Recently, I received a complaint from a parent who was very concerned about his child's open-minded behaviour at school. Parents said that their children often drank and smoked with their classmates, and even more excessively. This led me to think about the changing perception of behavior among modern middle school students. First, we need to understand that each era has its own unique ways of behaving and values. For the "post-00" generation, their growth environment, education methods, and social influences are very different from the past. They may be freer, more open, and more inclusive, but that doesn't mean they have completely lost their sense of norms. However, we also can't ignore the impact of the cyber environment on them. The popularization of information**, social networking**, etc., have made them face more choices and freedom. Coupled with the curiosity and desire to explore at a young age, this may make "post-00" middle school students more open-minded in some ways. Therefore, it is inevitable that the behavior of modern middle school students will change.
1. Changes in the social environment
With the development of society, people's awareness of individual rights and freedoms has gradually improved. The younger generation is also becoming more open-minded. Traditional moral notions have been challenged and replaced by a greater focus on individual freedom and individuality. Therefore, it is easier for "post-00" middle school students to show an open attitude in behavior.
2. Characteristics of psychological growth
The post-00s middle school students are in adolescence, and there are some psychological characteristics, such as the enhancement of curiosity and desire to explore, and the thirst for the unknown. They want to satisfy their inner needs and express their personality and characteristics through some risky behavior.
3. Factors of family education
Family education is one of the important factors in shaping children's values. In some families, parents are more tolerant of their children's discipline and rarely impose restrictions on their behavior, resulting in children forming overly open ideas about behavior. In addition, some families are overprotective of their children, resulting in a lack of knowledge and experience of the outside world, and they are prone to over-attraction when they come into contact with open things.
4. The influence of social networks
With the popularity of the Internet, social** has an increasing impact on young people. The Internet has provided a vast platform for young people to communicate, and they can be exposed to a wide variety of information and opinions on the Internet. The diversity and inclusion of these messages makes it easier for young people to express their opinions and accept different values, thus showing more openness in their behaviour.
3. Families and schools work together to guide the cultivation of correct behavior concepts among "post-00" middle school students.
1. Strengthen family education
Parents should strengthen the guidance and education of their children and cultivate their correct behavioral concepts. Through psychological communication with children, we can understand their inner needs and psychological state, and guide them to establish a correct outlook on life, values and behavioral norms. Parents should provide a harmonious and warm family environment and give their children enough care and support.
2. Strengthen school education
Schools play an important role in cultivating students' ideas about correct behavior. Schools should strengthen the guidance of students' moral education and behavioral norms, and cultivate students' sense of self-discipline and social responsibility. Integrate more practical cases into classroom education to enhance students' critical thinking and judgment, so that they can think and deal with problems from an ethical perspective.
3. Strengthen social publicity
All sectors of society should pay more attention to young people and intensify publicity and education on young people's behavioral concepts. ** and community organizations can spread the correct concept of behavior to young people by holding forums, lectures and other forms. At the same time, increase the punishment of bad behavior, increase the pressure of society on bad behavior, so that young people can form a correct concept of behavior in the social environment.
The openness of the behavior of the post-00s middle school students is the inevitable result of social change. We can't generalize that they are all presumptuous and extravagant. Every child is an individual, and their behaviour and values are influenced in many ways. As parents and educators, we should maintain a rational and objective attitude, fully understand the reasons behind the openness of "post-00" middle school students, and guide and educate from both the family and school levels. Only through guidance and education can they establish a correct concept of behavior, so that they can grow up healthily and happily and make positive contributions to the development of society. I believe that with joint efforts, we will be able to cultivate generations of outstanding "post-00" middle school students.