Relief is a kind of realm, a calm and calm attitude towards life. Feng Zikai once said: "Don't mess up your heart, don't be trapped in love." Don't be afraid of the future, don't think of the past. That's the true meaning of relief. In the journey of life, learning to let go of one's mind is the best practice, so that the heart is like water, and gradually comprehend the vastness of heaven and earth.
01 Liberation is the wisdom of seeing through everything.
Life is full of uncertainties, and many things are unpredictable. Learning to let go is a deep understanding of life. When you meet someone who is destined, cherish each other, and for those who are inadvertently missed, try to let go, life is a journey, someone comes and leaves, disappears in the vast sea of people. Every time I miss it, it's to welcome a new journey in life. Therefore, there is no need to be too pessimistic about the changes in life, everything goes naturally, and I believe that God has its own arrangements.
02 Letting go is not comparing yourself with others and living your own life.
Life is your own, and if you always compare yourself to others, you will become tired and even lose your true meaning. Only by letting go of the mentality of comparison and living your own life can you truly feel the beauty of life. People have strengths and weaknesses, and everyone's world is unique and not worth comparing with others. Letting go of comparison is the key to living an easy life and making yourself more comfortable.
03 Letting go of complaining is to let go of complaints and understand the imperfections of life.
Giving up complaining is part of learning to let go. Some people complain and be cynical because their lives are not going well, and they shift the blame to others. However, unsatisfactory things in life are often a part of imperfection. Learning to accept and understand the imperfections of life is an important step in letting go. A person who is unable to reflect on himself and can only blame others is doomed to be incompetent. Only by letting go, accepting everything, and facing it calmly, can we move towards happiness.
04 Letting go is learning to bear and accept the injustices of life.
Life is not absolutely fair, and everyone has a different starting point. Let go of complaining about the unfairness of life and work hard to fight for what you want. The things that I can't let go of may be because I haven't put in enough effort, or I just don't have a relationship with them. Learning to let go is to learn to face the ups and downs of life calmly and feel it with a normal heart.
05 Relief is to face life changes calmly.
Life is full of joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and in the face of all kinds of changes, learning to let go is a manifestation of becoming calm. As Su Shi said: "The moon is cloudy and sunny, and people have joys and sorrows." "When things go bad, letting go of your inner shortcomings, learning to bear them, and facing them positively are the keys to getting through the difficulties. When parting, know how to let go, so that the mood is as bright as the moon.
Epilogue. Relief and make life easy. In a state of not being confused and not trapped in love, life becomes broader. Not to be happy with things, not to be sad with oneself, is the highest state of learning to let go. I hope that everyone can understand this realm, let go of every moment in life, and live the rest of their lives, not afraid of the future, and not thinking of the past.