He Han once affectionately told Luo Zijun: In this life, no one can be your safe haven, only you can be your last safe haven, no matter how shabby or shabby, it is better than relying on others.
Luo Zijun was freed from the role of a housewife and rededicated himself to the tempering of society. She doesn't rely entirely on herself to level up and fight monsters like a true newbie would. On the contrary, there are always two great gods behind her, and these two great gods are Tang Jing and He Han.
Luo Zijun was like a marionette at first, but under the gradual guidance of Tang Jing and He Han, she began to experience the busyness of this world and the freshness of the grass and trees again. She also gradually understood that her life is actually a drama of continuous struggle, and only by constantly working hard can there be better results. After a series of ups and downs and challenges, Luo Zijun gradually regained her lost true self. She experienced a different kind of joy and satisfaction than she used to be as a housewife, which led her to develop a love for today's independent lifestyle.
He Han is undoubtedly the key person who made Luo Zijun completely change and refresh.
He Han and Luo Zijun fell in love deeply.
If it weren't for Tang Jing's existence, Luo Zijun and He Han would probably not have any interaction in this life!
After all, one is a full-time housewife and the other is a business leader, and they live in very different circumstances and see the world very differently, not to mention that they will be able to understand and love each other in the future.
When He Han first met Luo Zijun, she was just a bird living in a golden cage. She is most concerned about the size of the cage, whether her feathers are beautiful, whether she is not diligent, and whether she is not divided into grains, and she is proud of her living environment, and disdainful of those strong women who rely on themselves to improve their lives.
He Han is a business leader who has made a name for himself through his hard work and talent. The women he admires, like Tang Jing, are wise, independent and rational. Therefore, for people like Luo Zijun, who are like having obstacles in life without the help of others, he has a deep contempt and contempt for them.
For a long time that followed, Luo Zijun and He Han would clash every time they met, and the relationship between the two was tense, and they were unwilling to give in to each other, which put Tang Jing in a very awkward position.
Chen Junsheng betrayed Luo Zijun, causing her to spend sad days alone in her room. He Han seized this opportunity and admonished Luo Zijun as an elite in society, criticizing her for not having the ability to survive and for always currying favor with Chen Junsheng.
Unexpectedly, Luo Zijun retorted and said: You have never really loved others, you have a computer in your mind every day, you are thinking about how to balance income and expenses, your emotions do not seem to be stable, you really don't know what it is to give without asking for anything in return.
It was that sentence that deeply touched He Han's heart and shocked him deeply. When he returned to the car, Luo Zijun's words to him were still echoing in his thoughts, he never expected that the person who could really see through the fear and loss in his heart was the person he had always despised.
In retrospect, life was always full of dramatic elements. In this complex game, Luo Zijun, who is like a blank sheet of paper, can always effortlessly reveal the truth in He Han's heart and see his true face.
As a result of this incident, He Han began to have a strong interest in Luo Zijun, and he no longer had much disgust with Tang Jing's request to help Luo Zijun, and he decided to re-examine and evaluate Luo Zijun from a new perspective.
For He Han, Luo Zijun may not only be a blank sheet of paper that can be freely described, but also a novice who is learning to walk. In his opinion, if a consulting company can have a good boss, as he hopes, he can easily get out of the consulting industry and have a smooth journey along the way. Although He Han has handled many major and critical cases in the consulting field during his lifetime, he firmly believes that his victory is in his hands, and for Luo Zijun, he feels that it is a challenge.
He Han was very curious about how Luo Zijun would grow up under his guidance, and the various opportunities that might arise in her life. Therefore, He Han no longer felt disgusted, but chose to accompany Luo Zijun as a life coach and intimate friend. Perhaps, people are more eager to see her go further for those who were once despised.
With the assistance of He Han, Luo Zijun successfully obtained the custody of Ping'er. He Han not only helped Luo Zijun join the planning department, but also cleared her grievances and bought gifts for Luo Zijun's children. Whenever Luo Zijun needed it most, He Han would be by her side.
He Han thought that he had fulfilled his responsibility to be a friend, but he didn't expect that he had even fulfilled his duties as a boyfriend.
Even He Han himself may not have realized that Luo Zijun already had his own place in his heart. This woman, who has witnessed her gradual maturity under his guidance, has far surpassed Tang Jing's status in his heart.
After that, Luo Zijun went to work in a consulting company and went on a business trip to Suzhou alone. He Han reminded her that she needed to buy tickets in advance due to heavy rain, but Luo Zijun couldn't buy tickets after being busy, so she could only choose to take a black car. Unfortunately, the car broke down in heavy rain**, leaving her with nowhere to go.
When He Han learned that Luo Zijun was trapped on the road, he was so anxious that he hurriedly drove over. When he saw Luo Zijun shivering alone from the cold in the pouring rain, his heart ached uncontrollably. He made a few complaints, and Luo Zijun looked up at He Han with deep sympathy in his eyes. He Han's heart instantly softened, and she immediately used her body to protect Luo Zijun and ensure that she got into her car safely.
It was this downpour that caused the essence of all things to undergo a profound transformation.
If He Han's previous assistance to Luo Zijun can be seen as the help of a friend, then his behavior in the rain undoubtedly adds a touch of romance and charm to all this.
In the pouring rain, a woman who is both beautiful and has nowhere to go meets a man who is both handsome and like a "charcoal in the snow". They witnessed each other's sincere feelings together in a downpour. If fate is merciless to them, then in the rain, the feelings of the two will also be confirmed by each other. Eventually, they will ride together in a car and disappear into the dust, which is undoubtedly part of the warming of feelings in idol dramas.
Considering that Luo Zijun is prone to emotional dependence on men, over time, she will fall deeply in love with He Han, who often saves her in difficult situations. Many women find it difficult to avoid this emotion, let alone Luo Zijun, who is fragile at heart, even if that person was the boyfriend of her best friend Tang Jing.
On this rainy night, Luo Zijun's encounter with Tang Jing, although it may seem like a coincidence, reveals an unusual emotional bond between them. Luo Zijun brought a new start to her emotional life through a small mistake in life, she filled the gap in her feelings, broke the obstacles in Tang Jing's marriage, and made He Han's heart completely inclined to her.
As expected, He Han's liking for Luo Zijun reached an inextricable level, and at the same time, Luo Zijun's gentleness and delicacy towards He Han also made the two fall into a delicate and complicated relationship.
He Han decided to be honest with Tang Jing.
During that period, Tang Jing and He Han had already broken up. Although He Han felt some regret about this, she did not feel sad. He Han was not immersed in too many emotions, because the relationship between them was like a pool of stagnant water, without the ups and downs that love should have.
For Tang Jing, her over-reliance on He Han stems mainly from her sensitivity, psychological defects, and emotional cleanliness. Although she longed to enter the palace of marriage with He Han, she chose to retreat at the critical moment. It's like a person, when you have what you want, but you can't get the approval of others, it's because after your heart is strong to a certain extent, your heart will lose its strength and become weak. With the same self-esteem and self-confidence, we can't make the other person another person out of love, and we can't let one of them show weakness. Therefore, in a relationship, we always try to exercise restraint and patience, and maintain an attitude of imminence.
Love is merely an exchange tool for resources, and for the elite, their principle of love is: when we are together, it is not what I want to offer you, but what you can offer me, and if we are together, both parties will benefit; If separated, both parties will be separated.
After He Han fell in love with Luo Zijun deeply, he truly understood the true meaning of "love without asking for anything in return" that Luo Zijun once said.
Compared with Tang Jing, although Luo Zijun is slightly lacking in independence, rationality and wisdom, she often causes trouble, quarrels, and sometimes even mishandles it. She would ask He Han to handle the follow-up affairs for her, and sometimes even leave He Han speechless. However, the unique vitality and rejuvenated vitality exuded by her body made He Han truly feel the fireworks in the world.
I don't think there's anything more beautiful than regrowing a pot of withered and decadent flowers, bringing them back to life and color. For the sake of Luo Zijun, He Han even refused Tang Jing's only submission. The sensitive Tang Jing also noticed the special feature of He Han, who has always been calm and wise, to Luo Zijun. Gradually, a fact that she didn't want to believe but had to admit was ** in her heart.
He Han fell deeply in love with Luo Zijun!!
Tang Jing felt like her heart was dead, she couldn't understand why this person was Luo Zijun? Why do you love him like this? Why did she choose her closest friend, Luo Zijun?
With tears in her eyes, she asked He Han with tears: For so many years, you either don't want to enter the palace of marriage, or you don't want to enter the palace of marriage with me. She said you're not someone I like, you don't like me. The reason why you say you don't care about others is because I'm not the one you really want to care about. If the ring is good-looking, I can buy it myself, and I will take deep care of myself.
Tang Jing gently removed her ring, as if releasing the emotions she had been carefully protecting for many years. "Do you know why I like you? He Han calmly observed her behavior, turned around and left, without any regrets or nostalgia, only feeling a relaxed atmosphere of relief.
Tang Jing followed with tears in her eyes, her eyes flushed as she looked at He Han, and asked suspiciously: Why Luo Zijun? Why not him? There are so many women who love you, why did you choose Luo Zijun?
He Han elaborated that he had also asked the same question to himself, perhaps because Luo Zijun's presence made him feel a sincere and relaxed atmosphere.
Luo Zijun betrayed and hurt Tang Jing.
I don't know if you have noticed that Luo Zijun always seems to make her relationship with He Han blurred.
Although Luo Zijun gradually matured, she achieved success under the protection of He Han in many decisive moments. The same goes for her marriage. Whether he chose to be a housewife wholeheartedly before marriage and relied on Chen Jun to raise him, or he claimed to be an independent woman after the divorce, Luo Zijun has never been able to clarify the true boundaries of his emotions. She had always thought that she had completely changed and embarked on the path of becoming an independent woman, but in reality, she had unwittingly fallen into another principled misunderstanding.
Whether it was after being drunk by Ling Ling, or being wronged, or returning home with He Han on a rainy night, most ordinary people would behave very cautiously and make all kinds of preparations in advance. However, Luo Zijun can always let He Han heroically save her because of these incidents. This makes one wonder if she really needs the protection of others, or if in her subconscious, someone will do the aftermath for her. As a result, there is a touch of indulgence and casualness in her heart.
It is precisely because Luo Zijun blurred the boundaries between the two, and there will be times of catharsis, injury and weakness, that she gave He Han the opportunity to save the beauty again and again.
Tang Jing's sincerity and enthusiasm for friendship, as well as her restraint and patience in love, not only failed to bring her what she desired, but made her lose everything, which not only caused her to lose her friendship, but also made her lose love.
It is true that those who are prone to tears can get candy, while those who are sensible are left uncared for.
Luo Zijun and Tang Jing are close friends, and it was when Luo Zijun encountered a low point in her life that Tang Jing encouraged her to regain her strength and face life bravely with a strong and protective attitude. However, when Tang Jing fell into an emotional predicament, Luo Zijun deprived her and He Han of the opportunity to be happy.
Tang Jing once mistakenly thought that Vivian was her greatest rival, but later she thought that her greatest rival was her excessive self-esteem. However, Xiao Wall has become a real rival in love, and the person she has never guarded against is her real rival. What makes her feel even more ridiculous is that she also fantasized about the future in the arms of her rival. Now, betrayed by her most trusted friend and favorite man, Tang Jing's despair can be imagined.
The deep friendship between Luo Zijun and Tang Jing for more than ten years has completely become estranged under the influence of He Han. In the face of Tang Jing's cynicism and polite attitude, Luo Zijun tried her best to save the relationship and burst into tears, but no matter what, she was not wronged. She said that if she hadn't chosen this lifestyle herself, she would never have chosen this marriage. Getting too close and emotionally related to your best friend's boyfriend or ex-boyfriend has become something that all three of you will feel embarrassed about. But in modern society, almost all women will take the initiative to avoid this embarrassing situation and choose to leave on their own.
Although Luo Zijun seems to have been growing on the surface, she has actually found a shortcut in life. He Han shielded her from the wind and waves in life, but she didn't really participate in it, and her upbringing didn't make her truly spiritually independent. In this process, she herself has been forced, used, and deceived. In the end, he was forced into a dark world. Therefore, the fact that these three people can achieve today's achievements is completely planned by Luo Zijun! Her father was a soldier and her mother was a teacher, and she was sent to school from an early age.!!
Luo Zijun always regarded He Han as a lifesaver in her life, and she thought too much about her own problems and ignored the feelings of others. She immersed herself in her own world when she needed to be sober, and when she needed to get away, she gave He Han the opportunity to get close to her heart. Luo Zijun took everything for granted and took for granted, and then put on a harmless and pitiful posture as a victim.
In reality, destiny has a finite amount of resources for everyone. Luo Zijun didn't want to lose anything, which is why she let everything go off the rails and embarked on a path that she couldn't control.
Unfortunately, rightly or wrongly, everyone has to pay the price for their ignorance. Love is essentially right, but some people can't be affected by it from the beginning, so it's best to cherish Tang Jing and stay away from Luo Zijun!!