I get up early every day and do housework greedily, take care of the two little ones, and love them as if they were my own daughters. Finally brought the twins to 7 years old, they can finally wash and dress and eat by themselves, and they are no longer so clingy and crying. I watched my granddaughters grow up, and I felt that it was time for me to go back to my hometown. Yesterday, I told my daughter that I wanted to go back.
Mom, you've worked hard all these years, I really don't know how we can bring up two children without you. The daughter said gratefully, "Why don't you stay for another year, my sister and sister are still young, and you still need to take care of them." ”
No, you see that they are already 7 years old, and they will take care of themselves. I smiled and said, "I also want to go back to my hometown and live my own life, and stay with my wife every day." You didn't need me to be with you every day when you were young. ”
That's okay, Mom, you can arrange to go. The daughter agreed.
I happily went to pack my bags and stuffed all the things I had accumulated over the years into two large suitcases. Just as I was about to leave early tomorrow morning, my son-in-law came home and said to me, "Mom, we have discussed it as a family, and we would like to ask you to stay for another year and help us take care of our sisters." You know, they're still young, and they always have to be accompanied by adults. Besides, it's freezing outside now, and it's not convenient for you to drag your luggage alone, so it's better to wait for the next spring when the flowers bloom. ”
I was a little embarrassed, but I still said firmly: "No, I have already decided, I will leave early tomorrow morning." When the children grow up, they don't need me to accompany them every day, and I want to go back to my hometown to live. That's it!”
The son-in-law couldn't be persuaded to do anything, so he could only say, "That's okay, Mom, you can make your own decision." ”
In the evening, my mother-in-law also came to persuade me, she was a woman who married into our family, and she had a strong personality, and she had never dealt with me very well. "Shufen, don't go, anyway, you are alone in your hometown, it is better to spend a few more years with your granddaughter. They will definitely be sad if you leave, the children are still young, and they still need grandma. ”
I had a gentle temper and didn't want to worry about my mother-in-law, so I said, "The children are already older, and they will slowly get used to Xi without me." I also want to go back to reunite with my wife, so don't stand in my way. ”
You're gone, who's going to help Ali with housework, laundry, cooking?She just gave birth to twins, how big a wound. "My mother-in-law doesn't give up.
Ali's body has recovered, and Hao is here, so it doesn't matter if I'm not there. I patiently explained.
Seeing my resolute attitude, my mother-in-law finally showed a displeased look: "I advise you for your own good." If you want to go, you can go, don't regret leaving!”
My mother-in-law stood at the door, blocking my way, and raised her voice a little and said, "I will persuade you again one last time, stay and help Ali take care of the children!."If you're gone, they're going to cry and cry. The granddaughter is still young, and she still needs her grandmother by her side. ”
I said calmly, "Mother-in-law, I don't want to argue with you. The kids have grown up and don't need me to be here every day. Get out of the way, I'm going home. ”
Don't want to see your precious granddaughter again when you're gone!The mother-in-law said viciously.
I didn't expect her to threaten me like this, my heart was very hurt, and my tone became serious: "Mother-in-law, I have worked hard to bring up the twins for so many years, and I have never let you worry about it. Now I want to go home, not only do you not understand me, but you also stop me from seeing my granddaughter, what is the reason?”
Who made you get along with me again and again!I said stay, you left it for me!"My mother-in-law was hot-tempered and scolded me loudly without saying anything.
I couldn't bear it anymore, put down the suitcase in my hand, and said, "Mother-in-law, I usually respect you very much and never bother with you." But you scolded me like this today, it's too much!I just want to go home and live the life I want to live, why don't you let me go and deprive me of the right to see my granddaughter?”
Just as we were arguing, my daughter and son-in-law also rushed over.
Mom, don't make any noise, the child is still asleep. "My daughter persuaded me.
The son-in-law also came over to persuade his mother-in-law: "Mom, you and Aunt Shufen should be good, don't quarrel over such a trivial matter." Aunt Shufen has loved her granddaughters for so many years, and she should want to go back to her hometown, and we shouldn't force her to stay. ”
The mother-in-law was a little arrogant, but she still said in a weird manner: "I think she just dislikes the poor conditions of our family, and she doesn't want to help take her granddaughter, so she goes back to her hometown to live a comfortable life." ”
My son-in-law hurriedly called an ambulance, and I was quickly taken to the hospital. After the examination, the doctor told my daughter's family that I was already in the advanced stage of stomach cancer and was extremely weak.
Mom, I'm sorry, it's our bad. "My daughter wept bitterly and told me about her sins.
My mother-in-law also held my hand with a guilty face and said, "Shufen, it's me who is wrong, I shouldn't stop you from letting you go." Forgive me, old woman!”
After the careful care of my daughter's family, my physical condition has improved slightly, and I can finally return to my hometown.
My son-in-law drove me back to my hometown, carefully along the way, for fear that I would be wronged. When I got home, he helped me to my wife and repeatedly told my brother and sister-in-law to take good care of me.
Mom, you must take care of yourself, we will come back to see you often. My daughter told me with tears in her eyes.
Good boy, Mom knows. Take care of yourselves, too, and don't worry too much about me. "I looked at my daughter lovingly.
Shufen, I'm so sorry for you. You must be ** as soon as possible, our family will miss you all the time. "My mother-in-law also said goodbye to me in tears.
I nodded, didn't answer, just smiled and watched them leave.
Returning to my familiar hometown, I felt more grounded and calm than ever. There are my husbands who have been waiting for many years, and there are brothers and sisters who get along day and night, which is where my steadfastness lies.
Every morning, my wife would wake me up, ask me if I was feeling better, and then feed me with porridge, and then help me cover the quilt, and serve me warmly. My brother and sister-in-law also take care of my daily life and food. My children visited me from time to time, and my neighbors also came to see me, and I felt a lot of love.
My illness seems to be less painful because of this. I began to reflect on my relationship with my mother-in-law over the years, and felt that in life, after all, we must learn to be tolerant and understanding. I wrote to my daughter and asked her to tell her mother that I had forgotten all the unhappiness in the past, and I understood that she also had good intentions, and hoped that she would let go of the guilt in her heart and live her life well.
I also often tell my children that birth, old age, sickness and death are all natural laws, and they don't have to worry too much about me, and they should be grateful that our family can be reunited. I would like to ask them to take care of each other and get through every important moment in their lives.