The most painful thing is that there is a person who thinks about it day and night, and wants to see it but can't see it.
Thoughts are silent, but they are enough to make people crazy, it is the emptiness of the heart, and it is also the countless times that you want to talk and stop.
I think that everyone has a concern in their hearts, and there is a person who misses, maybe a lover, maybe an ex, maybe a first love, although the surface is silent, but the heart is already restless.
The feeling of missing is like this, I keep thinking of each other in my mind, obviously the other party is ordinary, but it always makes people forget, as if they have been hooked.
Whether it is a man or a woman, there will be a person who thinks about it for a long time, but there is a difference between a man who misses a person and a woman who misses a person.
01. Men miss a person, often after drinking.
Anyone who knows men knows that men miss someone, usually after drinking.
As the saying goes, it is not unreasonable to spit out the truth after drinking, and only when alcohol is paralyzed can it be easiest to reveal your true heart.
The emotions and thoughts that are still suppressed in the heart will be released after being half drunk, and no matter how deep the emotions are hidden on weekdays, they will also reveal flaws at the moment of drunkenness, and the man's inner defense line will become slightly weaker, and the feelings of longing will also come to his heart.
He began to recall the time spent with that person, those sweet smiles, warm words, and deep communication with that person, and after drinking, his thoughts were like a moving melody, echoing in his heart repeatedly, making people intoxicated.
At the same time, he would think of that person's every move, every word and smile, and every detail between them, and these memories were like a beautiful picture, slowly unfolding in his mind.
Rational men on weekdays will also have sensitive times, emotionally, men are always sensitive, but the form of expression is different, especially after drinking, men are extremely sensitive.
There are even some men who, when drunk, will have a lot of thoughts, talking to themselves and crying at the same time, as if there is some unbearable memory, as long as they touch that memory, it will collapse.
I have to say that every man has a longing woman in his mind, an unknown past.
Women miss someone, often in the middle of the night, because women's minds are full of emotion and poetry.
In the middle of the night, under the silent night sky, thoughts floated up, and the feeling of missing came like a tide, which was irresistible.
At this time, the woman's mind is extremely keen, the senses are infinitely magnified, and those suppressed feelings and emotions come to her heart.
Thoughts are like a greedy parasite that eats away at her mind, making her unable to sleep, unable to calm down, she will toss and turn in bed, unable to sleep, because the person who is missed lingers in her heart.
This feeling of longing is like a beautiful poem, full of graceful charm.
She was immersed in this feeling, as if she was in a wonderful dream, and the person who was missed, like a beautiful picture, constantly unfolded in her heart, so that she could not forget.
In the thoughts of the night, the woman will become more tender and delicate, she will think of every detail, every movement and every word of that person.
Her heart was filled with gratitude and admiration for him, and she longed to be able to see him again, to be able to be with him, to share each other's stories and feelings.
It's the same longing, but the difference between a man and a woman is completely different.
Men don't think of a person suddenly, but only when they are stimulated by some scenes or alcohol, they will think of each other.
As long as a woman sleeps and turns off the light, she will be inexplicably in a daze, thinking of insomnia alone, tossing and turning all night.
Nine out of ten men will spit out the truth after drinking, and nine out of ten women will toss and turn in the middle of the night and will not be able to sleep.