Today's women are no longer dependent on men to survive, and their biggest hole card has never been their husbands.
There are three things, you must not stop, do these three things well, there is the hardest hole card.
Learning is a lifelong thing, an indispensable nourishment for every age, and a sign that the mind is still growing.
Women should never stop learning at any time, because learning is not only to change the present, but also to cater to the future. Only with learning can there be updates and iterations, and your life will be thriving and full of vitality.
In real married life, some women give up their jobs in order to maintain the stability of the family, and gradually lose touch with society, so they also lose their own opinions and only know how to obey their husbands' arrangements.
Therefore, women must have a calm mind, no matter good times or bad, they can look at it with a normal heart.
Yang Lan said: "Women must be financially independent in order to have personality independence. It is too early for a woman who is not financially independent to talk about personality independence and equality. ”
If a woman has the ability to make money and can achieve financial independence on her own, she will have the confidence to cope with life.
A woman's confidence lies in the economy and in many aspects of her own value.
Such a woman can also maintain her dignity in marriage, and will not blindly seek compromise for money, but will use money to manage her life more happily.
Marriage is fragile, men are fickle, your husband may not be yours, your family may fall apart, but your own money must be yours.
In life, your most reliable comrade-in-arms is yourself, and you are the only one who will never betray you. So making yourself more capable is your biggest hole card and sense of security**.
If a woman is unable to be independent and self-reliant in marriage, it is equivalent to losing the ability to protect herself.
If there is money, love and ability, a woman will have confidence and will not be poor. And valuable and capable women have never been easily bullied by others. A woman's confidence lies in the economy and in many aspects of her own value.
It is very important for a woman to have the ability to live a good life on her own, and to have something that no one else can take away. "There are often ups and downs in life, and sharpness is unexpected, but as long as you are independent in your heart, you will be confident and calm.