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The third season of "Goodbye Darling" has started, and a special couple has caught the attention of the audience. The couple, named Wang and Zhang Shuo, got married three years ago but have not yet received their marriage certificate. This method was proposed by Wang Sleepy, which confused many people. Isn't it a disregard for women's rights if they don't get a license to get married?
In real life, women often have to take on more responsibilities as family members, and obtaining a certificate is an important means to protect women's rights. Without proof, women give birth for free, not only bearing the responsibility of childbirth, but also facing various risks. In the show "Goodbye Lover", the couple has always touched the hearts of the audience. Despite the deep relationship between the two, the audience agreed that they should break up, and some even asked for a divorce.
Such a scene may make you wonder why some women are reluctant to study the dilemma of "insecurity". This can be caused by a variety of reasons, including expectations and trust in married life, deep dependence on a partner, and anxiety about the future.
Women are reluctant to obtain a marriage license.
1.Financial independence.
Women are now more financially independent than in the past. It reduces your responsibilities at home and makes it easier for you to achieve your financial goals at work. As a result, they may be less interested in getting a certificate.
2.Emotional needs.
Despite women's financial independence, they still need emotional fulfillment. As the saying goes, talking about money hurts feelings, but you don't have to talk about money to talk about feelings. Women worry that marriage will weaken their status and rights in the family, but at the same time they yearn for a warm and loving family. Therefore, they choose to get married without wanting to bear any legal responsibility for it.
3.Security.
As women become stronger, their needs become more diverse. However, not all men are responsible and strong. So, even if a woman wants to spend the rest of her life with this man, she will hesitate because of her insecurity. Therefore, they choose to wait and see and wait until the time is right to make a decision.
Psychology of undocumented married women.
1.Difference Between Love and Marriage: The relationship between lovers can change at any time, but marriage comes with responsibilities. After receiving the marriage certificate, both parties need to take responsibility and obligations to the family. As a result, many women choose to get married without a marriage license to avoid the stress of this responsibility.
2. The impact of divorce: Divorced women may encounter many difficulties in the process of finding new happiness. If you choose not to get a marriage certificate, there will be no problem of remarriage and divorce, and the psychological pressure will be less in the future. Therefore, many women will choose to get married without a marriage license.
3. Age problem: In today's society, the age group of love is getting younger and younger. In the city, I see a lot of couples who are younger than junior high school students. However, in China, you must be of legal age to receive a marriage certificate. In general, the age of marriage is 22 for men and 20 for women.
Reasons why girls don't want to get married.
There are many reasons why girls do not want to get married, one of which is that they often have a fear of marriage. In today's fast-paced life and high work pressure, the divorce rate remains high, making many women worry about whether their future life will be happy. In addition, some girls may have lived in a home where their parents divorced from an early age and may have a fear of marriage. They are reluctant to take on the responsibility of marriage because they think it is easier to fall in love than to get married. In order to get rid of fear, boys can take them to weddings more often, so that they can experience the sweetness of married life.
Another reason is that girls care too much about their parents. For a girl, getting married means that she has to leave her family. Many girls worry that if the topic of marriage is brought up, they will disappoint their parents. In this case, the boy takes the initiative to contact the girl's parents, expresses his determination to marry the girl, and together with the girl's parents, convinces the girl that even if the girl is married, the girl's parents are relatives and can get the girl married. Understand. And will bless her.
Another reason is that girls perceive boys as immature or at the wrong time. They believe that boys are not suitable for marriage because they cannot afford to take on family responsibilities or because the financial pressures of their current lives are too great. After starting a family, girls tend to think more about various trivial things than boys, such as buying a house, buying a car, taking care of children, etc. If the timing is not right, the girl may reject the boy's marriage proposal.
If you have thoughts that you don't want to get married, it's best to try to address your concerns about marriage and your partner rather than actually getting married. Consider whether it's your own inner insecurity or if there's something about the other person that makes you untrustworthy. Express yourself as much as you can, organize everything, and let both parties face the problem together. Maybe you'll find some recognition and a new beginning in your relationship.