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Nursing homes are now a sunrise industry, which also reflects a problem in society. According to netizens, the well-known singer Yu Shuzhen also chose to live in a nursing home. For a time, this news caused controversy on the Internet, and her two children were accused of "unfilial piety".
It wasn't until Yu Shuzhen personally revealed the truth that ** gradually subsided, and netizens had deeper respect for this singer. So, what was the reason why she chose to live in a nursing home in her later years?
What other social problems does this incident reflect?
01 The real reason for being admitted to a nursing home.
As the years passed, Yu Shuzhen, who was once dazzling on the stage, entered her twilight years.
She chose to retire with her husband early and spend her old age in peace. However, surprisingly, she and her husband chose to live in a nursing home.
The decision quickly sparked controversy on the Internet, with people accusing her children of being "unfilial" and "not fulfilling their responsibilities of support". Facing the ** that was about to get out of control, Yu Shuzhen personally came forward to explain the whole story.
In fact, initially she lived with her children. The children are indeed very filial, and in order to let the elderly live a comfortable life, they have even changed many living Xi. However, the elderly couple did not want to be a burden on their children's lives, so they decided to move to a nursing home.
When the idea was proposed, it was immediately opposed by the children. Not only do you have to deal with the question of whether you are willing to let your parents go to a nursing home, but once it gets out, the children will be blamed by **.
However, Mr. and Mrs. Yu insisted on going. "Your dad and I both felt that the nursing home was more suitable for us, and now the nursing home is well equipped and we prefer to be around our peers.
After listening to the wishes of the parents, the children were worried, but they also understood their choice. In the end, the old couple happily moved into a nursing home and lived a more comfortable life.
They chatted with their peers every day, basked in the sun, and occasionally went to sing together, living a very comfortable life. However, I didn't expect this decision to attract the criticism of my children.
After Yu Shuzhen's explanation, some netizens understood, and some still questioned it. Either way, the old couple lived the life they liked.
It is worth mentioning that Yu Shuzhen and her husband have always had a good relationship, and there is almost no time to quarrel.
When they were young, they started from scratch and experienced hardships together, developing from a family of two to a family of four, which was indeed not easy.
02 Career and love are both harvested.
At the age of 20, Yu Shuzhen was invited by the Tianjin Opera House, which provided her with a good development opportunity. Coming here, she can not only give full play to her talents and realize her dreams.
This place means a lot to her, not only fulfilling her dreams, but also meeting important people in her life here.
As Yu Shuzhen continued to grow in the theater, she began to have a large group of suitors around her. However, at that time, she did not have the intention of falling in love, devoted herself to her career, and was indifferent to emotions. Although she is not in a hurry to fall in love, the people around her are in a hurry, and someone introduces her to someone every day.
Out of politeness, she barely coped with the kindness of her colleagues. To her surprise, the person most frequently introduced to her by her colleagues turned out to be a colleague surnamed Yan.
After a period of curiosity, she decided to get to know the popular Mr. Yan. Under the introduction of a colleague, the two met smoothly and started a relationship.
This colleague surnamed Yan has long been moved by her, but I heard that she doesn't want to fall in love, so she has never dared to act rashly. Unexpectedly, she actually took the initiative to express that she wanted to know him. For this meeting, he prepared for a long time, hoping to make the best impression on her.
After that, the two began to contact frequently, and Yu Shuzhen felt like a princess by Mr. Yan's side. He knows her likes and likes like her all the time, and in her heart, he is one of the few people who is really good to her.
In the end, they came together and became the "fairy couple" in the theater. The two entered the palace of marriage not long after they were together, and they had a son and a daughter after marriage.
Yu Shuzhen's career has also achieved rapid development while being proud of love. She was appreciated by Lu Yuan, and the two collaborated on the song "Our Life is Full of Sunshine", which became her famous song.
Since then, her career has taken off and she has gradually become a high-profile singer. After becoming famous, she often sighed about life, after all, before she became famous, she was just a child from a poor family, and she didn't dare to look forward to today's life.
03 Children from poor families are in charge of the family early.
Yu Shuzhen was born in a poor family in rural Hebei, with a poor family background and often not enough to eat.
She is the eldest sister in the family, and there are 8 younger siblings below, and the responsibility of taking care of them naturally falls on her shoulders. For as long as she can remember, she has been a "little mother" to her younger siblings.
Although life is poor, the family is full of laughter and laughter when they are together. However, this happiness came to an abrupt end when she was 8 years old. Due to an accident, her mother unfortunately passed away, and the family lost a labor force.
Life gets harder, but she doesn't have time to be sad because she still has to take care of her younger siblings. Fortunately, the appearance of the stepmother changed the tragic life situation. Her stepmother was kind and kind, not only taught them how to behave in the world, but also gave them all the good things.
The family's life gradually improved with the arrival of their stepmother, and at the age of 13, the family moved to Tianjin.
This relocation became a turning point in her life. In order to supplement her family, she went to work in a factory and did some simple manual labor. It wasn't until she participated in the theatrical performance that year that her singing talent was discovered, and then she entered a theater in Tianjin.
With her talent, she became a high-profile singer and actress, while also meeting the most important people in her life. She finally lived a good life, and her relationship with her husband has been sweet to this day.
Epilogue. Today, Yu Shuzhen is 87 years old, and she is living happily in a nursing home, sharing family fun with her husband.
Therefore, the elderly living in nursing homes do not necessarily have unfilial children, and today's nursing homes are different from the past. Yu Shuzhen's children respect their parents' choices to the greatest extent, who can say that they are not filial?