In this small city where I live, I, Wang Li, am just one of many housewives. My daily routine is filled with the needs of my children, housework, and husband, like a never-ending assembly line. My husband, Li Bin, works steadily in a state-owned enterprise, and although our life is not rich, it is still stable and peaceful.
However, life will always make waves when you least expect it. One day, I stumbled upon a secret of Li Bin: he would give half of his salary to his sister Li Fang every month. This discovery was like a bolt from the blue and shook my understanding of this marriage. My heart was full of questions and dissatisfaction.
I decided to communicate with Li Bin and try to solve this mystery. But I was disappointed by his answer, and he said firmly: "Wang Li, I know it may make you uncomfortable, but I can't give up on my sister." It's a promise I made to her and my parents. ”
Li Bin's words made me feel powerless and hopeless. I began to question our marriage and even consider whether the relationship should be ended. My mind began to hover over one question: Do all men do this, sacrificing marriage for the sake of family affection?
Our arguments escalated, and eventually I chose to divorce. With deep pain, I left the home that had once been full of happiness.
In the days since I left Li Bin, I have faced a lot of loneliness and reflection alone. I thought that without him, I could find the so-called freedom and liberation, but the reality was confusion and emptiness. In this deserted cabin, I began to think about our marriage, about the rift between me and Li Bin.
One day, by chance, I met an old colleague of Li Bin on the street. During our chat, I unexpectedly learned about Li Bin's recent situation. Li Bin was not as easy as I imagined, and his life was even more difficult than mine.
Do you know, Wang Li, Li Bin, he ......The old colleague said with some hesitation, "He has actually been saving for your family, but his sister Li Fang, she doesn't appreciate it at all." She often squandered the money given by Li Bin, and even owed a large amount of gambling debts. ”
As I listened, it felt like I had been hit with a hammer. It turned out that Li Bin had been silently carrying such a heavy burden, and I didn't know anything. I began to realize that my understanding of Li Bin was too superficial, and I ignored his hardships and selflessness.
In order to pay off Li Fang's debts, he even sold the house left by their parents. The old colleague sighed, and I felt a pang of heartache.
This news was like a thunderclap, completely breaking my misunderstanding of Li Bin. I began to reflect deeply on my own judgments and actions. I realized that the reason why our marriage broke down was not all because of Li Bin, but more because of our incomprehension and distrust of each other.
I decided to reconnect with Li Bin, even though I don't know if he would still be willing to accept me. I called him **, and my voice trembled: "Li Bin, I ......."I think we need to have a good talk. ”
* On the other end, Li Bin was silent for a while, and then said softly, "Okay, Wang Li." ”
We agreed to meet at an old café, which was our former dating mecca. I sat there with a lot of nervousness and anticipation. I know that this is not only about the rebuilding of our love and family, but also about a deep reflection on understanding, trust, and affection.
When Li Bin appeared at the door of the café, I saw his haggard face and tired eyes. My heart tightened, and I felt deeply guilty. I realized that to repair the relationship, we need time, mutual understanding and effort. But at least, we've taken the first step.
Li Bin also began to reflect on his own behavior, and he began to balance his care for his sister with his responsibility to the family. Our relationship is gradually repairing, and while there are still rifts, we have taken an important first step.
This story teaches us that the balance between affection, love, possessions, and money is crucial. We need to understand and respect each other and work together to resolve family disputes and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in order to build a harmonious family.