is full enough, and the life is calm enough, you will find that every day is simpler, but more happy and joyful.