"My Life".
Ling Ling is the standard with the goal of marrying a rich person and living a prosperous life**. She relied on her appearance to lure Chen Junsheng to betray his wife and children and marry her daughter.
However, she did not stop there, but wanted to pull Chen Junsheng's parents into her team, although she showed respect, but deep down, she still had a small calculation. She did everything possible to sow discord between Chen Junsheng and Luo Zijun, took away Chen Junsheng's villa, and then expelled him from the house in order to create a new home for herself and Chen Junsheng. even gave them their own small house, and even took away their grandson, without giving them any face.
Chen Junsheng knew that Ling Ling had gone a little too far, but he couldn't argue, so he had to swallow it. There are two points in this, first, he has long been controlled by Ling Ling, Ling Ling has completely cut off his space for resistance on issues such as renting a house and moving, so that he has no way to stop it.
The second is that he has been in trouble in his marriage, and he has lost most of his property due to divorce, and if he divorces again, it will cause huge financial losses. He didn't dare to offend Ling Ling, and he was afraid of living up to his parents' expectations, so he had to endure it, anyway, something is better than nothing, the family is harmonious, if he has an awkward relationship with Ling Ling, then his life really can't continue.
Chen Junsheng's biggest problem is his avoidance mentality, he often avoids problems when encountered, is not good at communicating with people, and is not good at dealing with problems. After marriage, due to Zijun's dissatisfaction, he did not communicate effectively with her, but adopted an evasive attitude, which caused the contradictions between the husband and wife to become deeper and deeper. After marrying Ling Ling, he did not change anything, and he did not stop Ling Ling's conspiracy immediately, but held back, further intensifying the contradictions between the families. This article argues that Chen Junsheng did not recognize his own fault, did not care enough about his family life, and did not care enough about his family life.
Chen Junsheng divorced his ex-wife, and lost not only a luxury villa, but also a huge inheritance and a huge amount of alimony. This is also the reason why he will be rejected by Ling Ling. Chen Junsheng knew that if he divorced again, his property would be hurt even more, so he had to compromise and bear it silently.
In addition, Chen Junsheng's Xi of avoiding questions is also a breeding ground for him to remain silent. After divorcing his ex-wife, he did not deal with it head-on, but avoided the issue. This time, in the conflict between Ling Ling and his ex-wife, he once again fell into the trap of escaping. The reason why Chen Junsheng didn't speak was because he felt that he couldn't solve the problem, not because he was dissatisfied with Ling Ling.
However, Chen Junsheng made such a decision without effort. In the family, silence and avoidance can only exacerbate the conflict and eventually lead to the disintegration of a family. If he could have said what he meant at the right time, maybe it wouldn't have made things worse. However, due to his sense of powerlessness in married life and the underestimation of his own strength, he embarked on a road of no return on the road of life.
The First Half of My Life uses Chen Junsheng's silence as an example to reveal the importance of communication in a family. After getting married, the couple should work together to solve the problem instead of avoiding it. Otherwise, even if you have enough resources to maintain a happy marriage, it will not be possible. Through this scene, the audience can't help but reflect on their own views on their families, lament the importance of communication, and call on everyone to cherish each other's exchanges and work together to create a better home.
Third, marriage is not a joke, if you want to be happy, you must have sincerity and sacrifice. I hope that everyone can treat their marriage well, instead of falling deeper and deeper like Chen Junsheng and Ling Ling.