"Ordinary World" revolves around the life experiences of two brothers, Shao'an and Shaoping. Set against the backdrop of rural life in China in the 70s and 80s, it depicts the lives of ordinary people from all walks of life at that time, with twists and turns in the plot, and the characters are divided and combined, showing the contradictions and entanglements between struggle and ideals, friendship and love, self-esteem and life, etc.
Many years have passed in the blink of an eye, and the tribulations experienced by the protagonists in the book, the helplessness of not being able to love and the courage to be unwilling to be ordinary can still resonate with readers.
Xi is used to being shocked by the king and hiding tears for heroes, but forgetting that each of us returns to the ordinary, to the ordinary world.
How many good things have disappeared or destroyed, and the world is still like nothing happened.
Yes, life goes on. However, everyone in life is constantly losing what is most precious to them. Life is always good; Human suffering is happening all the time. Just like Sun Shaoan lost Runye, Runye lost love.
But the ruthless years have not stopped passing forward minute by minute, and the past has finally turned into a tiny speck of dust in the world. In real life, why not? No matter how sad and tragic things happen, it is only a moment in reality, and as time goes by, things will slowly fade, and the pain is phased.
When people are at a low point, it is easy to have a "sense of hopelessness", as if the pain is endless. In fact, as time goes by, the pain will become lighter and lighter until it becomes a thing of the past. For example, my friend Eiko fell in love with the team leader in the company who was eight years younger than her, and although she knew it was impossible, she still fell in love incorrigibly. The more restrained you are, the more you think; The more you think about it, the more it hurts; The more painful it is, the more it penetrates deep into the bone marrow.
In her heart, the team leader is almost a perfect man, smart, excellent, mature, tall, handsome, and responsible. The most fatal thing is that he understands her, and he is very at the same frequency with her, and he has a very tacit understanding. This made her feel unworthy, and she once fell in love with the dust. Later, the team leader left the company due to work, which made her completely unacceptable, and she always thought that the team leader also had a good impression of him. Because they had a good relationship, although no one said anything, but the favor is absolute. It's just that no one has pierced this layer of window paper.
But that feeling made her extremely happy, the first time she blushed, the first time she felt her heart beat. So when the team leader left silently like this, her world collapsed. In the past, she looked at a vibrant company, but today it seems to her that it has lost its color, and her work is absent-minded. She felt that if there was no more team leader in her world, she would not find the meaning of life. So she always cried, kept crying, and sometimes she couldn't stand it anymore, so she ran to the toilet and cried, not to mention how desperate that cry was. Sometimes, when she is sensible, she thinks: Forget it, perhaps, this is the best arrangement.
Because a girl is eight years older than a boy, it's not realistic, so let's think it's a dream! No matter how passionate the feelings are, the pain is only two years. Two years, it's gone by quickly, isn't it? No matter how painful it is, no matter how sad it is, time is still moving. Lo and behold, more than 5 years have passed in a blink of an eye. Although it still hurts, or I am Xi to this pain. But at least now she can't see that she has had such a relationship. On the contrary, he lives more transparently and more chicly.
She said that as long as you know that there is him in this world, as long as you know that he is doing well. That's all right.
In this world, not everything that is reasonable and good can exist or be fulfilled according to one's wishes. ”
Life can not be according to the plan to develop step by step, our life planning for ourselves is based on the concept of perfection, everything goes well, there is no trouble and pain, but our life will not be smooth sailing, all the way bumpy walking, occasionally deviate from the track, towards the uncontrollable direction of development, we strive to live strong is not easy, we don't need how perfect life, just hope to have a clear conscience.
The so-called growing up is to finally realize that the world may not be as beautiful as we imagined when we were children, and the people we love and the things we care about may deceive us or leave us.
However, we will still accept all the unhappiness that we are unwilling to face and live bravely. No matter what, you still have to smile, you still have to be sincere, you still have to forgive, you still have to persevere, you still have to love! Life, one station has one station and one station scenery, one year old has a taste of one, your age should become a medal of your life, not a reason for sadness. Only learn to smile and be strong. Learn to understand and be kind. Learn to cherish and forget, go with the flow, and be at peace with what happens.
The book "Ordinary World" is not only an inspirational story about the struggle of rural youth, but also a comprehensive life apocalypse, after reading this book, you will find that about love, marriage, career, emotional intelligence, interpersonal relationships, etc., can get different thinking and improvement.
The words in the book do not need flowery rhetoric, nor do they need thrilling plots, but the plain but simple and sincere words compose the author's deep love for the yellow earth and his deep understanding of the ordinary world. There is no doubt that the works that the author has precipitated and created with his life are enough to make every reader feel the irresistible spiritual baptism and the shock that cannot be calmed for a long time after reading.
Behind the ordinary is the passion and yearning for life, and behind the ordinary is full of longing for hope. The ordinary world can withstand a lifetime of experience, and only after washing away the lead can the dust settle. The ordinary world is extraordinary because of you.
Some people say that the ordinary world is too fake, and the protagonists have accepted the kindness of the right. In our country, countless people apply for civil service institutions, is it really for the people? In the application for the examination, the scores of the window units and grass-roots units are low, the financial, national and local taxation and other real power units are more favored, and the high-speed channels for promotion such as the two offices and one committee are even more popular. The love between Xiaoxia and Shaoping makes me feel pure and yearning, leaving behind all identities. She is not the daughter of a high-ranking secretary, he is not the son of a peasant, just Tian Xiaoxia and Sun Shaoping.
This book made me think a lot and touched a lot. Maybe I'm an emotional person, and I've seen the superficiality of language. But if you haven't read this book, I highly recommend it. A book that inspires, resonates and shocks.