There was a saying, "The husband is the last person to know about his own ugly things." ”
To some extent, if women are involved in extramarital affairs, they are good at covering them up, and it is extremely difficult for others to discover their secrets.
Especially for husbands, if you don't look closely, you can't detect whether a woman has betrayed or not.
However, there is no impermeable wall in the world, and once a woman cheats, no matter how smart she is, she will inevitably leave clues.
Once the husband is aware of a woman's abnormality, he may expose their extramarital relationship, which can eventually lead to the breakdown of the marriage.
Women break through the bottom line of loyalty and become entangled with men outside of marriage, which is not only a desecration of marriage, but also a disrespect to their husbands, and an irresponsibility to the family, and its ending is bound to be tragic.
So, what kind of behavior will women show once they are found to be "cheating"?The answer is practical and clear.
1. Automatically admit mistakes and beg her husband to forgive women who are caught cheating, the most common reaction is to take the initiative to admit their mistakes, ask for their husband's forgiveness, and hope to be able to return to the family.
It is not difficult to understand this, women are usually soft-hearted, and once they make a mistake, their hearts will be full of fear, fearing the loss of their family and children, so they only go home with their scalps.
At this time, they show great respect for their husbands, and are basically able to tolerate verbal or physical aggression, and only want them to be accepted again.
To prove their determination, they accept all kinds of punishments, and they are willing to bear everything as long as their husbands forgive.
At home, they will be more considerate of their husbands, take on all the household chores, and become more docile and virtuous.
Generally speaking, unless a woman's infidelity is unforgivable, most men will choose to forgive.
Men's thinking is relatively simple, as long as women let go of the past, take life seriously, take responsibility for the family, and take care of their children, they usually don't worry too much about the past.
Of course, a woman's betrayal can cause great pain to men, and it will take them a while to let go.
During this time, they assess women's attitudes and make decisions based on the situation.
As long as the woman truly repents and does not betray in the future, trust will gradually be restored.
In addition, after a woman is found to be cheating, in order to keep her happiness, she will silently bear all the blame and be willing to make sacrifices for her family.
Based on this attitude and behavior of women, men can also be relieved, and once they forgive a woman, she will definitely be unswervingly invested in her feelings and will never betray easily.
2. Women who are obsessed and break up with their husbands for their lovers and are found to be cheating, there is a cruel situation that they are obsessed with and still choose to maintain an extramarital relationship with their lovers.
At this time, they will break up with their husbands for the sake of their lovers and are unwilling to continue the marriage, which may lead to even greater conflicts.
When confronted with their husbands' confrontings, they may prevaricate, justify their betrayal, and blame them in turn.
Men will naturally be more angry when they see such an attitude towards women, and there may be a violent conflict between the two parties, resulting in injuries on both sides.
Such a woman may have long since lost herself in an extramarital affair and could not see the reality clearly.
They always feel that their lover is better and can bring them a happier life, so they insist on breaking up with their husbands and seeking a union with their lover.
However, this kind of woman basically will not have a good outcome, and when the lover fails them one day, they will regret it.
At that time, they will not only lose their lovers, but also their marriages, families, children, and all their happiness, and the end will be very tragic.
3. Don't dare to face the reality and hide alone to heal After a woman's cheating is discovered, she may show a behavior that she does not dare to face reality, choose to hide elsewhere, and then heal alone.
Such women may be seduced by undesirable men and lose control of their emotions, leading to unexpected intimate relationships.
Therefore, they feel great shame, and once they have an extramarital relationship**, they will feel that they cannot look up and see people, so they have to hide.
In addition, their inner pain will be unspeakable, and they will be tormented in life, afraid of meeting acquaintances.
Such women have strong self-esteem and cannot withstand the accusations of others, let alone face the criticism and doubts of their families.
Especially in front of their husbands, they have completely lost their confidence, feel ashamed, and may shed tears of pain in their faces.
If they do not receive forgiveness from their husbands, they will suffer great psychological trauma and lose the courage to live in a familiar environment.
Eventually, they will choose to stay away from familiar places and spend the rest of their lives alone in unknown corners.
To sum up, after a woman "cheats", once discovered, she may exhibit the following three behaviors:
Take the initiative to admit your mistake and ask her husband for forgiveness;Obsessed, breaking with her husband for the sake of her lover;Afraid to face the reality, he chose to hide and heal alone. It can be seen that once a woman falls into an extramarital affair, the outcome will be very painful and difficult to achieve happiness.
After the incident, it is difficult for them to face themselves and others, and they will also feel a certain amount of guilt for their husbands.
With the exception of a very small number of women who are obsessed, most women feel ashamed and actively ask for their husband's forgiveness, unwilling to lose their happy life.
Therefore, extramarital affairs are not only harmful to others and to themselves, but also to bring too much pain and cost.
I hope that women in reality can take this as a warning, always abide by the bottom line of marriage, and protect their families, so that they can truly usher in happiness.