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Wen Feiyu. 
In fact, it is not easy in this life, and the most difficult stage is actually concentrated in middle age, especially in the ten years between the ages of 45 and 55, when you find that life is really difficult.
Because at this stage, there are old and young, and the children have not grown up yet**, and even in high school and college, they need more money.
And if the family or the house and car are still needed, it will be even more tightened.
Every family has a difficult scripture, when people reach middle age, no matter how difficult life is, we have to get through it, and always believe that life is getting better and better, when we get through this stage, the child grows up, and begins to help the family, then your pressure is not so great.
Why is it said that the decade between the ages of 45 and 55 is the most bitter?Here's why.
1. The work is stressful, but I still can't make much money.
When people reach middle age, in fact, many people will face a midlife crisis.
The workload is getting bigger and bigger, and the pressure is also rising, so I am afraid that I will be replaced by young people, so I will be more cautious, work harder, and even if I am criticized, I will hold back, swallow my grievances, and bear it silently.
Thinking of her husband's situation, in fact, it is also very stressful.
His unit has been transferring people now, and the staff is getting fewer and fewer, the daily workload is increasing, and the average workload of everyone will also increase, and now he has been working overtime every day, and there is no such thing as getting off work on time, so it is really difficult for people to reach middle age, but they still have to grit their teeth and persevere, otherwise they will accidentally make a mistake, or be paid attention to, they will be transferred.
The situation of many people is the same, they are afraid that they will be unemployed by this time in middle age, and it will be difficult to find a job.
Even if there is no pay for overtime, I dare not complain, for fear that I will not be able to get out of the bottleneck I encounter.
From 45 to 55 years old, there is no way out, everything can only stabilize yourself and live strongly.
Second, the child's tuition fee is increased, and the money is not spent.
When you are forty or fifty years old, in fact, most of the children of families are just going to high school and college, and the tuition fees required at this stage are more.
Some people even rent a house in the school district in order for their children to go to a good high school, and study Xi with their children, hoping that their children can be admitted to a good university.
Therefore, it is also necessary to spend more money, rent, water and electricity, education expenses, food and clothing, and even Xi fees, if the income is unstable, it may not be able to support it.
Thinking of Dong Jie and Fang Yuan in "Little Huanxi", their son went to high school, so in order to take care of their son, they moved to the school district and had to pay rent every month.
Originally, the income of the two of them was still good, but they didn't expect Dong Jie's work to have changed, from a manager to an assistant, and her salary was reduced. But Fang Yuan was laid off and unemployed, and it was difficult for him to find a job.
Therefore, the economy of this family has been directly impacted, and the pressure is still on the adults.
After Fang Yuan lost his job, he didn't dare to tell his family, pretending to go to work, but in fact he was looking for a job, or looking for some temporary work.
Therefore, when people reach middle age, children's schooling, living expenses, and family expenses are all very stressful for an ordinary family, and only adults work hard to make money.
3. The elderly are unwell and need to be taken care of.
When people reach the age of forty or fifty, in fact, their parents are also old, and if their parents are unwell, they have to go to the hospital to see, if they encounter a serious illness, then they still spend money on their children, and they have to take care of the family, and they have to be busy running to the hospital to take care of their parents, and they have to be busy working to make money, which is the hardest.
In the ten years from the age of 45 to 55, if the parents are healthy and the children are gradually growing up and sensible, then they can only care about making money to support the family, and the family is also very happy.
If the child is disobedient and ignorant, the parents are not in good health, and their income is not very stable and the income is not high, then life is only a piece of chicken feathers, taking care of this, taking care of that, and maintaining themselves can't take care of themselves, and even some people can't even eat on time.
When people reach middle age, there are many people who need to be taken care of, but they have no one to rely on, and everything can only rely on themselves.
As Zhang Ailing said in "Half Life": A man after middle age often feels lonely, because as soon as he opens his eyes, he is surrounded by people who want to rely on him, but there is no one he can rely on.
When people reach middle age, they are as busy as a dhara, but they still have to hold on, adjust their mentality, and if they have a good mentality, their lives will become smoother and smoother.
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