My name is Lin Xiaomei, I am 42 years old, and I am the general manager of a large company in Shanghai. Over the years, I have put all my energy into my career and have been very busy at work. Despite a successful career, my marriage was unhappy, and my first two husbands divorced me. Now I've been living alone for many years and don't have hope in relationships.
I really like this guy, he has a sense of justice and is very caring. After returning to Shanghai, I often thought of him. Once, a company trip took me back to the village. I happily met Li Xiaojun again and threw him an invitation: "I like life here very much, can you come to my house and sit when you have time?"He readily agreed.
During the day, when I was busy with work, Li Xiaojun would read and cook at home, and then I could eat a hot meal when I got home from work, which was really happy. We've spent more time together, and our relationship is getting better and better. I found that Li Xiaojun not only has an outstanding appearance, but also has a good personality, gentle and considerate, which makes me feel an unprecedented sense of security.
Seeing that I didn't respond for a long time, Li Xiaojun's expression became a little disappointed: "I'm sorry, I was too impulsive." Don't take it personally. I quickly took his hand and said, "No, Xiaojun, in fact, I like you very much." It's just that we have a lot of age differences, and I'm afraid that you will be the one who will suffer in the future. ”
Li Xiaojun looked at me firmly: "I know what you're worried about. But I'm different from others, what I like is every minute and every second I'm with you now!I'll show you that age is not an issue. I was touched by his sincerity, and plucked up the courage to say, "Then let's try it together, I also want to stay with you." Li Xiaojun hugged me happily, and I smiled sweetly.
Since we were officially together, my feelings for Li Xiaojun have been surging out like opening the floodgates. I began to think about marrying him, after all, the relationship is so good, he is so good, I don't see any problem in continuing to develop.
Xiaojun, why don't we register our marriage?"I said suddenly at one meal. Li Xiaojun was surprised, and hurriedly shook his hand and said, "No, no, no, it's still too early!."I don't have a job, I can't afford to support you. Besides, your family may not agree to itI shook his hand and said, "Don't worry, I'll convince them that I believe in our feelings." Don't think about it so much. Li Xiaojun smiled a little shyly.
However, when I really told my family about my idea of marrying Li Xiaojun, my mother strongly objected: "Xiaomei, we have always supported your decision, but this time I really can't agree with it!."In addition to being handsome, what responsibility does that kid have?You're so good, marrying him won't do you any good!I argued, "You only see him as he is, but he is self-motivated!".I would like to support him!”
What's the use of being self-motivated, people have to rely on strength to speak!Mom didn't back down, "I'll only give you one sentence, marry a chicken and marry a dog, he is not worthy of you!.""Mom's words made me sad. I don't want to break with her because of this, but I am also reluctant to give up Li Xiaojun.
Li Xiaojun noticed that I was not in a good mood these days, so he asked me what was wrong. I told him about my family's objections. He was silent and reproached himself, "I didn't think it through." Xiaomei, don't be embarrassed, we won't get married for the time being, I will try to get better!”
I looked at him and felt very distressed: "Xiaojun, I'm sorry, this is all my problem." I shouldn't be on my own. But I really love you and don't want to lose you!Li Xiaojun hugged me and said, "Don't say it, I proposed it first, and now that we encounter this, we will definitely be able to face it slowly." Give me some time, okay?”
With the understanding of both families, Li Xiaojun and I finally entered into marriage. After marriage, Li Xiaojun was more considerate to me and often gave me small surprises. And I have become a strong backing for his career. Now we have been inseparable for five years, the relationship is very stable, we are getting closer and closer, and everyone who doesn't like us is impressed. In the past 5 years of marriage, Li Xiaojun and I have lived very happily. For many people, the 14-year age difference is staggering for a newlywed. So at the beginning, the people around me had great doubts about our marriage, thinking that it was just a fireworks-style early love and blindness.
But to everyone's surprise, five years have passed, and the relationship between me and Li Xiaojun has not faded, but has become deeper and deeper. A lot of things have happened during this time, and we have overcome all difficulties again and again, and we have always been with us.
Two years ago, my company suddenly fell into a business crisis and faced bankruptcy at one point. The stress at that time was so overwhelming that I often couldn't sleep at night. Li Xiaojun saw it in his eyes and offered to come to the company to help: "Xiaomei, you can't carry too much alone, let me share some of it." "I knew he had a good business acumen, so I got him involved in the rebuilding of the company. We stayed up all night planning countermeasures and preparing for war as if we were fighting a war. In the end, with the help of Li Xiaojun, the reform plan I proposed worked, and the company gradually came out of the crisis. At that moment, I hugged Li Xiaojun excitedly and cried bitterly, and I really felt that he was my strongest backing.
After that, the company was back on track, and its performance was booming. Watching Li Xiaojun's growth in the mall, I am sincerely proud of him. He is also becoming more and more calm and introverted, and he is already a reliable man.