On December 27, the day before the case of "16 years of marriage and 3 children who are not biological", the woman's mother began to speak out.
Regarding her daughter's current situation, she said:
My daughter didn't come back, she had to work outside, support my 3 granddaughters, and her monthly salary was 3,000 yuan.
In this interview, he went through the man's shortcomings:
The daughter married in the first year, and when she gave birth to her in the second year, she came back, and his family said: "My daughter has no son, so he kicked her out, and he kicked my daughter in the lower body and wanted to beat my daughter to death." If my village hadn't seen it, she would have died. ”
On December 26, the man said in an interview:
I even want to breathe a sigh of relief in my dreams, but what I am seeking now is the legal means, hoping that they will be punished by the law, and I believe that the law will give me fairness and justice.
Since the man started his hair, he has not continued to work, borrowed money to live, and his mind is full of this matter, and he just wants this matter to have a result and start again.
He made it clear:Pre-trial mediation is not accepted.
Previously, the woman had spoken out about the incident:
What's wrong with no blood relationship, the child who was brought back is still raised by others, why can't you!
Since the incident, the woman's family has never given the man a minimum apology.
After the appraisal results came out, the man wanted an explanation, but was blocked by the woman.
The woman even went to blow up the window of the man's house.
And the woman's three daughters also ignored the man, and the eldest daughter even said in an interview that the man treated them badly and she hated the man.
Now the woman's mother has experienced the man's shortcomings: patriarchy, domestic violence.
And for the three non-biological children, the man's attitude is:
"I still have children in my heart, but children don't have me in their hearts, and I don't know who taught them. They ignored me, didn't recognize me, and haven't seen them since March 2022. This practice is to sprinkle salt on the wound. ”
Since the incident, whether it is the woman or the woman's parents, and even the three children raised by the man for more than 10 years, they have not felt the slightest guilt about the man, but resentment.
Why?In fact, the man has been working outside for more than 16 years, and although most of his salary is handed over, he only returns home once in two or three months. I don't have time to get along with my children, and my feelings are indifferent.
The woman has long had a different heart, the man has been away from home for too long, and the woman has already had her own life.
After the man's ** incident, the children felt that they were innocent. But because of his father's **, he suffered a lot of criticism, so he hated his father.
But this thing:The woman is the culprit and the root cause of the daughters' criticism, and the man is the biggest victim.
The man's ** lawyer said that the divorce lawsuit mainly involves several aspects:
One is to ask for a divorce;It can be seen that most of the court trials were civil lawsuits. The maximum moral compensation is 50,000 yuan, plus the maintenance of the three children, and some relevant people said that it can reach up to about 580,000 yuan.The second is that the woman is fraudulent and demands the return of relevant expenses, including the child's education fees, child support, etc.;
The third is the custody of the child, which is required to belong to the woman.
In addition, it is to claim compensation for moral damages.
At present, it is not convenient to disclose the total amount of litigation return and compensation.
But 580,000 yuan can't make up for the 16 years that the man paid wrongly.
The man has been live streaming recently, bluntly saying that he wants revenge.
Because,Although the impact of this incident is bad, it is difficult to determine the woman's bigamy, and if there is no new key evidence, then it is difficult to hold the woman criminally responsible.
Since the incident fermented, the biological father of the three children has never shown up.
And Wu, who had been to the hotel with the woman and was discovered by the man, had already run away. He said that he has a family, and those three children have nothing to do with him.
The man once said,He has the object of suspicion, but there is no evidence.
And once the criminal liability cannot be pursued, and it is only civil compensation, then it is difficult to intervene to find the biological father of the child.
And the man only relies on his own strength to find out the biological father of the child, which is tantamount to finding a needle.
The man said that he also provided updated key evidence, but it could not be made public before the trial.
According to the current evidence, the woman's monthly salary is only 3,000 yuan, and she has to raise three children, even if civil compensation is made, the probability that she can bear all of them is very small.
If the child's biological parents do not appear, there is great uncertainty as to whether the man can receive full civil compensation.
And even if the man can get full compensation, the relationship that has been wrongly paid for 16 years has been greatly traumatized physically and mentally, and this impact is a lifelong thing.
Shameful to his parents, Xia Bai raised three daughters, and he himself completely collapsed because of the incident.
Just because he met such a woman, half of his life was ruined.
Another potentially brutal truth is:
If the woman knew that the child was not the man's biological child at the time, and then asked the man to take over, then the past 16 years would be a complete use and calculation.
The reality is cruel enough to ruin a person's life.