Author: Wu Yuting
It is not easy for a person to live in this world, and it is even more difficult if you want to live a life with a head and a face to make a name for yourself.
Many people will always say that plain is true, but I don't think so, I think life is not easy, we should not pursue the ordinary, but to give full play to the energy of life, to self-improvement!
My philosophy of life is the philosophy of struggle, as our great leader said, fighting with the sky, with the earth, with people, and there is endless fun!
And I think that life is originally a competition, whether you want to or not, you have to participate in all kinds of competition, and all the time is about competition, until the living organism stops!
For example, the production of life, the competition of how many sperm is highlighted, and the combination of a sperm and an egg is highlighted, thus giving rise to life.
After life is born, it will experience the risk of growth and the competition of various environmental adaptations, and finally grow up**.
On the road to study, some people enter the university through competition, and some people can only step into the society as soon as possible without competition. After the experience of society, some people have started a family, and some people have not even married a daughter-in-law, what a cruel competition. And so on there are too many examples of competition.
Therefore, since we can't escape the competition, it is better to let go of the courage, work hard, and boldly participate in the competition, so that we will have a chance to win in life.
Therefore, I have always been very disgusted with the so-called plain is true, especially for young people, I even think that it is nonsense, obviously it is a cowardly performance of not working hard, being lazy, finding reasons, and making excuses, but I also find a high-sounding reason for myself!
Some people are indeed very hard-working, but they are frustrated everywhere, and they are often hit tragically, life goes by year by year, and when they reach the age of gray temples, they still achieve nothing, and finally become a cynical, socially hateful guy!
Of course, most people in this world will eventually become ordinary people, and successful people also have the background of the times, and they are all determined by various factors, not a single factor.
However, my personal reflection and review concludes that a very important reason why many people struggle all their lives and still have no way out, and even the harder they toss, the worse the final result is, is that they will not protect themselves in the process of struggle.
Of course, what I mean here is to protect oneself in a broad sense, and it is not only the protection of one's physical life, but also the protection of one's own time, energy, and faith.
Protecting oneself can also be understood as the ability to adapt to society.
I summarize it in the following three sentences:
Fight if you win
If you can't win, run
If you can't run, admit it
This is the principle of my competitive struggle, and it is also the magic weapon for mixing society and adapting to society.
I am not highly educated, and when I was studying in school, I didn't listen to the teacher's courses very carefully, and I was more aware of the things I worked hard in society, so what I wrote, most people may look very vulgar, and it doesn't look good, and in the eyes of some so-called "cultural people", it may also be scolded and called a barbaric hooligan thinking viewpoint.
But I don't think so, I thinkAs long as it is within the scope of the law, it is as simple, direct and effective as it is.
What annoys me the most is that I talk about it every day, and when I go to the society, I become a soft egg, and I don't dare to say a word, and the key is to pretend to be a decent gentleman, I can't even make a deal, and I can't get used to this, I can't get used to that, I have read a book all my life, in fact, I am a waste, and I don't have the ability to fight at all.
So, if you like to read what I write, then as long as you can really understand and accept it, and more importantly, you can really mix with society according to my point of view, and I don't say anything big, it is definitely beneficial to you, it definitely works, and it can also help you avoid a lot of pitfalls.
For example, three points to share with you today:
First of all, let's talk about the first point, if you win, you will fight
In fact, it is very simple, that is, what we do must be beneficial to ourselves, good for ourselves, in layman's terms, it can make you money, and it is legal, you just get it.
There are many young brothers and sisters who have just stepped into the society, and they often ask me Mr. Yuting, what am I doing?
In fact, there is no need to be so entangled, you can think properly, but don't be too entangled, as long as you can make money legally, you can do it and know how to do it, you can do it first, and you can adjust it in the exercise, that is, you can adjust and optimize it in the process of drying.
Second, if you can't win, you run, what's the point?
Contrary to the first point, that is, those who make less money, and those who are time-consuming and labor-intensive, and those who have no promotion, just leave directly, don't just listen to what others say about the iron rice bowl, what to be practical, and the requirements for stability, in fact, they are all false propositions, **What is the permanent iron rice bowl, **What is the absolute stability, many people have been pursuing stability, only to waste the years of struggle, and when they really realize, they have gray temples, and regret this and that, who do you blame?It's not that I blame myself for not being assertive and courageous, right?
Third, if you can't run, you admit it, what does it mean?
It's also very simple, if your current situation is not what you want, and it really doesn't meet the first point, but because of some factors, you can't leave it temporarily, then you don't want to fight, whether it's emotionally or personally, and actively adapt, to recuperate, accumulate strength and wait for the opportunity.
As long as you understand the three points I said above, you can easily mix society, including husband and wife, and you can learn and use it to make your family happy and harmonious.
If you think about it, isn't it the same when you get along with your wife or husband?
When you take advantage of the reason, when you can make sense, you can talk about it, when you can't make sense, you avoid it, if you really want one party to oppress it very often, you will suffer a loss at a glance, then you will first admit that you agree with it, right, then do this, the family relationship can still be disharmonious, then hell, right!
Dear friends, if you can persist in reading until now, I hope you can share these three articles with me, you must read and digest it repeatedly, and be familiar with it, then you will mix with society, not to mention how accomplished, at least you will not suffer a big loss, come on!
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