My name is Granny Zhang, I am 65 years old, my personality is a bit rigid and conservative, and I have always been principled in doing things. My son and my daughter-in-law Li Su have been married for five years, and they have a lovely son, my grandson Xiao Ming is three years old this year. I have always had a bad relationship with my daughter-in-law, who is arrogant and not very filial. In order to help raise Xiao Ming, I decided to start living in their house and take care of Xiao Ming's daily life.
When I heard this, I felt very uncomfortable. I said angrily: "Su Su, I am your mother-in-law, and Xiao Ming's grandmother, I work hard every day to help you take care of Xiao Ming, how can you be so unreasonable and ask me to pay your living expenses?"”
Li Su did not give in, she said confidently: "Mom, it is your responsibility to take care of Xiao Ming, we didn't ask you to come, you want to live by yourself." You live in our house every day, of course, you have to make an economic contribution, this is a natural thing, otherwise you will take advantage of us!”
I persuaded Li Su: "Susu, you are now Xiao Ming's mother, I know that it is very hard to take care of children, so I came to help you take care of Xiao Ming and reduce your burden." We are a family, we shouldn't be so clear, my old lady, how can I give you any money. ”
Li Su stared at me and said in a tough tone: "Don't talk nonsense!".If you don't pay your living expenses, then pack up your things and leave!Anyway, I'm fed up with you, and I'm annoyed to death every day pointing fingers at my house!”
When I heard her say this, I was sad and angry. I persuaded her with red eyes: "Susu, how can you talk about your mother-in-law like that!."I stayed here to help you take care of him for Xiao Ming's good. After all, we are a family, you shouldn't have driven me away!”
Li Su sneered and said, "Family?."I think you're here to take advantage!Hurry up and hand over your living expenses for this month, or I'll throw your luggage out of the door today!”
I saw that she had such a tough attitude, and I really had no choice but to beg: "Susu, you dissipate your anger, let's talk slowly." I really don't have any money for you, so you let me live in **?”
Li Suli didn't listen either, and said to himself: "It's your business where you go to live, don't make trouble in my house!."Hurry up and decide, either pay the money or get out of here!”
Seeing that Li Su's attitude is so tough, I can only beg her to think twice and not drive away my old lady on impulse.
Li Su was unmoved, she opened the wardrobe, took out my suitcase, threw all my clothes in, and then said viciously: "My attitude is very clear, you must get out today, I never want to see you again!."”
When I saw her like this, I was sad and scared. Sadly, my daughter-in-law is so unfilial to me for a little money. What I'm afraid of is that I, an old lady, really have nowhere to go, and if she really drives me away, where should I go?
At this time, the sound of our dispute alarmed Xiao Ming. He heard the movement, ran out of the room, hugged my thighs tightly, and then looked up and said in a childish voice, "Grandma, where are you going?"Don't leave Xiao Ming alone!”
My heart was sour, I squatted down and hugged Xiao Ming, and comforted him softly: "Baby, you can go wherever grandma goes, grandma will always accompany Xiao Ming." ”
When Xiao Ming heard this, he put his little hands around my neck and said fearfully, "Then grandma, where are we going now?"I want to stay with my grandmother. ”
At this time, Li Su said impatiently: "Xiao Ming, don't worry so much, you go back to the house with me to sleep!."After speaking, he was going to take Xiao Ming's hand and take him away.
I hurriedly hugged Xiao Ming tightly, and cried bitterly and said to Li Su: "Su Su, you see how much Xiao Ming relies on me, you can't be so ruthless to separate us!."For Xiao Ming's sake, you let me continue to live, I promise to listen to you in the future!”
Li Su was not moved at all, she grabbed Xiao Ming's hand and ordered: "Xiao Ming, follow me back to the house!."Grandma is leaving, there will be no grandma in the future!”
When Xiao Ming heard this, he cried bitterly, he hugged me and didn't let go, and shouted loudly: "Don't!."I want grandma!Grandma can't go!”
My heart was like a knife, and I cried and begged Li Su: "Su Su, you see how much Xiao Ming relies on me, I kneel down and beg you, don't drive me away, I really have nowhere to go!."”
Li Su looked coldly at me holding Xiao Ming and crying bitterly, without any sympathy, she said fiercely: "My bottom line is very clear, you must get out of this house today, I don't want to see you again!."”
Hearing Li Su's resolute words, I was overwhelmed with grief and hugged Xiao Ming and cried bitterly. Xiao Ming also cried heartbroken, he hugged me tightly, crying "Grandma can't go".
At this time, my son came home and was very surprised to see the two of us hugging each other and crying. He hurriedly ran over to me and asked, "Mom, what's going on, why are you and Xiao Ming crying like this?"”
I wiped my tears and said to my son, "Alin, it was your daughter-in-law who wanted to drive me away and prevent me from continuing to live in your house. She also said that if I didn't pay her rent, she would throw my luggage out today. ”
My son was very shocked, and he said to Li Su seriously: "Susu, what's the matter?".Mom worked so hard to help us take Xiao Ming, how could you drive her away unreasonably?”
Li Su said disappreciatively: "I just think it's very inconvenient for your mother to live in our house every day!."She doesn't pay rent, she doesn't do housework, she just points fingers, I'm fed up with her!”
My son was very angry, he raised his voice and said, "Susu, how can you be so vexatious!".Asking my mother to pay the rent is a rip-off!Mom is here to help with the children, not your maid!”
Li Su also became excited, and said loudly: "Helping is not talking to yourself!."I didn't ask her to come, she had to come and help, and now that the pressure is on me, I still have to take care of her, is that fair?”
My son advised Li Su: "Mother is kind enough to help take care of the children and take care of the housework, to reduce your burden, you should be grateful to her, how can you drive her away?"She's old, are you willing to leave her homeless?”
Li Su snorted coldly: "I don't care so much, anyway, I hate her, she must move out of my house immediately!."”
My son was helpless and speechless. Xiao Ming was still crying in my arms, I was very distressed, so I coaxed him softly: "Baby, grandma is here, she won't leave you, don't cry!."”
At this time, Li Suyi pulled Xiao Ming out of my arms and said to him seriously: "Xiao Ming, don't stick to grandma anymore, she's leaving!."”
Xiao Mingwa cried even louder, I quickly hugged him, and comforted him softly while stroking his back: "Good, don't cry, grandma is here, don't leave!."”
Seeing Xiao Ming crying so sadly, I felt very uncomfortable. While stroking his back, he coaxed him softly: "Baby, don't cry, grandma won't leave you." ”
My daughter-in-law Li Su couldn't stand it anymore, and she said to me helplessly: "Okay, okay, don't coax him." I was impulsive just now, you just thought I was joking, and I didn't really drive you away. ”
When I heard her words, my heart was relieved, and I hurriedly said, "That's really good." Su Su, don't say such angry words again in the future, you will frighten Xiao Ming. ”
Li Su nodded, turned to my son and said, "Husband, I'm sorry, I was too impulsive just now." Don't be mad at me, okay?”
My son sighed and said, "Susu, I understand that you are angry for a while, but you have to learn to control your temper. Mom is so old, you can't drive her away for no reason, it's not good for our mother-son relationship. ”
Li Su was also a little remorseful, she said to me: "Mom, to tell you the truth, with you helping to take care of Xiao Ming at home, I have indeed reduced a lot of burden, I shouldn't be so unreasonable, I will treat you well from now on." ”
I touched Li Su's hand and said movingly: "Susu, as long as you treat me better in the future, I will always stay here and help you take care of your family and Xiao Ming." ”
Xiao Ming stopped crying, he raised his little face to look at Li Su, and asked in a nasal voice, "Mom, don't you want grandma anymore?"”
Li Su hurriedly picked up Xiao Ming and said softly: "Baby, mom was joking just now, we love grandma very much, and grandma will always be with you." ”
Xiao Ming smiled happily at this time, he turned his head and said to me, "Grandma, you are not allowed to go, you must always accompany Xiao Ming!."”
I smiled and nodded, kissing Xiao Ming's cheek: "Good boy, grandma will always be with you." ”
Since then, Li Su has gradually gotten better to me. She is no longer unreasonable, often takes the initiative to help me with housework, and often buys some supplements for me to replenish my body. Once, she said to me, "Mom, I've worked hard for you all these years, it's me who is not good, and I always worry about you." Rest assured, I have understood and will take good care of you. ”
I was very moved, pulled her over and hugged her tightly, and sighed: "Susu, you have finally grown up." As long as our mother and son are in harmony, this is my greatest wish. ”
My son also came over and smiled and said, "Mom, it's warmer to have you in our house." We will always be united and live a happy and fulfilling life. ”
I smiled and nodded, my heart full of happiness. Thank God for making our family harmonious and united, this is my greatest wish in life.
Since that quarrel, my relationship with my daughter-in-law, Li Su, has improved a lot. Li Su began to learn to cherish me, and often took the initiative to help me with housework and let me rest more. I am no longer always critical of her, and I often praise her for the delicious food she cooks and encourage her to socialize more. The relationship between our mother and son is getting better and better.