The highly respected actress Sun Li has many classic works, such as "Sweet Honey", "The Legend of Zhen Huan", "The Legend of Miyue" and so on. Not only is she superb in acting and widely loved by the audience, but she is also beautiful and kind-hearted, often devoting herself to charity, and has helped many people in need with her talents.
Sun Li is praised for her kindness, and those she has helped are grateful to her. However, there is a person who has been funded by her for 4 years but does not think so, he does not express gratitude, but blames Sun Li for the amount of funding is too small in a long article, and tries to ask for more money and property through moral kidnapping, this person is Xiang Haiqing.
After Sun Li stopped funding Xiang Haiqing, Xiang Haiqing released an article of 6,000 words, which pushed Sun Li into the whirlpool. In this long article, Xiang Haiqing described in detail how he received Sun Li's funding, and repeatedly emphasized that he was a poor student from the mountains, with a difficult life and a difficult road to study.
Haiqing's strategy of retreating first aroused the sympathy of netizens and expressed his gratitude to Sun Li to them. Then, she revealed that Sun Li suddenly stopped sponsoring him, causing him to be unable to complete his studies, but did not explain the reason why Sun Li stopped sponsoring.
Netizens first felt sympathy for Xiang Haiqing. As a representative of a disadvantaged group, Xiang Haiqing will inevitably suffer from the pressure of comparing with Sun Li, a female star. For Sun Li, the money to sponsor a student's school seems insignificant.
Netizens criticized Sun Li's behavior at the beginning, and ** quickly fermented and was filled with all kinds of negative news about her. Despite this, Sun Li initially chose to remain silent and did not respond to the remarks.
Subsequently, ** learned the truth of the matter, which was obtained from Haiqing's classmates and teachers. It turned out that Sun Li stopped funding him not for no reason, but because it was more and more excessive to ask Haiqing for money. In addition, he often boasted in front of his classmates that he was funded by Sun Li, and it was precisely because of this that Sun Li was unwilling to continue to fund him.
After revealing the truth, netizens began to condemn Xiang Haiqing's white-eyed wolf behavior, which is like a realistic version of "The Farmer and the Snake". Han Han has always been warm-hearted, and he can't sit idly by, he stood up for Sun Li on his blog, "Ordinary people have to raise large dogs indoors, but why can Sun Li raise a wolf?."”
Only by reading Xiang Haiqing's article again can we truly gain insight into his true purpose. He published this article from the beginning to ruin Sun Li's reputation, on the one hand, he flaunted his own misfortune to win the sympathy of others, and on the other hand, he implied that Sun Li had bullied him as a big star, which was undoubtedly a kind of moral blackmail.
Doesn't Xiang Haiqing have the slightest gratitude to Sun Li?Without Sun Li's help, Xiang Haiqing might not even have the opportunity to go to college.
Haiqing was born into a poor mountainous family, where transportation was closed and his ancestors had been farming for generations. The parents have been in poor health due to long-term fatigue, and have been relying on drugs to relieve the pain, which has made the already poor family even worse.
At that time, a program called "Mountain Hope" focused on children in poor areas and called on kind-hearted people in the community to donate to them. Xiang Haiqing was selected by the program team when he was a student who had just entered high school.
At that time, Sun Li was not a celebrity, just a newcomer who had just entered the showbiz. She happened to be near the filming location of this show, and after learning about Xiang Haiqing's situation, she took the initiative to contact Xiang Haiqing's parents through the program team, and expressed her willingness to bear Xiang Haiqing's college tuition and living expenses. Xiang Haiqing's parents were very grateful for this, but they didn't know at the time that it was a star who funded their daughter.
With the help of Sun Li, Xiang Haiqing began to devote himself to learning Xi. Sun Li often sent letters to Xiang Haiqing and monthly living expenses, asking him about his Xi progress and constantly encouraging him, telling him not to worry about money and to strive for admission to a good university.
The college entrance examination is approaching, Xiang Haiqing has achieved satisfactory results, he happily told Sun Li, and Sun Li was also very happy about it, and sent him some money so that he could buy a mobile phone and new clothes.
When filling in the volunteers, Xiang Haiqing also consulted Sun Li's opinion, and Sun Li suggested that he could consider going to a big city for development, because there are more opportunities and employment prospects are broader, especially for him who has achieved such excellent results.
Haiqing chose a university in Shanghai, and Sun Li specially sent him to Shanghai in person. Although Haiqing has been in contact with Sun Li, he does not know that his patron is a star.
At that time, Sun Li had already made a name for herself with "Jade Guanyin" and became a high-profile actress. When she saw Sun Li, Haiqing was very surprised, and Sun Li was also very enthusiastic, she also called Haiqing her younger brother and said that she could call her sister.
After coming to Shanghai to study at university, Xiang Haiqing was almost completely renewed, and he gradually lost himself in this metropolis. Facing the classmates from different cities and well-off families, he felt extremely unbalanced. In order to satisfy his vanity, he went around boasting to his classmates that he had a close relationship with Sun Li and that Sun Li provided for him to go to school.
He was fascinated by comparison, and when he saw his classmates wearing famous brands, he also longed for it. Originally, Sun Li gave him 500 yuan a month for living expenses, which was quite sufficient at that time. However, he was not satisfied, because he thought that Sun Li was a star, and the money was insignificant to her. So, he began to ask Sun Li for money for various reasons.
Sun Li didn't doubt his request at first, because the purpose he mentioned was to buy materials or visit some attractions, and Sun Li agreed. She hoped that Xiang Haiqing would broaden her knowledge, but as the number of requests increased, she began to feel that something was wrong. So she called Xiang Haiqing ** to ask the reason, and Xiang Haiqing prevaricated for various reasons, and promised to work hard to complete her studies.
Xiang Haiqing only agreed verbally, but in fact he was still thinking about how to extort a sum of money again. He made up the lie that his mother was critically ill and asked Sun Li for a large amount of surgery fees.
Sun Li was in a hurry to save people and hurriedly remitted the money to him. After calming down afterwards, she contacted Xiang Haiqing's family and realized that her mother didn't know anything about it. Only then did Sun Li realize that Xiang Haiqing was no longer the boy who was concentrating on his studies, but was blinded by materialism.
After squandering the money, Xiang Haiqing eagerly waited for Sun Li's donation this month. When he didn't receive it for a long time, he felt anxious, so he dialed Sun Li's **.
Sun Li accused Xiang Haiqing of his behavior on the ** side, and said that he was unwilling to fund him anymore. After Xiang Haiqing heard this, his first reaction was not to realize his mistake, but to complain loudly to Sun Li, feeling that since Sun Li had helped him, he should continue to help, and felt very unwilling that he suddenly stopped donating.
He called Sun Li a lot in a row, but no one answered on the other end. So he decided to prepare to use the power of ** to ** Sun Li.
Xiang Haiqing posted an article accusing Sun Li of "fake charity", but Sun Li was not afraid of shadows, and these accusations were quickly debunked. As a result, he reaped the consequences of his own efforts, and was infamous as a "white-eyed wolf", and he couldn't hold his head up in front of his classmates and relatives.
Without Sun Li's sponsorship, he had to rely on part-time work to make money. After graduating, he had great difficulty finding a job because no company dared to hire an ungrateful employee. Eventually, he had to accept some undesirable jobs. Originally, if he worked hard to complete his studies, he would definitely be able to change his life. Now, however, he is reaping the consequences of his own life, which affects his future life. He must bear all the consequences of his wrongdoing.
Although Sun Li felt sad after going through this incident, she did not stop on the road of charity and was still willing to help those who needed her help. She truly practiced the spirit of "but do good deeds, don't ask about the future".
Xiang Haiqing failed to understand Sun Li's kindness, but took revenge, and his behavior was doomed to not have a good ending. To be a man should have a grateful heart, the grace of a drop of water, when the spring reciprocates. Sun Li