Actor Xie Yuan is open-minded by nature, and once admitted in a show that he is not worried that he will not be worried about being old in the future, and no one will take care of him.
He and his wife, who is 17 years younger than him, have never had children, and they have been dink for 22 years.
In Xie Yuan's life, the first marriage frightened him, but the second marriage was relieved, allowing him to find himself again and find true love.
A sudden illness destroys this happy and sweet life.
Two years ago, Xie Yuan died of illness, and two years later, his wife transformed into a new identity and ushered in a new life.
When he was a child, Xie Yuansheng was in Beijing, but he was not too happy.
When Xie Yuan was two years old when he was still ignorant, fate played a huge joke on him, and the death of his father caused a crack in the originally happy family in an instant.
Xie Yuan can only follow his mother to start a difficult life, but her mother knows that raising Xie Yuan alone is not an easy task.
After meeting the right person, the mother decided to enter the marriage hall again.
The stepfather is a reasonable person, with a very kind personality, caring for his mother, and treating Xie Yuan like his own son.
In order to facilitate his Xi, Xie Yuan lived in boarding school when he was in middle school.
However, at that age, Xie Yuan seemed a little withdrawn, he didn't like to make friends, and even didn't want to interact with people, so he always stayed alone and quietly.
The more Xie Yuan grew up, the more he felt sorry for his mother. At school, he never spends money and is very frugal with his monthly food expenses.
Xie Yuan only eats baked cakes with a little pickled vegetables at each meal, while the other students feast on meat dishes and drinks. He was so frugal because he was worried about causing trouble to his family and because he was afraid that his stepfather would dislike him.
It wasn't until Xie Yuan went to college that he let go of the heavy shell on his body.
After a few years in college, Xie Yuan finally found his position. In the year of the college entrance examination, he applied for the archaeology major, but unfortunately, his grades did not meet the requirements of the Xi archaeology major.
Xie Yuan suddenly thought of an idea and decided to try his hand at being an actor. As Xie Yuan, who was born in Beijing, his first consideration was to apply for the Beijing Film Academy.
Xie Yuan successfully passed the first exam, and even in his opinion, it was too easy.
Xie Yuan almost lost face in the second exam, because this exam required candidates to show their strengths, and Xie Yuan did not receive professional training, and he was a little at a loss.
Xie Yuan only had one chance, so he only pushed through it. Suddenly, he dressed himself up as the big boss and told a joke exaggeratedly, causing the teachers in the audience to roll back and forth with laughter.
In 1978, Xie Yuan was successfully admitted to the Beijing Film Academy and embarked on the road of Xi.
After Xie Yuan entered the school, he was no longer as introverted and shy as he was in middle school, he seemed to be in a new world, and his personality had undergone earth-shaking changes.
Xie Yuan often joked about Zhang Fengyi, Zhang Tielin and others in the same class.
Zhang Tielin and other classmates have Xi some of Xie Yuan's absurd behaviors, sometimes pranks, sometimes like to interfere in other people's relationships between men and women.
When he was young and promising, Xie Yuan once had a good impression of many girls in the school, such as Fang Shu, Shen Danping, etc., they were all beauties at that time.
As soon as they appeared, Xie Yuan's eyes seemed to have lost the ability to turn, but this feeling only existed in Xie Yuan's wishful thinking.
When he was about to graduate, everyone was worried about whether Xie Yuan would graduate successfully, after all, he always liked to be trick-or-treating, which left a deep impression on every teacher.
It is unimaginable that Xie Yuan finally chose to engage in teaching at Beiying.
In 1982, Xie Yuan began his career as a teacher at the Beijing Film Academy.
Xie Yuan always appeared in front of the students with a serious attitude, and many of the students were afraid when they saw him.
The brave student liked to gossip and even asked Teacher Xie, "Is the teacher so fierce to his wife?" Can she stand it? ”
When talking about his daughter-in-law, Xie Yuan's face showed a smile: "I am very considerate to my daughter-in-law, and it is by no means as exaggerated as you think. ”
At that time, Xie Yuan and Xiaolin had just gotten married, and their relationship was in a hot stage.
Xie Yuan and Xiaolin met when Xie Yuan was 20 years old, and Xiaolin was the daughter of a teacher at Xie Yuan High School.
This teacher once contacted Xie Yuan, because his daughter also intended to study Xi in Beiying, and since he didn't know anything about it, he hoped that Xie Yuan could provide some counseling to his daughter.
Xie Yuan was grateful to the teacher, so he agreed without hesitation.
When I saw Xiaolin for the first time, the lively youthful aura on her body immediately infected Xie Yuan.
After getting along for a while, there are many topics between Xie Yuan and Xiaolin that can never be finished.
After that, Xie Yuan devoted all her free time to teaching Xiaolin, and she guided Xiaolin very carefully to learn Xi lines, dances and performances, without sloppiness and full of patience.
Xie Yuan gradually began to take care of Xiaolin in life, and over time, Xiaolin also developed special feelings for Xie Yuan.
After two years of getting along, in addition to taking classes, Xie Yuan also began to participate in film shooting. The first movie he starred in was "Rookie Ma Qiang".
Xiao Lin was very happy to learn that Xie Yuan was filming the film, so she used her free time to go to Beiying to chat with him and help him clean up his room.
After the college entrance examination, Xiaolin did not reach the score line of Beiying, so she lost the opportunity to enter Beiying. So, she chose to work at Beijing Friendship Hospital.
After graduating, Xiaolin became a midwife.
Although Xiaolin and Xie Yuan did not have a common fate, she still felt very satisfied.
After a few years of getting along, Xiaolin no longer hid her true feelings in her heart, and after they were honest with each other, they officially started a relationship.
After a stable job, Xie Yuan decided to marry Xiaolin home in 1984 to end this long love life.
That year, Xie Yuan held a grand wedding for Xiaolin.
Xie Yuan was busy teaching at school after marriage, and they lived a plain and fulfilling life.
At that time, Xie Yuan's unit was in a bad financial situation, because there was no house allocated to him, and Xie Yuan's savings were not enough to buy real estate, so he had to live in his father-in-law's mother-in-law's house.
Some people love to nag, and they will say that Xie Yuan is not promising.
Xie Yuan is deeply loved by his parents-in-law, and every day after school, he will go home early to accompany his parents-in-law and chat with them. Xie Yuan's easy-going generosity made his parents-in-law particularly fond of him.
Some outsiders may be jealous of other people's good deeds and always like to talk behind their backs, such as the respected university teacher, who is even homeless and lives with his wife's parents.
Xie Yuan was favored by his parents-in-law, and occasionally when he encountered some discordant remarks, his mother-in-law would directly stand up and negotiate with others, leaving those people speechless.
Although Xie Yuanming knows that his mother's family is good to him on the surface, as a man, a man with a family, he must play the role of a good pillar.
In addition to attending classes, Xie Yuan gradually began to dabble in other areas of work to increase his income and create better living conditions for his wife.
Xie Yuan was invited by director Chen Kaige in 1984 to play a rural teacher in the feature film "The Child King". He successfully created the character "Old Pole" in the film.
In the same year, Xie Yuan received praise from many industry insiders, and at the same time, she continued to get more drama roles, and soon became famous with her performances in "The King of Chess" and "The Big Pant".
With his outstanding performance, Xie Yuan won the Best Actor Award at the 9th China Film Golden Rooster Awards.
With the increase in roles and fame, Xie Yuan's life has also undergone earth-shaking changes, and even after completing the filming of "The Burning of the Old Summer Palace" and "Listening to Politics with the Curtain", her salary has reached the highest level of the crew.
Xie Yuan's first thing was to make sure that the financial conditions could keep up, and then buy a house of his own and give his daughter-in-law a home.
Finally raised his eyebrows, Xie Yuan thought that life would always get better and better, but what he didn't know was that the relationship between him and his daughter-in-law was already different from the sweetness of his first love.
In 1986, Xie Yuan left home for Guilin for filming, and he failed to see his wife for four months. At the same time, however, his wife, Xiaolin, was pregnant.
When she learned that she was pregnant with Xie Yuan's child, Xiaolin did not tell her husband immediately because she had been accustomed to the pain of childbirth for many years as a midwife.
Xiaolin didn't seem to be mentally ready to welcome the arrival of her child, and her husband had been working outside for many years, which made her do something that made Xie Yuan sad.
Before her husband returned home, Xiaolin went to the hospital alone to have an abortion without discussion.
Soon after, Xie Yuan returned to Beijing after filming. After learning that his wife had done such a thing, Xie Yuan felt incomprehensible, and even began to have a grudge against his wife in his heart.
After all, it is the child of two people, and Xiaolin's approach is indeed a bit excessive, which makes me feel a little unacceptable.
Xie Yuan gradually distanced himself from Xiaolin because of this incident, and a shadow was also shrouded in his heart.
Since then, Xie Yuan and his wife have become silent at home, and neither of them wants to have any more arguments or talk about the past.
Xie Yuan often stayed at school and the crew, unwilling to go home.
When she came in 1991, Xie Yuan was tired of this marriage, and Xiaolin became estranged due to her long-term separation from her husband, and there was nothing worth communicating between them.
Xiaolin revealed to Xie Yuan that she planned to divorce and was no longer willing to endure such a life.
However, recalling the time when they once met, Xie Yuan still couldn't let go of this beautiful memory in her heart, perhaps because she felt that there was still room for redemption, so she did not agree to the divorce.
In February 1992, Xiaolin's firm attitude forced Xie Yuan to compromise, resulting in an eight-year marriage that came to an end.
Xie Yuan's life is full of ups and downs, and sometimes he can't breathe. His father's early death often cut his heart, and now the unhappiness of his marriage has brought him endless pain. In the middle of the night, Xie Yuan couldn't help but shed tears of sadness.
The life of his career must continue, Xie Yuan let go of the scarred marriage and devoted all his mind to filming and teaching.
A little girl named Qiu Yue entered the Beijing Film Academy to study Xi, and no one thought that she would become the sun of Xie Yuan.
At that time, Xie Yuan was very popular in Beiying, and many students liked his classes. Even if you are not a student of Xie Yuan, everyone in the school knows that his lessons are very interesting. Therefore, Qiu Yue, who was full of curiosity, also hurried to listen to a few lessons from Xie Yuan.
Sure enough, Xie Yuan is a talented and humorous teacher.
At that time, Qiu Yue did not have feelings between men and women for Xie Yuan, and for Xie Yuan, Qiu Yue was more of appreciation and reverence.
During the filming of the TV series "Love You Without Discussion", Xie Yuan unexpectedly met Qiu Yue in the crew.
In the drama "Love You is Not Negotiable" starring Song Dandan, Xie Yuan played the role of Gao Qiang, and Qiu Yue played the role of Su Pei.
The two would get together to chat during breaks.
After Xie Yuan took a deep dive, he learned that Qiu Yue was a native of Ganzhou, Jiangxi, and was 17 years younger than himself.
Qiu Yue has loved art since childhood, especially Peking Opera, and Xie Yuan also likes Peking Opera, and the two have similar interests.
Qiu Yue exudes the breath of youth, like a little sun, always optimistic and always with a smile on her face.
Qiu Yue is still passionate about learning Xi, she is particularly eager for knowledge, and when she encounters a problem that she does not understand, she often asks Xie Yuan directly for advice.
Xie Yuan was willing to satisfy the little girl's curiosity.
Xie Yuan knows astronomy and geography well, he has a wealth of knowledge, and Qiu Yue has also learned a lot from him in the process of getting along with Xie Yuan.
Qiu Yue gradually developed a feeling of dependence on Xie Yuan, so after leaving the crew of "Love You is Not Negotiable", the relationship between Xie Yuan and Qiu Yue has further developed.
Two people with the same heart, communicate directly and frankly.
Qiu Yue was directly asked by Xie Yuan: "I have been divorced, and I am more than ten years older than you, do you really not mind?" ”
Qiu Yue still smiled and said, "What I like is you as a person, and many of your advantages have deeply attracted me. ”
This time, Xie Yuan forgot the pain of the past and chose to let Qiu Yue, the little sun, stay by his side.
Qiu Yue was very considerate of Xie Yuan during her love and understood the hard work of Xie Yuan's filming, so she never let Xie Yuan spend her own money.
When important festivals come, Xie Yuan always gives gifts, but Qiu Yue still refuses to accept them. When he had nothing to do, Qiu Yue would go to Xie Yuan's residence, cook for him and tidy up his room.
Occasionally, Xie Yuan would receive a new script, and Qiu Yue would also help read it and improve together.
Xie Yuan has also successively obtained stable resources in the circle.
Xie Yuan has been involved in many film and television works in the past few years, such as "Widow's Village", "The Price of Madness", "Road Rider", "Shanghai Family", and "I Love My Home" and so on.
The broadcast of these dramas has greatly increased Xie Yuan's fame.
At the same time, Xie Yuan has won a number of important awards.
When Qiu Yue arrived in 1998, she was 22 years old, and Xie Yuan realized it was time to build a home for her.
In order to reassure his parents, Qiu Yue also brought Xie Yuan back to Jiangxi. Qiu Yue's family atmosphere is very harmonious, and her parents do not object to their daughter dating her boyfriend who is seventeen years older than her.
Even in the eyes of Qiu Yue's parents, a man of Xie Yuan's age is better at taking care of others.
Both parents were very satisfied with this, so in August of the same year, Xie Yuan and Qiu Yue successfully got married.
When Xie Yuan and Qiu Yue were about to enter the marriage hall, Xie Yuan's ex-wife Xiaolin once looked for him and expressed her desire to get back together.
After divorcing Xie Yuan, Xiaolin ushered in a new chapter in her married life.
Xiaolin's life after that was not happy, perhaps because of the contrast, she realized how beautiful Xie Yuan was in the past.
Xie Yuan is full of love for Qiu Yue, and his feelings for Xiaolin have long ceased to exist, and Xiaolin can only bless her ex-husband.
After Xie Yuan and Qiu Yue got married, their daily life was very interesting, and his wife was as bright as a little sun. Even if there are occasional tantrums, these are the spices that enhance the relationship between couples.
Xie Yuan and Qiu Yue have been married for ten years, but Xie Yuan's parents have always felt anxious because they have not yet hugged their grandson, and their hearts are full of regrets. It has been ten years since the marriage was concluded in 2008, but Xie Yuan's parents have been anxious and full of regret because they did not hold their grandchildren.
Qiu Yue and Xie Yuan tried to conceive, but failed, so they decided to become a Dink couple.
In 2012, Qiu Yue was 36 years old, and she had always wanted to have a child, but she had been trying to conceive for many years without success. Because of her poor physical condition during filming, she finally decided to choose Dink life after discussing with her husband.
However, Qiu Yue still longed to have a child with Xie Yuan in her heart, and even felt depressed for a long time because of this.
Xie Yuan felt guilty about his wife, and at the same time often comforted her with gentle words: "Our husband and wife also have a good life, and we don't necessarily need children. ”
After a period of time, Qiu Yue gradually calmed down his uneasy mood. At the same time, in the show, Xie Yuan also expressed a bearish attitude towards children's affairs, because no matter whether there is one more or one less, it will not have much impact on himself.
Xie Yuan even said that even if there is no one to take care of him in his old age, he doesn't care because he feels that if he dies, he will die, and he is not worried that no one will take care of him. He even believes that he can act independently even if he needs to be on crutches.
Xie Yuan's optimism is rare to outsiders.
In 2020, Xie Yuan came the unfortunate news that he died of a heart attack on August 18 at the age of 61.
Qiu Yue was exhausted by her husband's sudden departure.
In the last moments of his life, Xie Yuan said something to his wife, and he didn't want his departure to cause trouble for too many people.
Xie Yuan told his wife that he wanted to set up a mourning hall at home, and asked that it should not be too complicated, and that there was no need for a farewell ceremony, and that he just wanted to leave quietly.
On the day of farewell, many of Xie Yuan's former friends such as Ge You, Zhang Fengyi, Liang Tian, etc. came to say goodbye, and Qiu Yue obeyed her husband's instructions and set up a mourning hall at home.
Xie Yuan's departure made everyone sad, especially Qiu Yue, who was so red and swollen that she even collapsed to the ground at one point.
Whenever night fell, Qiu Yue would miss her husband very much, and she could often see Xie Yuan in her dreams, but it was just a dream.
When you wake up, you find yourself still alone, in a spacious room.
Qiu Yue knows that as a lonely individual, she must live strongly. Sometimes, she even regrets not leaving a child for Xie Yuan back then.
Qiu Yue will cherish such regrets for the rest of his life.
Whenever Qiu Yue misses her husband, she will find the TV series he participated in, repeatedly. And the ** that the two shot together, Qiu Yue often wiped them, unwilling to let them get a trace of dust.
It's been two years now, and Xie Yuan is gone. During this time, Qiu Yue spent more than 700 days and nights alone. Every year, on some important festivals, Qiu Yue cooks a lot of dishes that her husband likes to eat.
Qiu Yue would go to the cemetery on Xie Yuan's death day to exchange information with her deceased husband and share her inner feelings.
In the past two years, Xie Yuan has gone away, but Qiu Yue has stayed alone. Her every action is full of deep friendship for her husband and expresses the most sincere love.
What Qiu Yue has done is really touching, which is undeniable.
Although Qiu Yue is not deeply involved in the film and television industry, she changed her direction, became her own boss and began to engage in commercial activities.
Qiu Yue has frequently appeared on the stage of a car press conference recently, showing a confident and brilliant demeanor, which is undoubtedly the best answer she has passed on to her husband.
She had promised Xie Yuan that she would live well, and now, she has fulfilled that promise.
Looking back on the story of Xie Yuan and Qiu Yue, there are some regrets between the two, but their once deep relationship is enough for them to cherish the past deeply in their hearts.
Some have left, yet he left many fond memories for those who are still alive.
Although Xie Yuan eventually had no children, the love between him and his wife deeply touched many people. To love someone is to love someone wholeheartedly, no matter how many twists and turns life has experienced, to love as much as you can.
Tomorrow and accidents, it's really impossible to say who will arrive first. Xie Yuan