If you can't wait for love, just get married. As they grow older, most single men and women over the age of 26 gradually give up their vigorous love fantasies and begin to embark on the road of blind dates, hoping to find a suitable person to marry and live. However, in the rural marriage market, where there are more wolves and less meat, competition is fierce, and women's choice is relatively high, while men who go on blind dates often feel miserable. In Guigang, Guangxi, a young man felt helpless after experiencing a blind date, and posted a complaint about the high requirements of today's women for their partners.
The man bluntly said that after chatting with the blind date for only 5 minutes, the woman directly denied him and did not give him a chance at all. This has bothered men and questioned why women generally like "straight men" and "scumbags". This scene happened on a rural road in a county town in Guigang, Guangxi, where a man came on a blind date and chatted casually with a woman. However, due to the man's lack of experience in love, he seems a little overwhelmed by the communication with strange girls, resulting in an awkward atmosphere. As the song goes: "The most afraid of the sudden silence of the air around you". Women don't like "stupid" men, so they directly said after 5 minutes of communication: "We are not suitable, you are too quiet", making the man's blind date trip end in failure.
The man felt helpless about this, but at the same time felt a little funny, after all, the two did not really understand each other, and the woman hurriedly made an "inappropriate" judgment. The man explains that he is a "slow-burning personality" and can talk freely with familiar people, but he feels a little reserved in front of strangers, especially girls. However, he does not agree with women's opinions, thinking that it takes a while for the two to really understand whether it is suitable or not, and it is too hasty to deny himself in 5 minutes.
The man introduced himself as a lover of cycling, with a good figure and good looks. The most likely reason is that women have too high requirements for men's material conditions. In the matchmaking market, low-income men and older women tend to be excluded. Although no one says it directly, women are quite demanding of men's economic conditions when choosing a partner. In the matchmaking market, men with lower incomes and older women are often disliked.
Men think that women dislike him for being too quiet actually give him an excuse, but women don't really like him. Women's point of view is: without true love, it is better to choose the security of material life, what is wrong with this?Marry true love, expect someone to pamper you, and keep the life of a little princess even after marriage. And if you marry someone you met through a blind date, you can only try to choose a man with better material conditions, because in most cases, no one will be pampered, at least to ensure that life is no longer difficult.
Men, on the other hand, put forward a different view, arguing that women's refusal is their legitimate right, and just hoping that women can give men more time. Before the age of 30, very few men are able to buy a car and a house (or build a house) on their own. For these requirements, women are actually concerned about the family conditions of men. However, if men's conditions do not meet women's expectations, women tend to be impatient or even reluctant to meet in person.
Some people often say that "the right family", but if a woman's family conditions are average, and such strict requirements are put forward for men, can she be happy?There is a different view that men are just not women's dishes. The man is confident and humorous, and he doesn't look bad either. But women dislike him for being too quiet, which may indicate that women prefer men who can "liven up the atmosphere", "socialize" or "flirt". In today's society, men who "flirt" usually have no shortage of girlfriends and do not need to go on blind dates to find a partner. In this era, honest people don't seem to be liked by women, and to some extent, I have to admit: "Since ancient times, true love can't be kept, only scumbags can win people's hearts!."”