My sister has two children, the eldest and the second are two extreme temperaments, the second is eccentric, active in thinking, although naughty and troublesome, but in the matter of learning Xi sister rarely worries.
On the contrary, the eldest sister's study and Xi were heartbroken, and she devoted herself to counseling and education, but with little effect. Especially every exam of the little nephew, it gives my sister a headache.
Obviously, I can understand it in class, and I can do it when tutoring homework, but once I get to the exam room, I won't, and even the mistakes are outrageous, and the mistakes are varied.
The plight of the little nephew is not uncommon, and even many classmates have similar problems, why does this happen?And how to solve it?Teacher Zhou Shengmeng of Kyushu Jinbang Family Education has compiled the following views for you.
First: Listening and doing are two different things.
Understanding does not mean that you will do it, understanding is very simple, the teacher in the classroom step by step, in-depth explanation, it can be said that as long as you listen to the lecture, you can understand.
But what will be tested is the ability to think, hands-on ability, if the thinking is lacking, not good at analyzing the correlation between conditions and problems, then it will not be so difficult to understand!
Second, the homework examines the knowledge of the chapters, and the exam examines the coherence of the knowledge.
The homework is relatively simple, examining the content of a single knowledge chapter, and it is completed after the teacher has just explained the knowledge points, which belongs to short-term memory.
However, the content of the exam is relatively complex, and the examination is more about the coherence and systematization of knowledge, and the examination is more about long-term memory.
Third: the exam will not.
Part of the reason why I make mistakes in the exam is because of the lack of time for the exam, or because I don't know the exam skills and strategies.
Many children encounter problems that they can't know, and Xi inertia solves the problems that they can't solve first, so they get stuck for a long time, and time slowly moves away in the tip of the horns.
How to fix it?First, change the mentality.
If we want to solve the problem of not being able to understand and do it, we must understand the reasons, and in order to solve these "reasons", we should always start from the topic and think about the problems and conditions of the topic, rather than thinking aimlessly.
Second: change your mindset.
Don't take the exam too seriously, treat the exam as a regular homework practice Xi and treat it as an exam when you usually write homework, so as to train your psychological quality.
Calm down, the more you encounter the exam, the more calm you must be, treat it calmly, and even relax with appropriate entertainment.
Parenting is not easy, blind education, no rules, can only achieve counterproductive effects, to be a wise parent, in order to help children grow and become talents!
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