Yesterday, in a case of children's psychological development assessment, the theme was children's attention, and the mother said eagerly: "This child has not had good attention since he was a child, and the teacher always came to me and asked me to find a way to improve his attention." How do you think he learns Xi like this?I fought and trained and trained, but it didn't work, is he born with a bad concentration?”
Parents and friends are very concerned about their children's attention problems, and they are so anxious that they beat and reprimand their children. However, this approach does not have an effect on improving attention, so it is doubtful that the child's attention level is "innate".
Often interferes with your baby's concentration
Many parents like to interrupt the baby when the baby is playing, especially when the baby is playing with a toy, many parents want to interact with the child, they will pick up another toy to interrupt the child, which often affects the baby's concentration, and some parents think that the child's concentration needs to be exercised in a noisy environment, so they often take the child to various noisy places.
This will affect the child's attention, and sometimes the child will encounter a little sound will appear panic, which is often related to the child's environment when he was a child, parents in daily life, find that the baby is focused on one thing, do not interrupt at will, affect the baby's thoughts, so that the baby can get better and better.
Often force the child to do things
Parents themselves want to force their children to do something, in fact, because the child is not focused enough, so they want to give the child some pressure and some motivation, but because the method of forcing itself is somewhat oppressive, then the child will think that doing this is a task, rather than spontaneously taking the initiative to do it;
In addition, when parents force their children to do this, they have some reprimands or nagging emotions, so that the children will be bored and resistant to this matter, so that they will not be able to concentrate.
Create an environment for learning and Xi
Parents should tidy up their children's writing desks, so that children can quickly find the things they want to use when they are learning to Xi, and do not put them in a mess. Parents should put away the toys in the child's room before the child does his homework to prevent the child from concentrating on playing with something else while Xi.
Develop a Xi plan
Parents need to make a Xi plan for their children, when to read, when to do homework, and when to rest. Parents can supervise when necessary when children do homework, and praise children when they do it right, so that children have confidence and a sense of accomplishment in their learning Xi.
Try not to let your child play with electronics
Although children often play with mobile phones and watch TV, although it is said that children will not lose concentration, children are used to playing these things Xi, and they can't calm down after a long time, and often think about playing.
Get to know the child
Parents should learn to observe their children, know what their children's interests are, what their children's personalities are, and find out a suitable way for their children to learn Xi. Parents should not rush their children, but slowly make up for their children in small quantities and promote their children's growth step by step.
Arrange your diet wisely
Don't eat fried foods, which can affect your child's brain and affect their flexibilityChildren have desserts, drinks, etc., especially coffee, and drinking a large amount of it will make children restless.
Improving concentration is a relatively common but very effective method. If a person can sit intently and read a book for 2 hours without distraction, then the effect will be higher than studying Xi in the morning. This is because the focus gives the child a better memory environment.
Don't interrupt your child when writing homework, try to solve it at one time when you endorse it, don't procrastinate, similar practices are very common in life, but they are easy to be ignored by us.
Nowadays, many parents are paying attention to cultivating their children's concentration, memory, etc., because memory, concentration and observation are important abilities for children to learn Xi and improve their intelligence in the future. It is very helpful for the child's future.
The ages of 2-8 years are a critical period for a child's brain development. At this time, improving your child's memory, concentration or logical thinking skills can do more with less.
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