Hello everyone, I'm Nabao, today let's talk about "Know", why Minglan ended one of his marriages with his words?
Why does He Hongwen look down on Minglan more than Qi Heng?Everyone watched the TV series and felt that He Hongwen loved Minglan very much, but he had too much helplessness for Cousin Cao!But readers who have read the original book know that in fact, He Hongwen still looks down on Minglan because Minglan is a concubine!In the original book, it is said that Gu Tingye's two daughters got married, Sister Rong married the upstart Chang family, and Sister Xian married the Marquis of Yongchang. He Hongwen and his wife talked about this matter, He Hongwen said: "Although Sister Rong occupies the name of Miss Gu, in the end, she is a concubine, and her status is low!."”
It can be seen from this sentence that He Hongwen cares about the distinction between concubines and concubines, so he actually looks down on Minglan in his heart.
At the beginning, He Hongwen and Minglan were arranged on a blind date between their grandmothers, and before Cousin Cao appeared, He Hongwen showed great joy to Minglan . Minglan had just been rejected by the little grandfather Qi Heng at that time, and it was when she was sad, when He Hongwen appeared and comforted Minglan who had just fallen out of love, even Minglan herself thought that He Hongwen was her best destination. Indeed, it stands to reason that the He family has neither an official position nor a complicated family relationship, and he himself has inherited the family's medical skills and understands women. 
When he was with Minglan , he also took great care of and respected Minglan very much, Minglan would not work too hard to marry in the past, and she would never suffer hardship. He Hongwen really likes Minglan , but he doesn't like it that much, just like Minglan himself said: "Brother He doesn't think about me in his heart." This is because Minglan knows that He Hongwen likes and loves her, but he doesn't love so much that he can give up other women around him for Minglan !So when Minglan and He Hongwen's marriage was ruined by Gu Tingye, Nabao felt that although Gu Tingye planned for himself this time, it could be regarded as avoiding certain risks for Minglan this time. 
Compared with the little grandfather Qi Heng, although he has the shackles of his own family, at least the little grandfather really loves Minglan. And He Hongwen is simply a ** air conditioner, he can't let go of his cousin Cao, and he also wants to marry Minglan and enter the door. Since Cousin Cao was found out by Gu Tingye, it means that Minglan and He Hongwen's marriage can't be completed!Because of He Hongwen's thoughtful comfort to Minglan and even the liking he showed after Cousin Cao appeared, all of them were gone!didn't expect He Hongwen to do the most disgusting thing, he brought Cousin Cao to Minglan in front of Minglan who wanted to talk to Cousin Cao well, but Cousin Cao pretended to be pitiful directly in front of He Hongwen, causing He Hongwen's pity. 
He Hongwen turned his head and said to Minglan that putting Cousin Cao in the outer courtyard would not affect their lives. At this time, Minglan knew that in He Hongwen's heart, there was not only himself, but he also liked Cousin Cao, so Minglan directly said his thoughts. Minglan said: "The Lang Jun I want to marry, if the most important thing in my heart is not me, then I would rather not marry for the rest of my life, and I will not swallow this bowl of raw rice!."If you want me to serve a husband with the girl of the Cao family, I can't agree, with me, I can't have her, let her be a concubine, a partial house, a maid, a rough maid, no!At this time, He Hongwen said to Minglan: "In my heart, you are the most important person!."Although He Hongwen said such things, he was still shaken by Cousin Cao's death, in fact, He Hongwen's biggest weakness was that he was too kind. 
Minglan also told her grandmother about this, and she felt that the lowest part of He Hongwen's character was soft-heartedness!This time Minglan was actually an ultimatum to the He family, but He Hongwen obviously didn't look down on Minglan either. Seeing that Cousin Cao's matter could not be resolved, He Hongwen took the initiative to find Minglan 's grandmother, saying that his mother recognized Cousin Cao as her righteous daughter. This sentence actually shows that the He family still can't give up the Cao family, and they won't give up the cousin Cao who is not only infertile, but also disfigured for the sake of a mere Minglan concubine!As mentioned earlier, and the little grandfather Qi Heng really loves Minglan , but because of the shackles of the family, there is no way to be with Minglan . He just chose the family between the family and Minglan , he really liked Minglan . 
I always felt that Gu Tingye was not worthy of Minglan before, he was not only much older than Minglan , but also had children in the outer room and a lot of peach blossom debts. In order to marry Minglan , he tried his best to play tricks, in fact, now that I look at it, Gu Tingye is the most suitable for Minglan !Qi Heng and He Hongwen both have things that they can't give up, even if Minglan marries, they may not be happy. But Gu Tingye said: "I am the oldest in the men's pile, and you are the oldest in the women's pile!.""Indeed, Gu Tingye also fulfilled what he said and gave Minglan happiness!