Ask what is either silent, or say that he doesn't know, and it feels like his mind is blank!I don't know what to do, a mother consulted and said that the child was depressed and didn't go to school, which is the case, and asked me what to do
I said what kind of child do you want, how did you raise it in the past, what you want is to be sensible, obedient, self-disciplined, self-reflective, study hard, get into a good university, you want such a child, how do you raise it!It's to demand control, or to persecute it!So your child is very normal now, he is trapped by the parents, the rules and regulations of the parents, the rules and regulations of the teachers, and the outside has hollowed out all his inside, so what is the right education, to consolidate the child's inside, so that the child is extremely strong and solid inside, so that he can decide the external things!So what do you do now?You should re-nurture, you should be guided to enlighten and open the way to raise, what kind of child do you want, a child who can think independently, can judge a child who can find the answer to anything he encounters, you raise it again, your child can get completely better and come out!
The ideology of parents is to raise children as pets, the school is to raise children to be problem-making machines, and the society is to raise children into wasteI just let parents have a high-dimensional cognition, see clearly the chaos of the family, school, and society, and use the true educational logic of doing things to upgrade the dimension, so as to completely solve the problems of depression, lying down, hating school, not going to school, etc.!