Revisiting the original work of "It's All Good", I understood why Su Daqiang was so "crazy" after his wife died.
Su Mingyu is the epitome of a group of people, and her body portrays what kind of posture people grow up in a "patriarchal" family.
But the root cause of this tragedy is really caused by Zhao Meilan?Su Daqiang is very cowardly, compared with film and television dramas, he is more intuitive in the original book.
The sound of firecrackers sounded to welcome the old and welcome the new, Su Daqiang was eating Chinese New Year's Eve dinner at home, and his little nanny Cai Genhua was a big baby, and he was not by his side.
The woman went home and was reunited with her son and daughter-in-law.
In the deserted room, Su Daqiang was depressed, eating some leftovers, trying to fill the emptiness in his heart through alcohol. It's like his life, which seems to be stable and free of wind and waves, but in fact there are too many unspeakable secrets.
The cold rice wine went down to his stomach, and in an instant Su Daqiang's stomach reacted, just like his "marriage" with Zhao Meilan. Knowing that he couldn't do it, it caused a tragedy that shrouded his life.
Mingzhe is far away in the United States, and far water can't quench his thirst. Mingcheng was nowhere to be found, and he had to ask Su Mingyu for help.
On the occasion of the New Year's reunion, Su Daqiang was on an intravenous drip in the hospital, which was like a metaphor for his family, which was a kind of pathology.
After treatment, Mingyu took him back to his villa and celebrated the New Year with Shi Tiandong, she stood in front of the floor-to-ceiling window, took a deep breath and sighed in her heart"After so many years of struggle, there is no way to escape after all".
Zhao Meilan's two favorite sons before her death, one is missing, and the other is running her own small family thousands of miles away, and in the end, it is Mingyu who is filial to her father's knees.
She stood in front of the floor-to-ceiling window, looking at Su Daqiang refracted on the glass, and the two had no similarities. Mingyu finally sighed, since the wood has been completed, it is better to live in a daze.
This is the finale of the original book, which is very realistic.
From a certain point of view, the "reunion" in the TV series gives people a kind of shock and reflection, but life is so cruel.
On the screen, Su Daqiang suffered from Alzheimer's disease, and he remembered that when his daughter was in junior high school, he wanted a Xi practice book.
This scene makes people feel very touching, and it is a different kind of refraction of father's love.
Because when he was very young, Mingyu only had much knowledge left, his father was a cold-eyed person who never loved him, and was even slapped by his mother on his knees.
It wasn't until the Xi book appeared that she suddenly understood that her father loved her very much.
It's just that he once knelt on the ground and was slapped for "hiding private money", just to support his own study. In the end, she was relieved, forgave her mother, and welcomed a new chapter in her life in a new way.
Compared with the ending of the original book, at such an ending on the screen, the director shows the "goodness" of human nature to the fullest.
However, after reading the original book, most people are troubled by three questions.
First, Su Mingyu is the youngest daughter, why is Zhao Meilan so disgusted?
Second, is there a blood relationship between Su Mingyu and Su Daqiang?
Third, after Zhao Meilan's death, why was Su Daqiang so "crazy"?
Until the end, the author did not explain these problems. After reading it many times, I suddenly understood that Zhao Meilan's "two begging people to do things" ripped off Su Daqiang's "fig leaf".
Who is Zhao Meilan?Before he got married, he was beautiful and a capable person in ten miles and eight villages. As the ** of the county health station, there is no shortage of suitors around him.
If it weren't for the ** of her original family, she could have gone through this long life according to her own ideas.
Who is Su Daqiang?Before he got married, he looked ugly, and the older leftover man was still a mother. She was a wooden person, and she gave up at a young age, and she couldn't find a suitable candidate for marriage in the city.
If it weren't for Su Daqiang's mother looking for matchmaker Zhang Luo and looking for an expert in living at home from the countryside, it is unknown what his marriage would be.
Two people who don't have any emotional foundation live together, although through blind dates, they may be able to establish deep love, but it is too difficult for Zhao Meilan and Su Daqiang.
It is no exaggeration to say that the marriage of the two is "each taking what he needs".
Su Daqiang's mother needs a capable daughter-in-law to support the whole family. The cocoon on Zhao Meilan's hand is the main reason why she was picked.
Zhao Meilan's mother hopes to change the fate of the whole family through her daughter, after all, Su Daqiang is a person with a city hukou, and through marriage, maybe she can bring others into the city.
So in order to promote this marriage, the parents of both parties can be said to be working together. Su Daqiang's mother bought the best dowry.
Zhao Meilan's mother pulled her husband, who was paralyzed in bed, and knelt in front of her daughter. said with teary eyes"You pity and pity us, just for this family, let's marry."
Filial piety, she is burdened with the "grace of nurturing", after all, without her mother's cultivation, she would not have her own today. Zhao Meilan was entangled and struggling in her heart, and that feeling of powerlessness occupied her entire chest.
Could it be that this is "resignation"?But Su Daqiang is not a good person, a "fire pit" visible to the naked eye. Looking at the dowry gift from the Su family, Zhao Meilan's thoughts began to be messy, and finally she nodded and agreed.
It's a pity that on the day of the wedding, the two families got married.
The dowry given by Su's mother was very generous, but in the end, it was left by Zhao's mother. When Zhao Meilan got married, she just married a quilt and two pillows.
Because of this incident, Su Mu felt that the Zhao family was a little "excessive", and she couldn't say anything about the fire in her heart. Unexpectedly, when the cave room spent the night of candles, Zhao Meilan and Su Daqiang also had an unpleasant incident.
This man thought that he had married a yellow flower girl. Unexpectedly, after the gift of Zhou Gong, Zhao Meilan did not "fall red".
He was angry in his heart, looking at the white sheets, his face was pale and he wanted to attack.
Zhao Meilan slapped Su Daqiang directly in the face, and finally he endured it and spent the whole night angry and hateful.
In fact, it is not a scientific act to accept a woman's innocence "in a red way". But some "gossip" gradually made him lose his rational judgment.
In order to find the truth, for a long time, Su Daqiang secretly followed, trying to verify the guess in his heart.
When Su Mingzhe sorted out his family history, he mentioned the ins and outs of this matter.
Among the rumors of relatives, Su Daqiang received a signal that Zhao Meilan's work was "regularized" because he had made a transaction with a person from the county health bureau to "take what he needs".
Because there is no emotional basis, coupled with the "erosion" of this gossip. Gradually, Su Daqiang believed the rumors, and told his mother what he heard as soon as possible.
Hearing about the "scandal", Su's mother was angry and didn't fight anywhere, and directly picked Zhao Meilan when her relatives were there, and Zhao Meilan was counted as useless, and the whole family was completely "separated".
From Zhao Meilan's point of view, she is a very strong person.
The beginning of this marriage was reluctant. In the end, because of "gossip", she was despised and ridiculed by everyone, and she was really not angry
She hated it to the core, and drove everyone out of the door directly, Su Mu fell into the water, crying and telling about the misfortune of the family, and then the cold entered the body and fell ill.
Su Daqiang was very cowardly, he stood aside and looked indifferently at everything that happened in front of him.
In the end, Su's mother died of illness, and Zhao Meilan controlled the financial power of the entire family and became an absolute authority. Su Daqiang didn't dare to have any complaints, and the hatred in his heart grew day by day.
He attributed all the faults to Zhao Meilan, and even moved the idea of divorce. What can I do, I couldn't control my lower body, and gave birth to 2 sons one after another, Su Mingzhe and Su Mingcheng.
It is worth mentioning that Zhao Meilan's sister once explained this matter to Su Daqiang.
The reason why Zhao Meilan was able to enter the county health center to work was not because she "sold herself". It's just because she used to work as a nurse in the leader's home and took care of her hands-on, and she got the attention of the other party.
But Su Daqiang believes that this is the "excuse" of the Zhao family. Later, with the arrival of the child, this "past" was no longer mentioned, but it was never seriously resolved.
It's like a thorn that strikes every once in a while. Later, Zhao Meilan's younger brother entered the city.
The two people who were already related to the freezing point have changed their life trajectories. Su Daqiang insisted on divorce, and Zhao Meilan was coerced by her original family.
In the end, Zhao's mother kowtowed and broke the blood, which stopped her daughter's behavior. In order to save her marriage, Zhao Meilan endured the disgust in her heart and found Su Daqiang.
was pregnant with Su Mingyu in this way, and the divorce was put on hold.
In Su Daqiang's heart, he did not really accept Mingyu, and Mingyu also asked Mr. Meng for verification.
After all, he and his parents are people of the same age, and Lao Meng once worked hard to transfer his and his wife's hukou to this city.
But Zhao Meilan did it easily, and she was powerless, leaving everyone with a conjecture.
What the hell is going on here?So far, everyone has been in the air, but what is certain is that Su Daqiang defined everything as "betrayal".
From beginning to end, he never talked to his wife seriously, living in "self-speculation".
I often wonder if Su Daqiang had talked openly and honestly, would the marriage between him and Zhao Meilan be a different ending?
Not only does it make people sigh, marriage is a lifelong thing, and husband and wife try not to have overnight "hatred" between them. Self-righteous "forbearance" may be a kind of ignorance and ignorance.
This is a knife that hurts not only each other, but also the children they conceive together.