The subtext of an honest person is cowardice, fear, and obedience.
And the bottom counterattack relies on daring to fight, shameless, and lifelessIt's probably life and death, and if you don't accept it, you will do it.
Everyone wants to make decent money, but the living environment of the people at the bottom is indeed a bit harsh. Because the lower the bottom, the more ferocious the animals, the less people pay attention to the rules, and the more complicated the people are.
The law of the jungle, this is the living environment of the bottom people, you want to kill from this, there is no gangsterism, can you do it?
Why are so many people who are bosses in n out of their hands?I'll tell you a case and you'll understand.
There was a leader who went to the construction site for the first time, and when he saw the workers, he smoked, but no matter what the command was, no one listened.
Later, the leader changed, and when he went to the construction site, he scolded people, and the result was that the workers came all the way to bring him cigarettes, and when he found the problem, he would reprimand and correct it on the spot, and often threatened them with fines and dismissals.
He later said that if he was polite, pleasant, and warm to the workers, they would think that you were not strong, and that you were easy to bully, and the result would be that you would be disobedient, inch-wise, and misbehaving.
Do you know why?
Because it is disrespectful to be close.
This is the only way to deal with people who are too low-level, otherwise they will think that you have a good temper and turn their heads to bully you.
People who are full of gangsterism have one thing in common:
They are always aggressive;Always believe in your own initiative;Always feel like you can do something to change the world in front of you. And it is precisely because this kind of person is full of inner energy that he always has to play games with the outside world, and even fight. So from the objective point of view, the body is more aggressive, and there is always an impulse to disobey the rules. So most of them were not good children in the eyes of teachers and parents when they were young;Grown up is not a good person in the typical sense. This temperament is very charming.
So, how to exercise a person's gangsterism?
I feel that the exercise is "gangster".
The first is to cultivate momentum first. Practice hard and learn the industry you are engaged in, and others only have to listen to what you say, then you will have momentum.
The second is not to be afraid of things, dare to grab and dare to do. The education we received since childhood was humility and courtesy, and it was Kong Rong to make pears. But in the business world, letting is a big taboo, and if you want to survive, you have to grab it.
When encountering difficulties, you can't shrink back, maybe you will pass as soon as you break through. In any industry, there is no one who will not encounter difficulties, but depending on how you deal with the difficulties encountered, if you are strong in your heart, you will be invincible, and if you shrink your head, you will achieve nothing.
The third is revenge.
Honest people are most afraid of conflicts with others, because once something happens, they will do nothing but shrink their necks and admit their cowardice, self-pity and self-pity. But if you want to fight back from the bottom, you have to be a little arrogant and skillfully face hard. After hardening, you will be surprised to find that most people in this world are actually paper tigers, and whoever can be open-minded will win in the end.
The fourth is "killing people".
Before the ancient generals set out on the march, the favorite thing for the main general to do was to kill people, and the more awesome the people killed, the better the deterrence.
Now that it is a society governed by the rule of law, it is illegal to kill people, but of course you can't kill people. And the gangsters are not fierce, the teeth and claws, the few things that beat people in Tangshan are not called banditry, they are purely hooligans, garbage, and the big brothers in society who are a little bit despised by them.
The top gangster is not angry and arrogant. Don't shoot lightly;But once you make a move, you don't have the power to fight back;It inspires awe from within.
Since ancient times, which one can achieve great things has no gangsterism, some are heroic, some are emperor, to put it bluntly, it is the temperament of being the boss.
This boss may not have strong professional ability, but he must dare to fight and dare to resist, so that everyone can have a sense of security.
In the final analysis, gangsterism is actually a strong temperament and a fearless courage.
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