In this life, people must be self-aware, and when their ability is not enough, they should improve their ability, don't be greedy for things that exceed their ability, and don't chase a life that is completely incompatible with their ability.
Remember, every claim you take, you've secretly marked your chips.
If your abilities are not worthy of your ambitions and desires, the end is doomed to be a disaster.
Su Yue had come into contact with a woman who took the initiative to be a third party before
She was still a married woman at the time, and she had been in love with her husband for three years and married for three years.
I got married in a hurry because I was pregnant, and the relationship between the husband and wife was not bad, but the economic conditions were not too good, because the two got married in a hurry not long after graduating from college.
The salary is not high, there is no savings, and the family conditions are average, so there is no way to give much help, and there are children to raise, so it is more difficult financially, and the two of them have a hard time.
At this time, she met a very rich man and offered to develop with her.
This mistress knew that this man had a wife and children, but he still chose to be with a cheating man.
At first, it was said that in order to give the child a better life, the money given by the lover was spent at home.
But slowly, she wanted a better life.
began to complain that her husband was incapable and not as good as her lover.
Xiao San has changed, and her husband is slowly noticing.
Later, I found out that Xiao San was cheating and was a third party to other married men, but because he had children, he also had feelings for Xiao San, and he felt that Xiao San had changed his mind for money.
I just want to give Xiao San a chance, persuade Xiao San to break off with the cheating man, and go home to live a good life.
Her husband also advised her to be careful, the cheating man is so rich, and his wife is definitely not bad.
In case he is discovered by someone's wife, the mistress may be retaliated against or something.
But Xiao San couldn't listen to it at all, she felt that she had a good life with a cheating man.
also felt that her husband was preventing her from living a good life, and her husband was a drag.
continued to insist on being with her lover, and even sneered at her husband.
Her husband couldn't accept it, so he chose to divorce directly, and Xiao San did not hesitate.
She didn't ask for anything, and she didn't want to give child support, and her husband didn't ask for anything.
This mistress thought that without the drag of her husband and children, she would be able to live a good life with the cheating man.
At the beginning, it was true that a few months of chic days passed, and the cheating man knew that she was divorced.
gave a lot of money, and spent money to buy an apartment for Xiao San, and asked Xiao San to take a driver's license to buy it for Xiao San.
There is also more time to go to the mistress, more money is spent, more time is spent, and the exposure naturally becomes more.
So the extramarital affair between the cheating man and the mistress was discovered, and the original partner made trouble for a while.
The cheating man did not break off with Xiao San, and Xiao San mistakenly believed that the cheating man had true feelings for her.
She began to want to seek a high position, and she was not satisfied with the days of just taking "a little money".
While coaxing the cheating man to divorce, she provoked the original wife.
As a result, the cheating man did not divorce, which angered the original partner, and the original partner directly threatened the cheating man.
The cheating man took back the house he bought for the mistress, and he had to break up with the mistress, but the original partner was still unwilling.
Let the cheating man provide evidence, sue the mistress, and let the mistress return all the money he received.
Xiao San didn't have any savings at all, and a lot of the previous money was spent on the family in front of himXiao San began to be scared, begging for a cheating man, saying that he had true feelings for a cheating man.
In order to divorce a cheating man, it is not necessary to let the cheating man divorce and marry her.
As a result, the cheating man said that it was too late, and if Xiao San was quiet as a third party, he could still hold on for a few years.
But the mistress is too greedy, wants too much, and wants to divorce the cheating man.
It is impossible for him to divorce, even if he is divorced, he will find a woman with comparable conditions, and he will not marry a mistress.
Because the junior is not suitable to be a wife, he can only be a junior because the junior is not qualified.
The cheating man was greatly affected because the mistress crossed him to provoke the original partner, causing the original partner to make things bigger, he was greatly affected, and he showed no mercy to the mistress, not only did the words be ugly, but also planned to provide the mistress with evidence of the money according to his wife's request, so that his wife would ask for the money back, and the cheating man directly said to the mistress that he didn't care about the money, but in order to make his wife angry, he could only do this.
This junior took the initiative to borrow money and repaid a lot of money before he was not prosecuted.
She has no money to pay off her debts, and she wants to find her ex-husband, but she is also rejected, and she has nothing is the end.
If virtue is not worthy, it will be punished by heaven.
If a person lacks virtue or ability, but has an excessively high status or treatment, then she is at risk of disaster or retribution.
Most of the juniors are not worthy of virtue, because the conditions are not enough to match the men with good conditions.
Therefore, it is impossible to get married through normal love and find a man who satisfies Xiao San.
Xiao San can only start by other means to be a third party who does not require any virtues and conditions.
But if she is not worthy, she is not worthy, even if she relies on means to get to the top, she is still not a man with better conditions.
Sooner or later, they will still be disgusted by cheating men, and even many men will not marry a mistress even if they really want to divorce.
The juniors thought that they had a short period of time and got the benefits, and they would be fine if they didn't ask for a high position
The label of the third party is a lifelong thing, and retribution is still to come!
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