Since Hou Zhihong brought his little concubine Ping back to Chongqing, this woman who had never seen the world was shocked by the prosperity of the city!
She sat gracefully on the pole, as if she were being held up and swaying in the market. In front of her was a large paper cup filled with coffee and water. She was followed by the servants of the waiting house, and she looked around, and the whole person felt like the demeanor of a wealthy wife.
When she stepped into the waiting house, her aura became extremely powerful, as if she had finally become a member of this wealthy family she dreamed of, like a phoenix soaring on the branches!She completely forgot her true identity, and while looking around at this luxurious courtyard, she excitedly pulled Hou Zhihong to ask what was going on. "Who are you?".Her eyes were full of excitement that could not be concealed, and she did not have the reserve that a new daughter-in-law should have when she met her in-laws.
Not only people, but the old lady's first impression is also crucial, she sees her true face at a glance and does not hesitate to bring an ominous star back to her home!
Mrs. Hou was originally upset because of Ziping's existence, but when she saw Ziping's uneducated appearance, she was even more angry and loudly asked her to leave.
Where is Ziping sacred, she is a woman full of ambition and means. Over the years, she has traveled around and performed in plays, and her heart is so resilient that it has reached the point of invulnerability. Otherwise, we can't easily include Hou Zhihong, a wealthy young master, and successfully conceived a child, winning the honor of "bronzing" for himself to enter a wealthy family.
When she heard Mrs. Hou ask her to leave, she initially showed some emotion, turned around and prepared to leave, she realized that Hou Zhihong might hold her. She thought that if he hadn't pulled her, there would not be such a result today. As expected, Hou Zhihong fell into the trap, but was frightened back by the old lady's sudden roar. Ziping suddenly went home at this critical moment, sat on the chair, crossed her legs, and said to the old lady triumphantly: Why are you leaving, this is my home, I am your son's daughter-in-law officially married, if you don't like it, I can't stop your son's liking. made the old lady wait widen her eyes in anger.
This was the first duel between Ziping and the old lady, and in the end, the old lady angrily decided to leave, and won a landslide victory. The old lady's anger flowed down her calloused face. It was only then that Mrs. Hou realized that Ziping was definitely not an energy-saving lamp.
From then on, despite the old lady's harsh words, she never loudly demanded her to leave. Her temper is getting better and better, and her children are very filial. She also used some small strategies to give birth to a boy for Hou Zhihong, and gradually stabilized her position, if it weren't for her improper relationship with someone, she wouldn't have suffered an unfortunate fate.
This really validates the old saying that you can't survive by yourself!
Let's take a closer look at how this woman repeatedly neglected herself
As soon as Ziping walked in the door, she was severely admonished by the old lady and arranged to live in a small room on the west side. Although she did not reflect on herself, her heart was full of resentment, and complained to Hou Zhihong: I originally thought that I could live a prosperous and rich life by following you, but I didn't expect to be insulted as soon as I entered the door. "I'm going to eat you right now!This sentence reveals Ziping's excessive pursuit of pleasure.
After Jin Guoxiu learned that Hou Zhihong had raised a concubine, he was unwilling to let himself be wronged, and resolutely decided to end his marriage with Hou Zhihong. The concubine's mother held a solemn wedding for them at home, but they were turned away. Ziping heard the news on the first day she walked into the house, and she was very happy. She said to the old lady in the tone of a daughter-in-law, "Mom, if my sister wants to leave, let him go." We should give my sister more money, and I'll take over her work. She knew that she was a poor person, and in order to make a living, she could only do what she could, but she couldn't earn all the money back, so she tried to save it. I didn't know how much I weighed, and before I had even stabilized, I was planning to take the fruits of other people's years of hard work.
Profligate and lack the spirit of hardship and hard work. Her parents, who were laid-off workers, were only paid a hundred yuan a month. Since Jin Guoxiu and Hou Zhihong ended their marriage, both of them have an income of ten yuan per month. But she is reluctant to spend money, she eats big fish and small meat every day, and she eats very fragrant and sweet. Logically, Ziping comes from a poor family, and she should know how to spend each day wisely. But for her, today she wants to eat chicken, tomorrow she wants to eat duck, she dresses up every day to go shopping, and ten yuan a month is simply not enough to pay.
He burst into the store, forced Kim to hand over the keys to the store, and threatened that she was the official daughter-in-law of the Hou family, and as an outsider, Kim had no right to interfere with the family's property. After that, the matter reached the ears of the old lady, and the old lady completely refuted her with one sentence, she firmly stated that all the property of the Hou family was earned by her and Guoxiu together, and had nothing to do with her.
Compared with these trivial things, what really made her ask for trouble was her boldness and improper relationship with the eldest young master of the Niu family, and she put on an "emerald green" hat for Hou Zhihong.
At that time, Hou Zhihong had already become a respected division commander, how could he tolerate the filthy breath, and in anger he wanted to throw these two disgraceful items into the river. So, he enlisted the help of many people on board. When Ziping was dying, she hugged Jin Guoxiu's thigh tightly and refused to let go, begging her for help. Jin Guoxiu's heart was full of sympathy, so he came up with a win-win solution, so that Mrs. Hou regarded Ziping as her goddaughter and married the eldest young master of the Niu family. This approach not only ensured Ziping's life safety, but also showed the wisdom of Houjia.
At first, people thought that there was a deep relationship between the young master of the Niu family and Ziping, but they didn't expect that this young master was actually a flowery guy. His secret romance with Ziping is just for the sake of novelty. However, he has now made a move on Ziping, which makes him very angry. He frequently poisoned Ziping, but then the two had a new romance and sent her back to the countryside. In a state of extreme boredom, Ziping gradually became addicted to drugs and couldn't extricate herself.
A flower that is so beautiful that it is heartwarming, in its most brilliant time, is gradually withering because of its own actions!
To sum up, in her life, although Ziping suffered from the cold reception of her mother-in-law and husband, this was also a reason why she did not take action, so she decided to give up everything. Now although she is close to the age of sixteen, she is still a poor bastard, and her life is tight. If she had been able to clearly realize her shortcomings at that time, not pursue material comforts, learn a frugal lifestyle, and follow Kim Kook-so to learn business knowledge in depth, then her life could have changed a lot!
She used to express the opinion about this old lady: she has never experienced a life of affluence, but when she sees money, her eyes brighten, she talks about food and dress, she holds music and puts on a haughty posture, she is not the kind of person who lives her life". "She's a typical rich woman, but she doesn't have that kind of wealth. Her life has been spent in one contradiction after another, and her success lies in this. "We often say that character shapes fate, but maybe Ziping's fate has long been predetermined by fate!
As women, we must follow the right path and should not always expect easy results, otherwise we may suffer a fate like Ziping's. We know that in real life, there are many men who have had this experience and have been unlucky, for example, I once had such a husband. I think that's exactly what the writers want to convey to us!