Tu Xiaozhen expressed his views to Chen Xiangnan:
No matter what kind of difficulties you encounter, you will never be alone, and I will always protect you. ”
At the end of the story of "Wrong Love for a Life", Tu Xiaozhen took out his diamond ring and expressed his emotions to Chen Xiangnan. Chen Xiangnan said that it would take some time to think, and Tu Xiaozhen responded affectionately: "Then, I will always wait." ”
After more than two decades of hard life, Chen Xiangnan has taken on many responsibilities that should not have been borne by her. Her kind character made her never complain, and this young woman of noble qualities deserved to find a perfect home.
Chen Xiangnan's feelings for Ma Ben have lasted for more than ten years, and Ma Ben is not only her little brother when she was young, but also her most sincere first love. However, as time went on, Ma Ben failed to stick to his original intentions, which disappointed Chen Xiangnan.
Ma Ben married Gu Yiluo, who came from a wealthy background, and thanks to the support of his wife, his career has made rapid progress, while Chen Xiangnan, who is in a difficult situation, seems destined to be only a temporary passerby in his life.
Compared with Ma Ben, Tu Xiaozhen's conditions are superior in many aspects.
From a personality point of view, Ma Ben tends to be melancholy, full of anger and jealousy of the world, and he is not very good at interpersonal communication; Tu Xiaozhen is full of energy and enthusiasm, full of sunshine and self-confidence, and is a very natural and mature person.
In terms of family finance, Ma Ben lost his parents when he was only 15 years old, lived under the protection of others, and faced various difficulties; His parents were also farmers, and they grew up in the countryside and couldn't find work in the city. Tu Xiaozhen's family runs a business, his father Tu Daqing is an important figure in the business world, and Tu Xiaozhen is a real rich second generation.
During his career, Ma Ben was hailed as a talented man in school, but due to his lack of background after graduation, his position in a large company was also that of an ordinary employee. He needs to rely on Gu Yiluo to pave the way for himself, which provides him with the opportunity to take on large-scale projects; Emotionally, he is a woman who loves his career and family, and he gives everything he has to his career. Tu Xiaozhen is not only a professional plastic surgeon, but also has an independent and self-motivated spirit, and his professional skills are also first-class.
More importantly, Ma Ben's marriage was a decision he made after weighing various pros and cons, and Tu Xiaozhen was not prejudiced against poverty and wealth, and he did his best to provide the necessary support for Chen Xiangnan in the face of life's difficulties.
Chen Xiangnan couldn't afford an expensive house, so Tu Xiaozhen found a suitable place to live for her; Chen Xiangnan took her mother to Shanghai to seek medical help, and Tu Xiaozhen arranged for her to be the attending doctor, a task that Ma Ben could not complete.
There is a view that Ma Ben is a wrong person, and Tu Xiaozhen is Chen Xiangnan's ideal partner. But is Tu Xiaozhen, who seems perfect on the surface, really worthy of our trust for a lifetime? What kind of man is he? His so-called "bad" is really difficult to think deeply.
1. Unable to resist **.
Ma Ben and Gu Yiluo were in a heavy mood after deciding to get married, because he didn't really like Gu Yiluo and had some kind of fantasy about Chen Xiangnan, so he decided to look for Chen Xiangnan.
Ma Ben thoughtfully laid a tarp on the roof of Chen Xiangnan's house, and Gu Yiluo waited at home all night, but Ma Ben did not go home for dinner. When Gu Yiluo learned of the emotional entanglement between Ma Ben and Chen Xiangnan, she took revenge on Chen Xiangnan."
Gu Yiluo hired someone to destroy Chen Xiangnan's roof in the middle of the night, and Tu Xiaozhen also became a link for Gu Yiluo to cause harm to Chen Xiangnan.
Gu Yiluo realized that the relationship between Tu Xiaozhen and Chen Xiangnan seemed to be a little ambiguous, so he said: "I want you to also experience the feeling of the man you like being taken away by others." ”
Soon after, the intimate relationship between Gu Yiluo and Tu Xiaozhen quickly showed in Chen Xiangnan's sight.
Tu Xiaozhen hugged Gu Yiluo's waist tightly, and the two had become an affectionate couple. When Tu Xiaozhen saw Chen Xiangnan, he nervously withdrew the hand holding Gu Yiluo, but Gu Yiluo held him down tightly. Tu Xiaozhen's face showed a complicated expression, looking very embarrassed.
When Gu Yiluo took down Tu Xiaozhen, he barely put in much effort. After an inquiry and a hot pot experience, Tu Xiaozhen was deeply attracted by Gu Yiluo and almost fell for it.
Tu Xiaozhen said that it was Gu Yiluo who took the initiative to show him love and wanted to become his girlfriend, so he forgot about his ambiguous relationship with Chen Xiangnan and quickly became a couple with Gu Yiluo.
When Tu Xiaozhen learned about the complicated relationship between Gu Yiluo and Chen Xiangnan, he suddenly understood everything, it turned out that Gu Yiluo's "beauty plan" made him fall into the trap unconsciously.
Tu Xiaozhen explained that the main reason why he "couldn't resist **" was that Gu Yiluo was too strategic, and Chen Xiangnan thought he was evading responsibility, Tu Xiaozhen added
I was too frivolous and indecisive, and she was too skillful, and I was deceived by her. ”
However, did Gu Yiluo really use some kind of powerful "soul hooking**" on Tu Xiaozhen? Why would he do that? Practically non-existent.
Gu Yiluo first went to Tu Xiaozhen and asked him about the tattoo on his forehead. The distance between the two was very close, and Gu Yiluo's subtle words made Tu Xiaozhen unable to control himself, and Tu Xiaozhen said with emotion that Gu Yiluo's beauty was like a work of art.
Gu Yiluo drove to pick up Tu Xiaozhen again and invited him to the hot pot together. He mentioned that he was creating** and asked Tu Xiaozhen to provide professional knowledge. At the banquet, Gu Yiluo especially praised Tu Xiaozhen's outstanding performance, which made Tu Xiaozhen very happy.
Even this kind of "skill" is hard to resist, so how to deal with all kinds of ** in life?
Gu Yiluo is indeed a person who is good at carving people's hearts, the simple Chen Xiangnan can't see Tu Xiaozhen's problem, only Gu Yiluo can see his true face, Gu Yiluo said to Chen Xiangnan:
I really don't have to make a fuss, men are always so mean, just give him a sip of water, he will mistake it for a full man, and his determination seems so fragile. ”
A simple sentence reveals the true nature of Tu Xiaozhen.
2. Violating professional ethics.
The most shocking thing Tu Xiaozhen did was to assist the fugitive Chen Jinpeng with plastic surgery.
Chen Jinpeng, who claimed to be Chen Aming, found Tu Xiaozhen, told him that he was stalked by his ex-wife and couldn't stand her pestering, and asked Tu Xiaozhen to help him become unrecognizable to others.
Tu Xiaozhen did not notice anything unusual, but happily helped Chen Aming complete the "replacement" of his face.
But at that time, Tu Xiaozhen had not finished his studies and was still doing practical Xi in the hospital. He secretly operated on Chen Aming without the permission of the hospital, which not only violated the regulations of the unit, but also treated the patient with a very irresponsible attitude.
Tu Xiaozhen didn't take this to heart, he didn't think he had done anything wrong, but was smug, showed Chen Xiangnan Chen Aming's **, and said narcissistically:
Only me, Tu Xiaozhen, can reach the realm of perfection. There is a saying that God let Mozart create**, Mozart's hands seem to be the hands of God, so who do my hands belong to? ”
Chen Xiangnan stared at the **, her heart almost jumped to her throat, because that was her father who was hunted down by **! He and she were both killed, but they were not the same person. The crime committed by Chen Jinpeng is indeed a **, and Tu Xiaozhen inadvertently became Chen Jinpeng's accomplice.
Chen Xiangnan nervously asked Tu Xiaozhen if anyone else knew about it, and Tu Xiaozhen gave this answer:
I did this quietly, how could I possibly tell anyone else? Unless I do it again, so I can win the applause of the whole world. ”
Tu Xiaozhen has an addictive and proud attitude towards the behavior of "secretly helping those with unknown backgrounds to change their faces", and he even wants to "do it again", this way of thinking is really thought-provoking and terrifying.
Tu Xiaozhen did not have an in-depth understanding of Chen Aming's background information, nor did he obtain permission from the hospital, so he secretly completed such a huge "work". His courage and mind are not delicate enough, so he is most vulnerable to exploitation by bad people.
In order to demonstrate his skills, Tu Xiaozhen chose Chen Aming as the experimental subject.
With the assistance of Tu Xiaozhen, Chen Jinpeng managed to escape for many years, which made it a huge challenge for ** to arrest him.
If Chen Jinpeng always keeps a low profile, will Tu Xiaozhen continue to be obsessed and assist more lawbreakers in "cross-dressing"?
Tu Xiaozhen expressed this opinion: "In our hospital, the doctors who are more famous than me are usually limited in financial resources, and the real level of medical care still depends on me Tu Xiaozhen. ”
There is no doubt that Tu Xiaozhen is a talented, professionally competent and confident man, but his blind narcissism, lack of understanding of society, and aiding and abetting behavior are truly disgusting.
3. Avoid taking responsibility.
After Chen Xiangnan browsed the **, she decided to remain silent because she wanted to persuade Chen Jinpeng to surrender.
Chen Jinpeng failed to surrender in time, and unfortunately suffered a car accident and lost his life in an argument with Gu Yiluo.
Tu Xiaozhen saw the whole incident with his own eyes, and he hurriedly asked Gu Yiluo about the connection between her and Chen Aming, and Gu Yiluo explained to Tu Xiaozhen:
Chen Aming is actually Chen Jinpeng, that is, Chen Xiangnan's father. Don't you know he's a wanted criminal? Don't you know that it's illegal for you to do so? I really feel sorry for you. ”
Gu Yiluo once again mentioned Tu Xiaozhen's problem, and it was then that Tu Xiaozhen realized that his overconfident talent had led to serious mistakes.
However, instead of reflecting deeply on his actions, he blamed Chen Xiangnan.
Tu Xiaozhen angrily reprimanded Chen Xiangnan harshly. He told her that since she saw the **, she should confess the truth, because there is still a chance to redeem the matter. In the face of such accusations, Chen Xiangnan seemed very timid, did not dare to refute, and apologized to Tu Xiaozhen again and again.
Tu Xiaozhen asked angrily: "How can I perform cosmetic surgery on a wanted criminal?" Why didn't you tell me, and why did you keep it a secret from me? ”
After reading this, I deeply realized that a man like Tu Xiaozhen is not worthy of Chen Xiangnan's deep love.
When he made a mistake, he didn't have the courage to accept it, but chose to blame others afterwards, blaming all the faults on the fragile Chen Xiangnan, and Tu Xiaozhen's behavior made people feel suffocated.
When investigating Chen's basic condition, Tu Xiaozhen should have followed professional ethics before the operation, instead of discovering the problem after the operation, and then accused Chen Xiangnan of not telling him that Tu Xiaozhen was actually putting himself first.
Tu Xiaozhen couldn't resist Gu Yiluo's temptation, so he also blamed all the blame on Gu Yiluo, claiming that her wrist was very strong, and she didn't want to admit that she had thoughts because she saw sex?
A really good man is not always good-looking, nor necessarily wealthy, but he definitely needs to be responsible. A responsible woman can win the respect and recognition of men. Tu Xiaozhen, a person who is Xi accustomed to shirking responsibility, often vents his anger on others, exaggerates himself, and it is really difficult to find true happiness when marrying this kind of man.
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