When we are in a social situation, we often can't help but express our thoughts.
But sometimes, inappropriate words can affect our image and social relationships, causing unnecessary misunderstandings and contradictions.
So, what should we do about it?
Yang Jiang said: "Opening your mouth is a curse, and closing your mouth is a blessing." Keep your mouth shut in the group, and keep your heart alone”
Let's think seriously in our lives, how to achieve "opening your mouth is a curse, closing your mouth is a blessing"?
How to keep your mouth shut in the group and keep your heart alone?
01 Woe to the mouth
In life, we often get into a lot of troubles because of the war of words.
Many times, it is because we open our mouths too quickly and speak falsely, which makes us unpleasant.
Or maybe we speak so lightly that we find that we can't take it back.
This not only harms other people's feelings, but also hurts one's own image.
In social networking, we need to use smart language skills to understand the psychology of others and better communicate in crowds.
In every communication, we need to think rationally about whether our words will cause adverse consequences
"Woe to open your mouth" does not mean that we cannot speak, but that we need to learn appropriate words to express ourselves.
Let's strike a balance between bold expression and wise silence, and master the skills of communication between words to make ourselves socially handy.
02 Shut up is a blessing
In life, we may encounter unnecessary troubles due to inappropriate words.
But more often than not, we will be misunderstood by others and even harm our own interests by saying the wrong thing.
So when we are faced with some difficult problems, keep silent and calm down and think.
We will be able to analyze the problem objectively and find the best solution to solve it, while also protecting our reputation and credibility.
If we speak freely, speak at will, our troubles will be endless.
When communicating with people, we need to express it appropriately.
Let us keep in mind the principle of "Shut up is bliss" in our lives, and use appropriate silence to protect ourselves and others.
03 Keep your mouth shut at the group
In social situations, we need to be sensitive to words and feelings, and use appropriate language skills to communicate with others.
In group gatherings, we can often hear a variety of words.
Some are pleasant, others are uncomfortable.
Sometimes, in pursuit of so-called "cordiality", we accidentally say offensive words, which damages the communicative effect.
A more appropriate approach would be to find a little bit of resonance to make the words more moving.
It's important to always keep in mind that keeping your mouth shut allows us to express ourselves more freely in large and complex social situations.
Not only does it make us more comfortable in social situations, but it also allows us to build more friendly relationships in interpersonal interactions.
I hope that we can all think seriously and find a more suitable way to socialize with each other, so that we can socialize more freely and freely.
04 Be alone and keep your heart
In modern society, people are always busy with work and socializing, and rarely have time to think about the depths of their hearts, find their inner peace and improve their self-worth.
But when we are alone, we can find the peace that is truly our own.
We can take a break from our busy schedules, relieve our daily stress, and relax.
In this way, we can better examine our hearts and discover our strengths and weaknesses.
In this free space, we can appreciate nature, read books, and write down our experiences to enrich our spiritual world.
Only by being alone can you find a life that belongs to you, free, and truly worthwhile.
In daily life, we should give ourselves more time to be alone to understand ourselves comprehensively, truly and deeply.
Discover yourself in solitude, release your mind and spirit, and find meaning and value in life.
05 Write at the end
In modern society, the fast-paced life makes it difficult to maintain balance, and life and work are always busy.
We should "stay alone and keep our hearts" when we have enough time in life, reflect on ourselves, find problems, and give ourselves a chance to improve ourselves.
When communicating in a group, "keep your mouth shut", use appropriate discourse skills to express yourself and understand others, and maintain good interpersonal relationships.
Let's think deeply and let "opening your mouth is a curse, closing your mouth is a blessing." The wisdom of keeping one's mouth shut and guarding one's heart in solitude is integrated into our lives.
Let a good lifestyle become a lifelong creed, let us laugh at life and treat interpersonal relationships calmly.
Give yourself a chance to relax, keep yourself positive, and have a better life!