In a small village in my hometown, there is an in-law family who is facing the problem of resettlement because of the city's demolition policy. The whole family was busy around this issue, and I, as one of them, was also involved in this family feud.
Uncle, how should this house be allocated appropriately?I looked at my brother-in-law and said worriedly.
Well, this question is really tricky. We have to consider the needs and future development of each family member. The little uncle frowned and said in contemplation.
I think you will have three houses, you are young, and there is still a long way to go in the future. "I cautiously came up with my own proposal.
The little uncle looked at me in surprise: "How can this be?"Big brother, you are old and need to enjoy your old age well. My son is also older, and it is time for him to have his own home. ”
There are several other siblings in your hands, why do you share the house with my family?My daughter-in-law also interjected.
Sister-in-law, I didn't expect you to have such thoughts. I think you also know the situation at home, you see, the eldest brother is retired, the grandson is also in school, how good it is for the family to live together. The little uncle said with a smile.
I am a little touched that my brother-in-law is willing to give up his own interests for the sake of his family and everyone's happiness. Such a move made me feel powerless.
That's right, sister-in-law, don't worry about it. Leave these matters to the men in our family. "I stood by and persuaded my daughter-in-law.
But ......"My daughter-in-law wants to say something more.
Okay, that's it. My sister-in-law and I won't say anything more. "The little uncle made the final decision.
That night, I lay in bed thinking about my family. Although the uncle is young, he has mature wisdom and mind. His willingness to give up his own interests for the sake of his family struck me with a sense of admiration.
Sister-in-law, what are you worried about?My daughter-in-law cautiously walked over and asked with concern.
I ......I'm worried about my brother-in-law. Is this decision fair to him?I said with some hesitation.
Sister-in-law, if you really think this is unfair, why don't you talk to your brother-in-law in person?The daughter-in-law comforted.
What you say makes sense......I said in deep thought.
Uncle, let me tell you again, I don't agree with you giving us all the houses. I said firmly to my brother-in-law.
Big brother, you're here again. I've figured it out and this decision is best for the family. The little uncle said firmly.
But aren't you worried that doing so will cause conflict in your family?I said with some anxiety.
Big brother, I know you said this for the sake of family unity. But you have to trust me, it's the best option for everyone. The little uncle said in a firm tone.
I looked at my brother-in-law's resolute eyes, and I was a little moved. Perhaps, I really shouldn't have done much more.
Well, now that you've made your decision, I won't say anything more. I just hope that you can take good care of the family and don't let the conflicts in the family get deeper and deeper. I sighed softly and said helplessly.
That night, I watched the happy scene at home, but I always felt a little uneasy in my heart. Maybe it's because I can't fully accept my brother-in-law's approach, maybe it's because I'm worried about the future, in short, I have an indescribable feeling in my heart.
Sister-in-law, why do you keep worrying so much?My daughter-in-law asked softly.
Daughter-in-law, what do you think of my brother-in-law's decision?I asked suddenly.
The younger brother-in-law made this decision for the sake of family unity, and I think he is the biggest winner. The daughter-in-law said with a gentle smile.
I was stunned, and my daughter-in-law's words made me a little stunned. Yes, the little uncle resolutely made this decision for the unity of the family, and he not only gained the understanding and support of his family, but also occupied an important position in the family. Isn't that the biggest winner?
From then on, I no longer worry about things at home, because I understand that my brother-in-law's actions are for greater happiness. He does not seek fame and fortune, but only the well-being and unity of the family, and he is the biggest winner in the family.
After experiencing this family change, I have learned a truth: sometimes, only by letting go of interests can we achieve greater happiness. The little uncle's approach made me understand this truth.
Since then, I have paid more attention to the growth of my grandson and cherished the relationship with my daughter-in-law even more. I know I'm the biggest winner in this family battle. Because I learned the wisdom of letting go of interests, I learned that family unity is the most important thing.
Dad, you see, my brother-in-law's demolition money bought me a new house. "My daughter-in-law excitedly came to me with a set of property deeds.
Wow, that's so good!The little uncle is so generous. I said with some surprise.
Yes, the uncle said that this house is for our whole family, so that we can live a comfortable life. The daughter-in-law's face was full of joy.
When I heard the news, I was both moved and relieved. The brother-in-law has always considered the overall interests of the family in the matter of demolition and relocation, and he has always been able to decisively make the decision that is most beneficial to the family. In the matter of dividing the house, the brother-in-law put his own interests last, and did not give up because of family disputes, but gave our family a better future.
I have made some plans, we can rent out this house in a while, and the monthly rent can improve the living standard of our family. The daughter-in-law's eyes lit up.
yes, that's a good idea. My brother-in-law's approach made our family the biggest winners. I said with emotion.
That is, we have to thank the little uncle, he is really a person with great wisdom and a big pattern. The daughter-in-law said gratefully.
Well, we must cherish this family reunion and happiness. I said solemnly.
I look at the harmony and happiness of this family, and my heart is full of emotion. Our family can unite because of the wisdom of the little brother-in-law, in fact, it is the biggest winner. The generosity and tolerance of the uncle made each of us reap more happiness.
Since then, life at home has been getting better and better. The generosity and generosity of the little uncle have always affected each and every one of us. We also understand that only by knowing how to let go of interests can we achieve the happiness of family unity. The brother-in-law's approach has taught us true family unity and respect.
I think that each of us should be like a brother-in-law, regardless of personal gains and losses, and only work hard for the happiness and unity of the family. Because in this united family, everyone can be the biggest winner.
Grandpa, what are you doing?My grandson's voice interrupted my thoughts.
I'm thinking about my family. I turned around and said to my grandson with a smile.
Things to do at home?Is it the demolition money of the little uncle?Sun Tzu asked curiously.
Yes, the little uncle gave us all the houses, he is really a person who understands family unity. "I sincerely praised the little uncle's approach.
Well, my brother-in-law is like a hero in our family, and his generosity and wisdom have made the family more united and happy. Sun Tzu said with a smile.
Yes, the wisdom and generosity of the little uncle have given our family a better future. I said with emotion.
Grandpa, when I grow up, I want to be like my brother-in-law and contribute to the unity of the family. Sun Tzu said solemnly.
Good boy, having such a wish already makes grandpa very happy. I patted my grandson on the shoulder with emotion.
I looked at my grandson's serious eyes, and my heart was filled with joy and pride. My brother-in-law's approach not only influenced our family, but also subtly influenced the ideas of the younger generation, and inspired them to work hard for the unity of the family.
In this family, unity and tolerance are the most precious assets. My brother-in-law's approach is an example to each of us, and the unity and happiness he brings to us will be passed on from generation to generation. And this kind of family unity and happiness is the most precious wealth. May this unity and happiness continue forever and become our common home.
Grandpa and grandson sat together on a rocking chair in the yard enjoying the afternoon sun.
Grandpa, were you so obedient when you were a child?Sun Tzu asked mischievously.
Haha, I wasn't a good obedient boy when I was a child, and I often got into trouble. I smiled and touched my grandson's head.
How did you become so sensible?Sun Tzu asked curiously.
Because of the harmony and unity of the family, I have become more sensible. Sometimes, for the sake of everyone's happiness, it is actually important to let go of some small unhappiness. I said to my grandson seriously.
Grandpa, do you mean brother-in-law?The grandson asked with bright eyes.
Yes, the generosity and tolerance of the little uncle are worth learning from each of us. Sometimes, it is only by letting go of interests that you can achieve greater happiness. "I set an example for my grandson as a brother-in-law.
I understand that in the future, I will also learn to work hard for the happiness of my family like my brother-in-law. Sun Tzu said firmly.
Very well, you will definitely become an adult who knows how to be united and tolerant. "I am looking forward to my grandson's future.
In this big family family, each of us has become more united and happy because of the wisdom and generosity of the little uncle. Uncle Xiao's approach not only made us the biggest winner, but also paved a better future for each of us. Perhaps, it is the unity and happiness of this family that is the most precious wealth of each of our family members.
I believe that every grass and tree in the family contains the wisdom and tolerance of the little uncle. This wisdom and tolerance not only won happiness for our family, but also influenced the younger generation, especially our grandchildren, and inspired them to work hard for the unity of the family. May this unity and happiness continue forever and become our common home.