When it comes to:LoveWhen we tend to associate all sorts of thingsEmotionStories and legends. In ".Dream of Red MansionsIn this classic, we have witnessed the complexity of many charactersEmotionentanglement, as wellLoveRightHumanityimpact. However, sometimes, not loving someone is more important than loving someone. In this article, we're going to ** how stupid the so-called "mad literature" is when it's better not to love someone than to love someone to do.
In ".Dream of Red Mansions", Daiyu to BaoyuEmotionis well known. However, Baochai advises Daiyu not to indulge in those concernsLoveamong the books. Daiyu was touched by Baochai's concern, and she was grateful that someone cared for her so intimately, so she was willing to accept Baochai's suggestion. In addition, in that confinementIn loveAt the time, Daiyu didn't want others to see her for BaoyuEmotion。This will bring her a bad reputation in society. Therefore, she chooses to act according to the rules of society and agrees with Baochai, after all, she is a smart girl and does not want to be the heroine of a scandal in society.
When a girl falls in love with someone, she often hopes to change certain traits in that person. Just as Baochai hopes to make Baoyu love to learn through exhortation, Daiyu also hints at Baoyu that he needs to work harder to maintain his wealth for a long time. This is because of the timeMarriageWith many restrictions, she hopes that Baoyu can achieve better results and achieve a better status in society.
In ".Dream of Red MansionsThere is a saying called "the unity of hairpins and dais". Daiyu represents girlhood, while Baochai represents maturity and suitabilityMarriageof women. In ".MarriageIn the fireworks, Daiyu gradually disappeared and became Baochai. This is related to:Jin YongworksHuang RongThe experience is similar. Huang RongIt was quirky and elfy in girlhood, and it wasMarriageIt is the one who takes into account the overall situation and sacrifices his own image. The words wife and mother are destined to wear out the aura of the girl.
No matter how reserved a person is, there will always be self-pity in his heartEmotion。In ".Dream of Red MansionsIn ", Bao Chunqiu's self-pity became the pain in her heart. She realizes that her feelings for Baoyu cannot be reciprocated, because Baoyu already has her ownLoveObject. She felt her ownLoveIt's bland and tasteless, and it can't be compared to Baoyu. She felt deep self-pity, and this inner pain was indescribable.
In ".Dream of Red Mansions", Daiyu'sEmotionentanglement and her against BaoyuLoveThe tangle becomes the storyCritical。However, compared to Baochai's friendship and Daiyu's obedience to the rules of society, Daiyu's decision not to love Baoyu may be wiser. Such a choice, while it brought pain and self-pity, ultimately gave her the opportunity to grow and mature herself. In a period there is no futureEmotionIt's really wise to struggle with someone who doesn't love you, and to build a deep friendship with someone who can give you happiness and security.