What do "promises" and "pledges" stand for?In layman's terms, it is a guarantee and a bridge of mutual trust.
When Alan Tam was interviewed, he once said a sentence:"It's not a show or a show, there are women behind every man, and they both work so hard."
One gave Alan Tam a career, and the other had children with him.
After many years, people can't help but sigh that if Yang Jiewei had half the ability of Cui Yaoqi, she would not have fallen to the point of cutting her hair and becoming a nun.
I can't imagine how much pain her heart hurts at the moment when she cuts her hair. As the worst "original match", Yang Jiewei is on the list.
In order to cater to her husband's idea of "Dink", she gave up her "own flesh and blood" many times. Unexpectedly, in his old age, Alan Tam hugged back a big fat son.
At that moment, Yang Jiewei had no self-esteem, and the whole person fell to the bottom. After all, she paid a heavy price for her "moth to the fire".
Today, let's talk about Yang Jiewei's story.
In 1996, Alan Tam was immersed in the joy of being promoted to fatherhood.
As everyone knows, the paparazzi have been following the shooting for many days, and they have already controlled the scandal of him and Zhu Yongting's "two goals". Many ** appeared in front of everyone, and ** heated discussions.
Yang Jiewei, as Alan Tam's wife, is also an agent. The relevant personnel were contacted as soon as possible to try to minimize all the negative news.
At the same time, through acquaintances, Yang Jiewei learned the residence of Alan Tam's "Golden House Hidden Jiao".
She was very worried, afraid that all this was true, and hoped that these were "rumors". After dressing up carefully, Yang Jiewei came to the door of the mansion.
Looking at the children's supplies drying in the yard, her heart gradually panicked.
Just as he was about to turn around and leave, Alan Tam pushed the door out with a basin of clothes to be dried. The two of them looked at each other, and everything was self-evident.
Yang Jiewei's tears couldn't help but flow down, she couldn't believe all this, it was like a dream. Angry, she turned around and was about to leave, Alan Tam hurriedly caught up with the car.
At the same time, by the glass window of the mansion, a graceful woman watched every move in the car. She is also very worried, the matter has been revealed, what awaits her?
Alan Tam in the car lowered his head, like a child who had done something wrong, and he asked cautiously"Isn't it that people outside already know about it"?
Yang Jiewei did not respond, no one could understand the pain in her heart.
Over the years, she has lost too much in order to fulfill her husband's career. But after thousands of calculations, I didn't expect that it would be the result of "sprinkling salt on the wound" like this.
What are you yourself?An ornament, or a stepping stone?If it weren't for the death of his father, Alan Tam didn't know how long he would have to hide.
In just 3 years, this man showed his true colors. Recalling that in order to protect her husband's career, Yang Jiewei stopped all the responsibility on herself, and she couldn't wait to find a crack to get into.
How many people scolded her for not being worthy, how many people ridiculed her for climbing the dragon and the phoenix, and how many people waited to see the "joke". In the end, the marriage that has been painstakingly managed for many years, the clown turned out to be himself.
After calming down, Yang Jiewei asked"When did it start and why did you do it?".
Alan Tam took a deep breath and told the ins and outs.
He bluntly said that when there was a problem in his marriage, he met Zhu Yongting. It has been rumored that this woman is her fan, and the process of meeting is very romantic.
In fact, Alice Chu's idol is Leslie Cheung. By chance, the two met, and the feeling of hating each other arose spontaneously, and through ** contact, a deep emotional foundation was established.
In Alan Tam's heart, although Alan Chu is very gentle and understanding, she understands very well what she wants.
I couldn't extricate myself from the depths of my feelings, just like all kinds of words, knowing that it was a mistake, but both of them chose moths to fight the fire.
The arrival of the child was completely unexpected. After Alan Tam and Alice Chu discussed, they decided to leave the crystallization of love.
Seeing the person next to the pillow indifferently saying these words, Yang Jiewei's thoughts began to be messy, she didn't understand what she had done wrong
In front of people, she was the "Mrs. Tan" with infinite scenery, and with a marriage, she became a winner in life. In fact, who knows how much she has paid along the way?
The reason why Yang Jiewei is well-known to us is because she is Alan Tam's wife. She was outstanding, and when she was young, she was a beauty consultant for a cosmetics company.
In the days when no one cared about her, she learned beauty Xi, whether it was her profession or interest, she could clearly feel that she was a beauty lover.
As a stage designer, Yang Jiewei's thinking is ahead of her time, and she can always match eye-catching looks. When she first met Alan Tam, she also played the role of "empathetic".
When he was 18 years old, Alan Tam formed a band with Chen Baixiang and others, and often performed on stage in dance halls. Later, he took everyone to participate in the competition, but the results were not very satisfactory.
Eventually, in 1971, the band disbanded.
When his career was not going well, Alan Tam was drunk in a bright place, and at the same time met Yang Jiewei. Looking at the man's melancholy expression, pity somehow gave birth to love in her heart.
In fact, before this, Yang Jiewei had seen Alan Tam on TV. Compared to other contestants, she feels that this man is very talented and will definitely become a great player in the future.
So they stepped forward to talk, and after some conversation, the relationship between the two gradually became familiar.
In the face of tender care, Alan Tam had a different kind of good feeling in his heart. So he took the initiative to attack and easily took down Yang Jiewei.
It is worth mentioning that since the relationship was confirmed, Yang Jiewei gave up her high-paying job and fell under Alan Tam's jeans and became his personal assistant.
In order to help her boyfriend realize her dreams, she taught herself stage and costume design, and constantly improved her abilities, just for Alan Tam to realize her dreams.
Objectively speaking, Yang Jiewei is a talented girl, what she is like when she learns. Not only has an outstanding vision, but also has a high level of attainment in stage design.
If it weren't for love, maybe she would have bloomed her own light in these fields.
On the other hand, Alan Tam, with the help of Yang Jiewei, his career has soared. It not only opened up its own popularity, but also gained a firm foothold in the Hong Kong music scene.
While running a business, he fell in love with Yang Jiewei. For 7 years, this woman has been like an all-round nanny, taking care of Alan Tam's food, clothing and daily life.
It is no exaggeration to say that Alan Tam has such a high achievement in his career, half of which is due to his own efforts and dedication, and the other half is due to Yang Jiewei.
When they became famous, the two secretly registered in the United States as husband and wife.
In order not to affect Alan Tam's career, Yang Jiewei chose to conceal this matter, which also laid the groundwork for "cheating in marriage".
As his career got better and better, Alan Tam became the most representative singer in Hong Kong in the 80s, which also caused the situation of "Tam Zhang competing for hegemony".
Perhaps for the development of the music scene, Alan Tam and Leslie Cheung have successively announced their withdrawal from the competition.
Later, the "Four Heavenly Kings" appeared, filling the vacancy in Hong Kong's music scene, and the music scene ushered in a new era and chapter. Alan Tam, who has achieved fame, is also slowing down the pace of life at this juncture.
In the past, he had been busy chasing fame and fortune, and he rarely focused on his family. Until this turmoil faded away, Alan Tam's heart was shaken.
In 1991, he proposed the idea of "having a child" to Yang Jiewei. After hearing this appeal, Yang Jiewei's heart suddenly began to feel uneasy.
You must know that she was pregnant many times back then, but Alan Tam persuaded her to "give up" for the sake of her career. With countless physical injuries, Yang Jiewei has long been unable to give birth normally.
At this juncture, what does it mean to want to have a baby?
When the two got married, Alan Tam once said very firmly:"I want to develop my career well, I don't want to drag my family with me, let's dink it and carry out love to the end."
Yang Jiewei was immersed in sweet joy, and she nodded in response"I will do anything for you".
The "agreement" was broken in this way, without any preparation. Yang Jiewei thinks that if she gives everything, Alan Tam will feel happy.
After all, it was a mistake, and there was no turning back.
Yang Jiewei thought about all this, and then looked at the "children's clothes" swaying in the wind, her heart hurt so much that it dripped. In the end, she drove Alan Tam out of the car and left alone.
On the other side, after the Tan family learned about this incident, they quarreled. Some people felt unworthy for Yang Jiewei and scolded Alan Tam for being "irresponsible".
You must know that since becoming the daughter-in-law of the Tan family, she has been very filial, and everything in the family has been taken care of. Some people also think that Alan Tam should have a child, and he is innocent.
So, where should Zhu Yongting go?
As the biological mother of the child, do you want to kick her out?Can Yang Jiewei calmly accept the "illegitimate child" born to this pillow person?
Obviously, no woman can be so generous.
From beginning to end, what Yang Jiewei wanted was a stable family. Because he loves Alan Tam, he does his best to help him pursue his dreams in life.
She gave up her pursuit, her rights as a mother, and everything in exchange for such an ending. Alan Tam is equivalent to inserting a knife in Yang Jiewei's heart.
In the end, there was a "buffer" for this matter, and Alan Tam responded to his "extramarital affair". He admitted the existence of the child and Zhu Yongting, and expressed his apologies to Yang Jiewei.
In this way, the entanglement of the three people kicked off, and there were heated discussions in the outside world.
In order to ensure his reputation and give Yang Jiewei a "comfort", Alan Tam wrote a letter of guarantee. Leave more than a billion of her property to her.
What I am most afraid of in the relationship is "impurities", after this incident, Yang Jiewei is not as good as before, and the whole person's attitude towards Alan Tam has changed.
She chose to forgive, after all, after living together for many years, this woman doesn't know where to go.
Unexpectedly, Alan Tam's father died, and Alan Tam's actions directly injured Yang Jiewei's body. Zhu Yongting, whose mother is expensive with her son, took her son Tan Xiaofeng to attend the funeral as the original partner.
She was heartbroken, looking at all this in front of her, her whole heart was like ashes.
The husband's affection and the arrogance of the third party shattered Yang Jiewei's pride and decency in an instant. In the end, she chose to cut her hair as a nun and the green lantern ancient Buddha as her companion.
I often wonder what kind of despair and helplessness a person who loves beauty so much when his hair falls out
After Yang Jiewei became a monk, Alan Tam followed closely behind to "straighten out" Alice Chu, and all the property she had promised was handed over to Alice Chu and her son.
Promise" is like a piece of waste paper, Alan Tam finally failed Yang Jiewei.
Later, when it came to Yang Jiewei's ordination, Alan Tam claimed in an interview:"There are no nuns in my family, and no one is a monk."。The implication is that the line seems to have been drawn, and other people's affairs have nothing to do with themselves.
is not only embarrassing, if Yang Jiewei has half the ability of Cui Yaoqi, she will not be bullied by this man to "cut her hair and become a nun".
You must know that Kou Shixun is also "cheating in marriage", but the original partner of this old drama bone is very skillful. controlled the financial power for the first time, and firmly grasped the lifeblood of Kou Shixun and Xu Lidan.
Yang Jiewei is too kind to bear to be "strong", and in the end she fell into such a situation.
But from another point of view, such an exit is also a relief. All we can do is respect her, this excellent and excellent wife, which makes people feel distressed.
I don't know, when Alan Tam's family of three was happy, there was a moment in my heart that I remembered that a woman once loved him miserably