My name is Li Xiaofang, 28 years old this year, my husband's name is Zhang Li, 30 years old this year, and my mother-in-law's name is Ma Fengying, who is in her 60s. Zhang Li is Ma Fengying's only son.
Zhang Li whispered: "Xiaofang, don't mind, my mother's temper is not very good, don't take it to heart." ”
I smiled reluctantly, "It's okay, I understand." ”
After a while, Granny Ma came out of the kitchen, didn't look at me, and said directly to Zhang Li: "Son, I cooked some soup for you, drink some later." ”
Zhang Lifu smiled and said, "Okay, Mom, we'll drink it later." This is Xiaofang, come and say hello to your mother. ”
I walked over a little nervously: "Hello mother-in-law, I'm Xiaofang." ”
Granny Ma glanced at me, didn't speak, poured the soup into the bowl, and turned back to the kitchen.
Zhang Li looked at me embarrassed again, and I held back my tears and beat my spirits: "It's okay, I'll go and help my mother-in-law serve food." ”
Okay, it's good to have your help. Zhang Li breathed a sigh of relief.
When I came to the kitchen, I saw Granny Ma chopping vegetables, so I said, "Mother-in-law, let me help you." ”
No, you don't!Granny Ma said angrily, "I can come by myself, go to the living room to accompany your husband." ”
I was a little lost, but I still persuaded softly: "I also want to help you share it, this is what I should do." ”
Granny Ma gave me a blank look and didn't speak.
After a while, she brought the dishes to the table, and Zhang Li and I both sat down to eat with great anticipation. Who knew that Granny Ma began to pick on me as soon as she was on the table.
What does Xiaofang do?What are the conditions at home?Granny Ma asked me straight to the point.
I quickly replied, "Mother-in-law, I work as an English teacher in a middle school, and my family conditions are average, and my parents are ordinary workers. ”
The mother-in-law snorted coldly: "What's so great about the English teacher, there are so many English teachers on the street now." I see that you look like that, not as beautiful as Zhang Li's former girlfriend. ”
I blushed and was a little embarrassed. Zhang Li hurriedly persuaded: "Mom, Xiaofang is very good, and our relationship is very stable. Don't talk about the past. ”
Granny Ma ignored her son and said to herself: "If you want me to say, you still don't believe in the so-called true love or not, it is only right to find a girl who is the right person." ”
Zhang Li looked at his mother and said earnestly: "Mom, you don't care about us, Xiaofang and I have a good relationship and have decided to get married." I'm sure we'll be happy. ”
After eating, Granny Ma was extremely cold to me, I took the initiative to clean up the dishes and chopsticks to help her share, and she rushed me to accompany Zhang Li.
That day, I was so embarrassed to stay at my mother-in-law's house until the night, and I was extremely depressed. Before leaving, Granny Ma didn't say a word of familiarity, but just coldly sent us to the door and closed the door.
Holding back tears, I silently rode home with Zhang Li. Zhang Li comforted me all the way, saying that after a long time, my mother-in-law would accept me. I smiled reluctantly, knowing that my relationship with my mother-in-law was destined to be difficult.
Sure enough, every time I went to my mother-in-law's house after marriage, she never stopped making things difficult for me. When eating, she always put on a stinky face and said that the food I cooked was very unpalatableShe always thinks I'm not clean about housework;When I talk, she thinks I'm noisy. My husband turned a blind eye to this and never spoke for me.
I swallowed my anger and wanted to use my sincerity to influence my mother-in-law, but she didn't appreciate it, as if I was doing something wrong. Once, she criticized me in front of a group of relatives, saying that I could only eat soft rice and couldn't do any housework, and that I was just a woman who ate inside and out.
I finally couldn't take it anymore and retorted in front of everyone: "Mother-in-law, you say that I am too much!".I've always had a deep affection for you, but you've always found fault with me. What the hell am I doing wrong, you have to give me an explanation!”
Granny Ma was furious and stood up and was about to beat me. My husband hurriedly stopped her, and there was chaos in the living room. From that day on, my relationship with my mother-in-law broke completely. I no longer want to call her "Mom", I don't listen to her anymore, and I am in a stalemate with her.
In this way, my mother-in-law and I were in a state of cold war, and my life was miserable. My husband was also getting colder and colder to me, thinking that I shouldn't have to deal with my mother. I felt so sad and hopeless.
After the doctor's examination, he said that Granny Ma was in critical condition, but there was still a glimmer of life. They will do their best to rescue and prepare us mentally.
At this time, Zhang Li also hurried to the scene, saw his mother's appearance, and cried bitterly. I comforted him and kept him hopeful. We waited outside together, waiting for news from the doctor.
After a day and a night of observation, a miracle happened, and Granny Ma's condition began to improve, and she was finally out of danger. When she opened her eyes, Zhang Li and I were both excited and burst into tears.
After I was transferred to the general ward, I began to patiently take care of my mother-in-law's daily life. At first, she was a little defensive, but gradually, she accepted my kindness.
One day, my mother-in-law suddenly said to me, "Xiaofang, I'm sorry, I've been too fierce to you all these years." You're a good girl, and I'll never embarrass you again. ”
I was so excited that I shook her hand and said, "Mom, I forgive you." I'm also at fault, and I shouldn't have turned my face with you. From now on, I will be filial to you. ”
Good boy, Mom knows it's wrong. The mother-in-law burst into tears.
From that day on, my mother-in-law was impressed with me and never made me feel sorry for me again. I also learned to tolerate her temper, and we finally reconciled.
Life is so wonderful, my mother-in-law's difficulties made me experience a low point in my life, but now looking back, it has also made me the positive and optimistic character I am today.
I began to cherish my current life and take care of my mother-in-law as much as I could, instead of demanding that she be obedient to me. Zhang Li was also very happy to see that we had a good relationship.
There is still a long way to go in life, and I believe that as long as we have a peaceful mind and touch each other with love, we will become happier and happier. I will continue to strive to be a competent wife, a filial daughter-in-law, and live my own life.