Have you ever been in a situation where you worked hard to change your destiny, only to find yourself stuck in the same place and not making any progress?
Have you ever felt that the people around you are mediocre and incompetent, without any pursuits, but always laugh at your ideals and hit your confidence?
Have you ever wondered if you have an extraordinary talent, but you are always overlooked and not recognized and respected?
If you've ever been in any of the above situations, then congratulations, you've encountered a life's worst annoyance - the law of the flock.
What is the law of the flock?
The law of the flock refers to the fact that in a group, as the number of groups increases, the average level of the group will gradually decrease, and it will tend to the lowest level.
The origin of this law is due to the characteristics of the flock. The chickens in the flock, will always attack each other to show their superiority. And in this process, the strongest chicken is often brought down by the other chickens joining forces, and the weakest chicken is bullied by the other chickens. Eventually, there are only a few medium or low chickens left in the flock, and the behavior and thinking of these chickens will become more and more consistent, forming a homogeneous phenomenon.
The same law applies to human society. In a person's circle, if the level of the circle is not high, then the people in the circle will influence each other, making the level of the circle lower and lower, and it is more and more difficult to break through.
This is why some people obviously have high potential, but because they are in a low-level circle, they are assimilated by the circle, and eventually become mediocre and incompetent, and have no income.
In fact, it is very simple, just look at the people in the circle, whether they have the following characteristics:
Lack of willingness to learn and progress, always satisfied with the status quo, unwilling to accept new knowledge and skills;
Lack of ability to innovate and create, always doing the same thing over and over again, afraid to try new methods and ideas;
Lack of responsibility and the spirit of responsibility, always shirk responsibility, dare not face problems and challenges;
Lack of self-confidence and self-esteem, always inferior and self-pitying, afraid to show their strengths and characteristics;
Lack of a sense of cooperation and sharing, always selfish, unwilling to help others, and unwilling to accept help from others;
Lacking integrity and integrity, always lying and deceiving, unreasonable, and untrustworthy.
If you find that there are many people in your circle with the above characteristics, then congratulations, you have entered a low-level circle, and you have been trapped by the law of the flock.
In fact, it is very simple, as long as you do the following:
Insist on learning and progressing, constantly improve their knowledge and skills, and expand their horizons and thinking;
Insist on innovation and creativity, constantly try new things and methods, and find their own advantages and characteristics;
Adhere to responsibility and responsibility, constantly face problems and challenges, and bravely assume their own responsibilities;
Adhere to self-confidence and self-esteem, constantly recognize and affirm yourself, and be brave to show your own style;
Insist on cooperation and sharing, constantly help and thank others, and be brave enough to accept and repay others' help
Adhere to integrity and integrity, constantly tell the truth and do practical things, and bravely abide by the truth and credit.
If you can do the above, then congratulations, you have freed yourself from the law of the flock and you are on your way to success.
Of course, none of this can be done overnight, you need to put in a lot of effort and time, and you also need to bear a lot of pressure and difficulties.
However, you have to believe that as long as you persevere, you will definitely see different scenery, you will definitely meet different people, and you will definitely have a different life.
You have to remember that your circle determines your fate. You have to choose a high-level circle, a circle that can motivate you, support you, help you, a circle that can allow you to grow, progress, and succeed.
You have to remember that you are a crane, you do not belong to the flock, you belong to the sky. You have to stay away from the chickens, you have to fly to the sky, you have to show your charm, you have to achieve your dreams.
You have to remember that you are a person of achievement, you are a person worthy of respect, and you are a person who can change the world.
You are you.
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