Everyone's starting point in life is different, but the end is the same, maybe in their own home, maybe in the hospital bed, hurriedly draw the end of life.
After going through the ups and downs of life, everyone will grow old, and without exception, they will meet all kinds of people and experience all kinds of things in this life.
However, it is only at the most critical time that you know who is the closest person to you in this life, and the truth of life is really painful.
The people closest to you.
Willing to give you time.
Time is everyone's most precious asset, and when it is used, it will not be continuously generated or reversed.
If a person is willing to spend time with you, it is enough to show that in his heart, your status is important, otherwise there is no need to spend your time on people who do not matter.
When you are lying in a hospital bed, the person who often comes to see you and takes care of you is the most suitable person for you.
Just like in "The First Half of My Life", the old man was sick by his own child, and he could only lie alone in the ward, looking dead.
But his night lover Snow Pearl found him despite all obstacles, stayed by his side, took care of him, regardless of anyone's strange gaze, regardless of whether he was tired or not, such a friendship was really touching.
People who are willing to spend time with you are not necessarily 100% heart-to-heart, but they must put you in a very important position in their hearts, and they don't have to doubt her sincerity, and their actions can prove everything.
Someone who genuinely cares about you.
Will you care about the details.
I've seen such a sentence:
It is said that there is no emotion in front of the bed, and it is easiest to see the heart clearly.
But the person who really cares about you will not be affected by this human curse at all, he will tell you with his actions, because he thinks you are important and agrees with you, so he will always be with you and meet any of your needs.
It's like the story of Grandpa Beihai and Grandma Jingxian:
Grandma Jingxian was sick, but Grandpa Beihai never left, stayed by her side, and even continued to work, just to provide intimate care for his wife.
When the weather is cold, he will take the initiative to add clothes for his wife;When the weather is hot, remember to wipe your wife's body to avoid too much strong dirt and discomfort.
The person who is really good to you is never a verbal expression, but can go through the test of time under the ravages of the years, and melt all the sincerity for you in every move that is willing to pay for you.
Your pain, your tears, and even the need you hide in your heart that you won't speak, can be subtly perceived by those who love you.
Someone who genuinely cares about you.
I never gave up on you.
When are people most likely to be rejected by others?
The answer is that people who do not value feelings and have no conscience will see their family members in this state as a burden that destroys their lives, and they are likely to ignore them.
If a person really cares about you and wants to be good to you from the bottom of his heart, then he will not let you down when you are old and lying in a hospital bed.
He is willing to accept the status quo of life, because he knows that when people reach old age, they will lie in fragile beds in hospitals;
I will not dislike you for being old and powerless, but I am willing to spend time and energy with you, and truly practice the true meaning of being willing to be with you.
The people who love you, no matter what you become, will accept you, not reject you;
Even though you may be a burden in his life, he will be happy to be able to hold up a piece of the sky for you in your life, which is a precious and sweet experience in life.
In life, there are many people who come and go, maybe they give a sincere heart, or they just meet each other, and the relationships that really stand the test often show traces in the face of major events.