Suing for divorce, what can be said?Don't say anything?
If you want to divorce, these 5 sentences must not be said:
1, we originally had a good relationship, and we were all him
I don't understand why you can't say it, substitute these words into the usual sales pitch to you, no matter how much you say, the only thing that can remain in your mind is what I sell.
The same is true for judges, who have to hear hundreds of divorce cases every year, and your so-called vomiting of marriage bitterness filters into the judge's ears and leaves a sentence: "We were in a good relationship".
2. We often quarrel when our personalities are incompatible
For the judge, there is no evidence of the breakdown of the substantive ** relationship, and how can there be no quarrel when people get along!This can be the trigger for your divorce, but not the main cause.
3. There is nothing wrong with the two of us, and we all blame his various relatives (especially his mother-in-law).
Although many mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law can't get along, there are also a considerable number of couples who divorce because of the seven aunts and eight aunts. However, it is still the same sentence: this is all external causes, and there is no problem between the two of you, right?
4, he cheated, I have no evidence!
I took on a case before, the man admitted to cheating, but resolutely refused to admit the breakdown of the relationship, admitted that he was not a human being and did not admit that he did not love his wife and children, in this case it is difficult to divorce, not to mention that you have no evidence. Of course, it will not affect your right to litigate, but it will definitely affect the outcome of your trial.
5. If he can change, I won't want a divorce!
Let's catch the keyword: can change!As soon as this sentence came out, it was just like the sad fantasy that we advised domestic violence not to live if it could be changed. It's good, I can't leave after admitting a wrong marriage.
These 5 sentences are basically the ones I hear the client say the most, and there are others such as verbal attacks, insults to the judge and the opposing lawyer, and so on. I can understand the urgency of separating from each other when we encounter marital misfortune, but when we find a lawyer, we should listen to the lawyer's experience and history of blood and tears.
Remember:The most direct way to achieve one's own goals is the most important thing. The unhappiness of the marriage and the accusation against the scumbag Let's talk about it in private.
Having said so much, we can't say it, so let's talk about what we should say in court
Before we look at what to say, let's put ourselves in the shoes of the judges and think about what issues are most of the judge's concern
How is the relationship between husband and wife?
What are the reasons for divorce?(Whether the relationship is broken or not).
Are there any children?Who will raise the child?
Joint property of both parties (income, debts, etc.).
Be sure to remember that weThe purpose of suing for divorce is to get a divorce, rather than letting the judge decide right or wrong.
So in court, we should follow 3 principles:
1. Be reasonable.
The most important evidence to support the breakdown of the relationship and the evidence to claim compensation: what kind of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts, personality incompatibility are just triggers, not enough to prove the breakdown of the relationship.
2. Keep the purpose in mind.
It can be elaborated, but it must be posted with a question from a legal official, saying that there are many mistakes and too many mistakes. It's okay to only say things that are conducive to your own goals.
3. Emotional stability.
In court, no matter how outrageous the other party says, bear with it, the courtroom is not a place for quarrels, let alone personal attacks on the judge and the opposing lawyer.
Remember a principle in court, whether it is to cross-examine the other party or answer questions, do not be vague, to:Speak to the results you want
If there is a dispute involving child custody and property division, it is recommended to find a professional lawyer to assist in handling it, so as to avoid unnecessary legal problems and strive for the greatest rights and interests.
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