Emotional management is very important for children's development, and there is a clear difference in emotional expression between children who "cry at every turn" and "endure without crying".
1. Children who "cry at every turn".
Xiao Ming is a boy who often cries his nose and is nicknamed "little girl" by adults. When he encounters grievances or is bullied, Xiao Ming's tears will drip down. However, Xiao Ming knows how to tell his teachers or parents about his situation, and seek help from adults to deal with it fairly. He is very sensible, good at communication and expression, emotionally stable, and even becomes a teacher's little assistant in the class.
2. Children who "endure and don't cry".
Xiaoyue is a girl who doesn't like to cry, and she is afraid to cry because she was often reprimanded by her mother when she was a child. Therefore, when she encounters bullying or grievances, she never sheds tears, keeps all negative emotions in her heart, and is not good at expressing and communicating with others. Children release their emotions by crying, and if the child does not cry, negative emotions will accumulate in the heart, which will have a negative impact on the child's character development.
Every child has a different way of expressing themselves and dealing with emotions in a different way. Some children are emotionally sensitive and cry easily due to external stimuliSome children are more calm, good at self-regulation, and not easy to show emotions. From the perspective of parents, it is necessary to have a correct knowledge and understanding of children's emotional expressions, respect children's feelings, and guide them to establish healthy emotional management.
When children interact with others, they tend to look for people who are lively, sincere, and affable as friends. However, there are differences in the psychological defense mechanisms between children who like to cry from an early age and those who don't like to cry from an early age.
1. Children who "cry at every turn".
Children who are often allowed to cry since childhood, they are good at releasing their stress and bad emotions, like to open their hearts with others, and are easy to establish true friend relationships with others. They are emotionally rich, love and hate, and do not have too much psychological defense. Such children are more open in their interactions and have a positive attitude towards people and things.
2. Children who "endure and don't cry".
Compared with children who love to cry, children who do not like to cry or are not allowed to cry are psychologically more defensive. They are often reticent and live in solitude all the time, and even after working with others for a long time, it is difficult to really understand their personalities and preferences. This type of child is insecure and reluctant to interact with people, especially strangers.
The formation of children's communicative ability and psychological defense mechanism is closely related to family education. It is very important for children to learn to communicate, understand and express their emotions with others. Parents should create a safe and open family environment that encourages children to express their emotions, while focusing on guiding children to master good interpersonal skills and cultivating positive and healthy psychological defense mechanisms.
The way children manage their emotions is inextricably linked to physical and mental health, and there are differences in physical and mental health between children who are allowed to cry and those who are depressed about crying.
1. Children who "cry at every turn".
Compared to children who do not like to cry, the emotions of children who are allowed to cry are accepted by their parents. Children can express their needs by crying, parents can comfort and meet their children's needs in time, and children learn to release emotions without accumulating negative emotions, which can have a positive impact on physical and mental health.
2. Children who "endure and don't cry".
Compared to the image of being obedient and sensible, children who do not like to cry or are not allowed to cry do not mean good emotional management. Such children do not know how to release their emotions, and when negative emotions such as sadness, grievance, and sadness accumulate, it can have a negative impact on the child's physical and mental health. They will not be aware of their emotional problems in time, and may even have an emotional breakdown in the face of major difficulties.
Parents should look at their children's emotional expressions rationally, understand the normal emotional needs of their children in the process of growth, and provide appropriate guidance according to their children's personality characteristics. In family education, parents can focus on cultivating children's emotional management skills and guide them to vent their emotions in appropriate ways, such as through painting, writing, sports, etc. At the same time, it is also important to give children enough security and support so that they know that their feelings are respected and understood.
In conclusion, parents should look at their child's "crying" emotions with a reasonable attitude and understand the differences in their children's emotional expression. Parents should guide their children's growth and emotional management in a timely manner according to their children's personality characteristics and needs, and create a good physical and mental health environment for them.